Originally posted by SilverPal:
I never expected to heard this from a gal... I'm quite shocked actually... Had the impression that only guys would vocalise this in this manner.
Guess the reason why guys are so incensed over this supposedly "harmless remarks" by the SPGs is that these remarks are false and slanderous to guys who are not white. If such remarks spread until it becomes fact by virtue of popularity, non whites would suffer the repercussion and be said to inferior to white men by no fault of theirs.
Of course I cannot discount the possibility of jealousy.
Oh i got that kind of racist sh!t from spgs/spm locally and overseas ...
Let me put it this way, they are b!tches and they don't know it. I say to hell with these shallow people and all the better they take their attitude and breed over in those ang moh/foreign countries and take all sorts of sh!t there. But if the local men keep complaining and whinning about all this ... it only makes them stand out as losers... and not winners of the hearts of the true gals who are good. If local guys cannot hold themselves above these remarks ... then I have to doubt their "quality" as well.
Just as M'sia/Indonesia somethimes unscathering remarks about sg. We can get angry but we do not need to react. We can band closer together or break apart. whatever. But mostly we should always choose our fights and not let every little things bother us so much.
These women/men who are racist against their own color, are unworthy of my mind to even make me process their existance. They are not going to be my friends or even anything closer. Their life is their choice. Why should I even be bothered about them? That is the point I do not understand about guys here where they get so worked up over these people to the extent of saying spiteful things against all the local gals - ie imported/foreign gal are better and blah... Serious most of the local gals don't care. If the local guys are confident of themselves, why should they worry about comparisons or even a little degoratory remarks from stupid people. They compare local women to foreign ones as well and we all know there are so much more degoratory remakrs about local gals. Did all the girls slam the guys or get all worked up? Did the guys simply keep reinforcing their narrow biased views?
But what is the secret of getting a gal... that is for every case, something the guy has to find out and not blame society or every gal out there ...
Nothing shocking. I do not like racism and I will not condone it from whites and especially non-white. I might understand whites having being racist as they are mostly stupid people. But to have my own race do it against me is most insulting. But I should also alter my perception and not have such a high standard of my own race...
I simply also choose to support my own race because I had dealt with lots of foreign white sh!t