Is JennTS really a transsexual???
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i don't like you , #!@#!@#!@#!@
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How does it feel being a trans?Originally posted by JennTS:oooh...I'm being featured...LOL.
yes, I'm a pre-op trans, you can ask the rest of my TS/TG sistas here for verification.
though you'll never catch me being so open about it in the real world. jenn isn't my real name really, just a nick.
truth is I'm really half playing a fool on the forums here, but at the same time getting some info on how Singaporeans are towards transsexuals. makes me wonder if I should move to the US.
anyone wanna ask me anything else now that I'm here?
none?
all sleeping I guess... *sigh*
edit: what did that guy say? tell me! tell me! tell me! lol.
oh and I did post my picture before but, no I'm not posting it again so, too bad. or you could ask another member to give you the URL but, doubt they cared enough to take it down.
Where is your "precious" kept after op?
No worries, i have nothing against you gals.
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Jenn..ask u har..wat u all do to the face..how come all so smooth? issit the foundation or issit eat the female hormones pill then become liak that?
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So JennTS what do you think of Singaporeans reacting to transsexual??? I am quite a conservative person and there is a special kind of person like transsexual I will overeact also don't know why maybe due to my mentality of thinking??? I think the government somehow diswelcome those gays,lesbians and transsexual as they may spoil the society. Like those person mixing aorund with normal people and may get influenced to it??? So JennTS are you really a transsexual???Originally posted by JennTS:oooh...I'm being featured...LOL.
yes, I'm a pre-op trans, you can ask the rest of my TS/TG sistas here for verification.
though you'll never catch me being so open about it in the real world. jenn isn't my real name really, just a nick.
truth is I'm really half playing a fool on the forums here, but at the same time getting some info on how Singaporeans are towards transsexuals. makes me wonder if I should move to the US.
anyone wanna ask me anything else now that I'm here?
none?
all sleeping I guess... *sigh*
edit: what did that guy say? tell me! tell me! tell me! lol.
oh and I did post my picture before but, no I'm not posting it again so, too bad. or you could ask another member to give you the URL but, doubt they cared enough to take it down.
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@gorby
how many times must i say, yes? its just that im pre-op, thats it.
the government disapproves of gays and lesbians, that i know, but i think they're fine with transsexuals (cept those at changi village) simply cause we're pretty much just like any other woman you see down the street.
but really i dont think we influence anyone to be like us, nor would we actually want to, if they're not. i'm pretty sure most of your like being guys and theres almost nothing i can do to make your want to become female, not that i would do that anyway, unless your come pming me for help saying that your have some gender issues.
@bo liao
its really just the female hormones that keeps your skin smooth. all you gotta do is intake more estrogen and your skin will get smoother in a few months lol. im not advicing you to do it though just for smoother skin.
@seow
how does it feel being a trans? no idea.
how does it feel being a girl? great!
"precious" is hardly the word i would use. i totally hate and despise that parasite between my legs which deprived me of my feminity at birth. i really have no idea what happens to it though. i'm just gonna leave that up to the surgeons to decide. whether they want to make something useful out of it or burn it i dont care.
@smaplionheart
go to hell. -
Wah... poor SMAPLionheart.. kena told to go to hell.
JennTS, when do u intend to go for the Op? I heard it hurts like hell.
Besides... what made u want to become a woman in the first place? -
well that bastard called me, and every other ts/tg for that matter, mentally sick.Originally posted by Shotgun:Wah... poor SMAPLionheart.. kena told to go to hell.
JennTS, when do u intend to go for the Op? I heard it hurts like hell.
Besides... what made u want to become a woman in the first place?
my op umm...if im lucky at the end of this year, before i go for NS. my familys sorta discussing it at the moment, no plans yet. if im unlucky a few years later, but should be before i hit 25 anyway.
i know it hurts alot but, well its either that or live with this stupid thing between my legs for the rest of my life. anyway i'll be asleep so it wont matter as much.
why i want to be a woman is, basically cause my whole life i've felt like im a female inside. i dont know why, i just do. its something unexplainable. aside from that i hate everything about being a male too. -
I see.. but there is a point of realisation that u want to be a woman/ girl. Was it much younger, like in sec school or pri school? And was there any influences that u recieved that convinced u're more female despite ur physical anatomy being male?
