Guys (strangers ) who ask for girl's numbers...
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if everything is zen and zen is everything, then there is no such thing as everything, and zen is zen.Originally posted by alexkusu:Everything is Zen, Zen is everything. -
okok.. notedOriginally posted by mistyblue:Not everything is "fated". everything comes and goes.
How many guys would stay friends once they got to know this girl and the girl is not suitable? Zero.
How many guys have girls as friends and keep in contact with them?
Not many.
How many guys treat the Female friends as "guy buddies" but born in the wrong gender?
Many.
How many guys actually know how to comminicate with different types of people?
So little
How many guys want to expand more effort to acheive what they want than to wait and complain or talk about it but no action?
Many
How I got my current bf is cause I used to organize outings for net people. Of course that's how I met lots of unsavoury people as well. I didn't organize to find BF.. I organize to find company to have fun and go see shows and spend the weekend outside of office. It was a lot of effort and I know some people actually hit off and became GF/BF.
Why I stop? -> SG People are unappreciate creatures.
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and what works pretty well is to get an email addess - ie, for msn reasons etc etc,
then,...move in for the kill. -
WAh MSN and email.
In a fighter pilot's perspective, its called a Beyond Visual Range Kill. LOL! -
I can help organize outing if you need but then ... yeah need further discussion...Originally posted by Shotgun:Ic. Actually I was playing with an idea of setting up a forum based dating agency. Of course, some registration fee required.
naturrally, it would provide more platforms other than forums... hahhaa, but to tell u the rest, I need u to sign an NDA.
J/k. Still haven thot it thru how to go about setting it up.
I totally understand what you're tryiung to do. -
Actually, I need a trial. See if Singaporeans are open to dating or *ahem* buayaing over forums. If that turns out well, then can move on to other things. Hah.
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I hate MSN. Don't know about other girls. I think its the most stupid way to get to know people. There's a whole bunch of mis-communication and typed stuff is never a true representation of the actual person. Besides, my opinion is that there's just too much danger. Loads of people can email account, the question is how they got it. And the Very Very first thing all GUYs ask is : A/S/L ... Right off I would never answer. Cause I know what's the next question.Very very few times do I get decent people who just want to talk. Other times are guys who just want to use another person for cyber-sex or get all that dirty talk and all the info digging going.Originally posted by thinger:and what works pretty well is to get an email addess - ie, for msn reasons etc etc,
then,...move in for the kill.
Thing is that all the guys will go meet the MSN person with loaded expectations of a Super Model. Then when they see a person not up to standard... wah... then all hell break loose.
Options are:
1. He did turn up to check out the girl but will never admit he's the person
2. He buck up courage but would only stay for 15 minutes and excuse himself with another appointment
3. He call 15 minutes late and said he had office work and cannot turn up
4. He check her out from afar and then run off
There's lots more disgusting guys then girls... So I am not surprised about the "dollies" who turned the table on the guys. Frankly, these men deserved it. -
I dare say thats of lesser concern.Originally posted by mistyblue:I hate MSN. Don't know about other girls. I think its the most stupid way to get to know people. There's a whole bunch of mis-communication and typed stuff is never a true representation of the actual person. Besides, my opinion is that there's just too much danger. Loads of people can email account, the question is how they got it. And the Very Very first thing all GUYs ask is : A/S/L ... Right off I would never answer. Cause I know what's the next question.Very very few times do I get decent people who just want to talk. Other times are guys who just want to use another person for cyber-sex or get all that dirty talk and all the info digging going.
Thing is that all the guys will go meet the MSN person with loaded expectations of a Super Model. Then when they see a person not up to standard... wah... then all hell break loose.
Options are:
1. He did turn up to check out the girl but will never admit he's the person
2. He buck up courage but would only stay for 15 minutes and excuse himself with another appointment
3. He call 15 minutes late and said he had office work and cannot turn up
4. He check her out from afar and then run off
There's lots more disgusting guys then girls... So I am not surprised about the "dollies" who turned the table on the guys. Frankly, these men deserved it.
The greater danger is when some sleaze bag guy cons younger girls/boys out. I volunteer at this internet wellness programme, and what we advocate is NOT meeting online strangers at all.
As for the guys and girls who would check ppl out from afar or not turn up. Its been done ever since the days where ppl would wear roses to meet a person. hah. -
Some newbies can "con" but they are underageOriginally posted by Shotgun:Actually, I need a trial. See if Singaporeans are open to dating or *ahem* buayaing over forums. If that turns out well, then can move on to other things. Hah.
Others whose been around .. I wish you good luck.
Don't be overly pushy. This is the sure best way to have the person run the opposite direction.
Give space and time. If nothing develops, keep as friend, don't dump the person like a hot potatoe. Word gets around By the Way as guys talk about easy girls, girls also talk about jerks.
But if the girl does not have interest, don't waste time for both parties. -
yeah, i used to know this girl back then she was about 15/16. She lied to her parents to attend one of my gatherings. I was so angry she put me is such a tough position.Originally posted by Shotgun:I dare say thats of lesser concern.
The greater danger is when some sleaze bag guy cons younger girls/boys out. I volunteer at this internet wellness programme, and what we advocate is NOT meeting online strangers at all.
As for the guys and girls who would check ppl out from afar or not turn up. Its been done ever since the days where ppl would wear roses to meet a person. hah.