I'm kinda curious... was discussing similar topics over another forum. -
JennTS, just a qn.You can don't answer if you choose to.
Wld u tell your husband-to-be and your kids abt your past gender in future? -
If u after ops ,looks like Korean superstar 'Ha Ri Su'.Then it will be a different story...LOL! BTW,she looks like 100percent woman even better than some geniune women
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i was 4 when i first wanted to be a girl, though i recall wanting to wear a dress when i was 3.Originally posted by Shotgun:I see.. but there is a point of realisation that u want to be a woman/ girl. Was it much younger, like in sec school or pri school? And was there any influences that u recieved that convinced u're more female despite ur physical anatomy being male?
I'm kinda curious... was discussing similar topics over another forum.
i doubt there was really much which influenced me. and like i said, i dont know why, i just feel really strongly inside that im a girl.
when i was 5, i kinda wondered how come i was born a boy. i was partially convinced that my parents had the doctors performed a sex change op on me shortly after i was born cause they were desperate for a son.
i also often thought that my sister and i had swaped bodies since she was a tomboy and for me, just the exact opposite.
another thing, when i was 15 i hated every part of my body cause it had "male" stamped all over it due to the unfortunate effects of testerone. that was until i started taking birth control pills, and i really really loved my breasts when they started to grow. but for all the other "male" parts i totally despised them. -
I see. Did you ever make any attempts to try to adapt to being male?
As you grew up, did u participate in any "guy" stuff to try to feel more male?
Finally, by changing ur sex to become a female, would that make u feel that u've achieved ur ultimate goal in life? -
i never made any attempts to adapt simply cause i never felt that i should be male. i didnt really bother to participate in 'guy' activities, simply cause either i didnt enjoy them or it was about sick stuff.Originally posted by Shotgun:I see. Did you ever make any attempts to try to adapt to being male?
As you grew up, did u participate in any "guy" stuff to try to feel more male?
Finally, by changing ur sex to become a female, would that make u feel that u've achieved ur ultimate goal in life?
when i finally finish my op and all, well, thats really just the beginning of my life. its like finishing your uni education but thats just the start. -
So you do not believe in accepting someone for who they are? That is, in ur case, accepting urself for who u are?
So sorry, i'm not here to judge ur decision. I just want to hear ur views, and wonder if u have any doubts about this decision. Do you have any? -
uhhh, dont quite get you. do you mean me not accepting myself as being born male?Originally posted by Shotgun:So you do not believe in accepting someone for who they are? That is, in ur case, accepting urself for who u are?
So sorry, i'm not here to judge ur decision. I just want to hear ur views, and wonder if u have any doubts about this decision. Do you have any?
if thats what you mean then well...
my mind says im female.
my body says im male.
i like to give a little more weight to whats between my ears than between my legs.
anyway, im not male, im transsexual.
i accept myself as a transsexual. -
hey, so what do u look like? u said ur dad asked u attend as a guy but i do believe that u look like a girl. so?
but hey, i do respect u know, u dare to be who you are. steping out of the tradition. coming to think of it, whats ur race?
and hey, when ur (uh huh) started to grow at 15, werent u still in sch? did ur classmates have some reaction?
all the best to u girl!! -
@JennTSOriginally posted by JennTS:@gorby
how many times must i say, yes? its just that im pre-op, thats it.
the government disapproves of gays and lesbians, that i know, but i think they're fine with transsexuals (cept those at changi village) simply cause we're pretty much just like any other woman you see down the street.
but really i dont think we influence anyone to be like us, nor would we actually want to, if they're not. i'm pretty sure most of your like being guys and theres almost nothing i can do to make your want to become female, not that i would do that anyway, unless your come pming me for help saying that your have some gender issues.
@bo liao
its really just the female hormones that keeps your skin smooth. all you gotta do is intake more estrogen and your skin will get smoother in a few months lol. im not advicing you to do it though just for smoother skin.
@seow
how does it feel being a trans? no idea.
how does it feel being a girl? great!
"precious" is hardly the word i would use. i totally hate and despise that parasite between my legs which deprived me of my feminity at birth. i really have no idea what happens to it though. i'm just gonna leave that up to the surgeons to decide. whether they want to make something useful out of it or burn it i dont care.