Then after that she got hooked up with the same indian foreign "talent" (The one who asked me out to get drunk and get lucky - but hurled abuses when I refused) to do samba dancing and all that body contact stuff. She thinks she's very beautiful and thus attracted his attention. she claims he's been very gentlemanly with her and she loved him alot. I told her to be careful because he is married back in India and he was attempting to get a number of girls in bed with him (I found out after I started asking all the girls - They are so stupid to keep quiet and let this guy do so much damage to everyone else).
This girl didn't want to heed any advice, told me I am nagging her and being an old prune and is getting in the way of her happiness. So I wished her luck. Now... I am sure when his contact ended, he's back with his wife - more or less. Even if not, he just want play things and he's never serious with anyone. His idea is that as long as he can get any sex free, he will even if it means using force. -
Sigh.... Kids who don't know better. I suppose her school didn take our program.
We are quite pleasantly surprised at the outcome of the kids who thru the program. On our internal forums, after correcting them, they become very responsible forum users. Some of the sec1s are even self regulatory.
Okay, this has digressed majorly from the topic. LOL.
Guys, who got try asking for girl's numbers b4? Honestly speaking... I never tried. But was tempted to, just to see the results. -
its good to hear about those program. It was rather difficult to try to convince any of these people to rethink their actions as they could justify it any way they can...Originally posted by Shotgun:Sigh.... Kids who don't know better. I suppose her school didn take our program.
We are quite pleasantly surprised at the outcome of the kids who thru the program. On our internal forums, after correcting them, they become very responsible forum users. Some of the sec1s are even self regulatory.
Okay, this has digressed majorly from the topic. LOL.
Guys, who got try asking for girl's numbers b4? Honestly speaking... I never tried. But was tempted to, just to see the results.
You need to do the experiment yourself and collect the data. -
hey i meant get a phone number. not get to know the girl. i think msn's the 2nd most impersonal thing in the world. txts are the first. the whole point of that is because its alot easier to get an email address, then try and pry a phone number out over msn, for the pure reason that if the chick is half interested and wants to get to know him better, she'll give it, and she can graciously deny him over msn too without seeing him. and/or block. so that was said with the best intentions for girls, and the sneakiest intentions for guys.Originally posted by mistyblue:I hate MSN. Don't know about other girls. I think its the most stupid way to get to know people. There's a whole bunch of mis-communication and typed stuff is never a true representation of the actual person. Besides, my opinion is that there's just too much danger. Loads of people can email account, the question is how they got it. And the Very Very first thing all GUYs ask is : A/S/L ... Right off I would never answer. Cause I know what's the next question.Very very few times do I get decent people who just want to talk. Other times are guys who just want to use another person for cyber-sex or get all that dirty talk and all the info digging going.
Thing is that all the guys will go meet the MSN person with loaded expectations of a Super Model. Then when they see a person not up to standard... wah... then all hell break loose.
Options are:
1. He did turn up to check out the girl but will never admit he's the person
2. He buck up courage but would only stay for 15 minutes and excuse himself with another appointment
3. He call 15 minutes late and said he had office work and cannot turn up
4. He check her out from afar and then run off
There's lots more disgusting guys then girls... So I am not surprised about the "dollies" who turned the table on the guys. Frankly, these men deserved it.
ive only ever met 2 people off the net. one because i was dragged along. the other one just for the hell of it, and she's hell cool. that was 2 years ago and whenever im in singapore i drop by and say hi. its nice thinking that there are heaps of guys that do that too and arent all seedy arseholes. -
Hmmm seeing ur forum signature... I'll give what u said, a 50 % discount.
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gee thats generous.
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LOL I'd also prefer to continue chatting on MSN rather than phone, if I met someone on the street.
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thank you choco.
i rest my case. -
no wonder..once this guy who i met over the net when meet me like wanna runaway ..then i chase after him.then he said he realised he never bought tickets for the movies but i still stick to him because i didnt realise he wanted to run away from me,,,
I must be really frightening....... -
but why am i so scary-looking?
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It depends whether you did anything to scare him off.
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hee..hee..this is a very nice topic..interesting!
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got a recent experience.. lolz...
i still think it's more intimidating than flattering... it's just.. wierd, for a stranger guy to just come up to you and tell you he has been noticing you for a while and wanna be your friend, when you yourself has never "seen" the guy before...
i suggest you just ask for email... -
No leh. Sekali he is an insurance agent or watever leh.
Anyway approched by 2 before, wanted to treat me to lunch and go shopping with me. No way will I make frens this way. -
Dey!! I'm not the one asking for girls numbers lar. LOL.
I jump into yellow river also cannot wash green ah.
Just wanna know what girls think of this kinda guys. Cos a lot of my friends always keep asking me to go get some cute girl's number on the train or whadever. A bit irritating... give ppl wrong impression somemore.
The closest thing to that I've experienced was a piece of paper that was passed to me. But thats not asking... its ppl giving. Different story. -
I dun really have good impression on guys who ask number like that. unless can be sure he is a good person, but hard to judge a book by its cover only.
Ever encounter few years back when I was in the secondary school era. But its always not very nice. I would cut contact with them after a while cause they all appear very desperate for gf no matter how you look like, hard to click well, the way they talk very insensible and self centred. Its like almost impossible to get to know a total stranger unless got a dramatic happening(accidentally took the wrong phone?) haha only in drama I think.
Friends are all known now either friends' friend, school mates, ex colleages or colleages. I think its really fate, to get to know friend at a certain place.