@smaplionheart
go to hell.
Will you be proud to tell those people that you are transsexual to them and explain to them on the point of view on this if they are shocked or whatever Do you think that the society will accept you if you become a transsexual by interviewing for jobs and so on Do you want to get married in the future??? If so will you marry a guy or a female Btw transsexual operation is not cheap right and need to do anything before you go for the op like conseulling and all those If you want to go for the op I wish you good luck and hope that next time you can blend in into the society 
@Smaplionheart
Think before you post to avoid being flame by them as maybe they are not used to it (somehow sensitive) -
lets just say, so wot if she is, so wot if she isn't? I know she is one, and either way, she doesn't deserve harressment. Anyone here dun like gay/bi/transgendered people, u can jolly well F off. Your bigotry and your being proud of your bigotry ain't welcome here.
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i believe u wouldn't indulge in stuff u have no interest in. So wot makes u think she should participate in things she has no interest in just to be more 'guy'? seriously how much guts do u think it takes to accept that you're transgendered and go thru the transformation process? If it happened to any of you who are trying to make her question herself, can you face up to it? Or will u run and hide and go into denial and try to make yourself 'manly' and live a lie?Originally posted by Shotgun:I see. Did you ever make any attempts to try to adapt to being male?
As you grew up, did u participate in any "guy" stuff to try to feel more male?
Finally, by changing ur sex to become a female, would that make u feel that u've achieved ur ultimate goal in life? -
Originally posted by HENG@:lets just say, so wot if she is, so wot if she isn't? I know she is one, and either way, she doesn't deserve harressment. Anyone here dun like gay/bi/transgendered people, u can jolly well F off. Your bigotry and your being proud of your bigotry ain't welcome here. I still don't quite understand
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of course u don't. basically, i find that nobody is braver than a girl who's trapped in a man's body, but who tries her damned hardest to face up to that and be the girl she really is. And i find it disgusting that there are people trying to belittle her for that courage. Why would the same people who would applaude someone for an act of bravery belittle another form of courage in a person? Hypocrisy?Originally posted by gorby107: I still don't quite understand -
Different People have their different views on that some agree and disagree so you can't blame on it. See how they are being brought up whether they face this group of people like transsexual or not them maybe nerds and so on. It depends on personal behaviour just like me how you being brought up. How about you??Originally posted by HENG@:of course u don't. basically, i find that nobody is braver than a girl who's trapped in a man's body, but who tries her damned hardest to face up to that and be the girl she really is. And i find it disgusting that there are people trying to belittle her for that courage. Why would the same people who would applaude someone for an act of bravery belittle another form of courage in a person? Hypocrisy? -
Chill. My questions were not meant to belittle her. Just wanted to know how she came to her decision and whether if she tried to accept herself for what she was born as.Originally posted by HENG@:i believe u wouldn't indulge in stuff u have no interest in. So wot makes u think she should participate in things she has no interest in just to be more 'guy'? seriously how much guts do u think it takes to accept that you're transgendered and go thru the transformation process? If it happened to any of you who are trying to make her question herself, can you face up to it? Or will u run and hide and go into denial and try to make yourself 'manly' and live a lie?
I believe my posts have meant no insult. It was just to gain a little more insight into transgender issues. -
so u're saying racism or sexism is acceptable in someone if they were brought up that way? and that thinking that theft or robbery is ok because they were brought up that way is ok? I was brought up in a fairly conservative family. My parents are homophobic, so how come I can see otherwise? The way u r brought up gives u no right to blind yourself to the truth.Originally posted by gorby107:Different People have their different views on that some agree and disagree so you can't blame on it. See how they are being brought up whether they face this group of people like transsexual or not them maybe nerds and so on. It depends on personal behaviour just like me how you being brought up. How about you?? -
ok i accept that. i think that u just have to remember that she has her dignity as a human as well.Originally posted by Shotgun:Chill. My questions were not meant to belittle her. Just wanted to know how she came to her decision and whether if she tried to accept herself for what she was born as.
I believe my posts have meant no insult. It was just to gain a little more insight into transgender issues.