First love is usually the most precious to a guy, why?

• findingnewidea

  25 Sep 05, 12:36

  To a guy, his first love is usually the most precious love.
  
  because a gal decides to spend her best time with the guy in his worst time.
  
  why a gal's best time? she is young and has the youth. she can choose any guy who is better in term of financial and status, but she chose you.
  
  why a guy's worst time? he just graduated, no money, no house and no car. Earning that 1-2k per month. even need to think twice when go for a movie in the weekend.
  
  so cheerish your first love, guys.
• borntolive

  25 Sep 05, 12:56

  thats if u got da qualities to find a gal
• FadeToBlack

  25 Sep 05, 13:02

  I agree.
  
  But first love is usually a guy's dream girl. Everything the guy asked for.
  
  And most of the time, guys get disappointed in the end...
  
  because the girl failed to be as perfect as in the guy's eyes..
• Xcert

  25 Sep 05, 17:13

  Originally posted by FadeToBlack:

  I agree.
  
  But first love is usually a guy's dream girl. Everything the guy asked for.
  
  And most of the time, guys get disappointed in the end...
  
  because the girl failed to be as perfect as in the guy's eyes..

  applicable to the gals too...
  
  gals dream of their prince charming...handsome and all that crap....in the end find that he is just an @sshole...
• starblue

  25 Sep 05, 17:27

  most precious meh??? to all guys meh?? dun anyhow generalise lah...
• mistyblue

  25 Sep 05, 18:28

  
  if its so precious then how come there's 2nd, 3rd 4th and maybe more ...
  
  I tot its just that most people have their crushes in school and when we are more innocent and still developing... it leaves the most lasting memories...
  
  
• ^spidee^

  25 Sep 05, 18:47

  The first love is the most unforgettable...
  
  for it was she that gave you sparks the day your eyes met hers...
  
  for it was she that gave you a smile so sweet it rid you of the bitter moments...
  
  for it was she that gave you a touch so gentle that you want to hold her in your arms forever...
  
  for it was she that gave you a kiss so soft it shielded you when your world collasped...
  
  for it was she that made you realise what love truly is...
• mistyblue

  25 Sep 05, 18:50

  I am jealous already ..
• Shotgun

  25 Sep 05, 18:53

  That first kiss that lingers all night,
  its grip keeping slumber away.
  That feeling that makes u float, airy and light,
  that first kiss...
• ^spidee^

  25 Sep 05, 18:54

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  I am jealous already ..

  how so? if it's any consolation, it's good to be a guy's last girl, for he will cherish you more than he did his exs..
• Eiizumi

  25 Sep 05, 18:55

  thank goodness, I haven't got my first yeah!
• sinicker

  25 Sep 05, 18:56

  errr.. i dont cherish my 1st - 4th gf leh.. i cherish my 5th!!!
• mistyblue

  25 Sep 05, 23:09

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  how so? if it's any consolation, it's good to be a guy's last girl, for he will cherish you more than he did his exs..

  When the guy speaks about the 1st one.. its always so dreamy and full of possibilities. Its sweet and innocent thaqt lingers with the first burst of youth. Its always known that the 1st will have a place in his heart and at times, its seems, that it was such a perfect relationship where it was/is the dream girl. Her beauty is forever etched in his memory and no matter what, she is the prefect template where he sought the next one.
  Therefore, when he mentions his ex and his first ... I cannot help but feel jealous of her cause after more than 10 years, he still remembers her as if it was yesterday.
  
• ne0matrix

  25 Sep 05, 23:12

  I don't know cos I haven't had my first love.
• Kuali Baba

  25 Sep 05, 23:13

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  The first love is the most unforgettable...
  
  for it was she that gave you sparks the day your eyes met hers...
  
  for it was she that gave you a smile so sweet it rid you of the bitter moments...
  
  for it was she that gave you a touch so gentle that you want to hold her in your arms forever...
  
  for it was she that gave you a kiss so soft it shielded you when your world collasped...
  
  for it was she that made you realise what love truly is...

  I can't agree more.
• subarugal

  25 Sep 05, 23:14

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  errr.. i dont cherish my 1st - 4th gf leh.. i cherish my 5th!!!

  true.. sometime 1st or etc... might be puppylove only dnt noe much abt love..
  
• Lance_han

  25 Sep 05, 23:14

  Originally posted by ne0matrix:

  I don't know cos I haven't had my first love.

  den go look for her
• Lance_han

  25 Sep 05, 23:15

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  The first love is the most unforgettable...
  
  for it was she that gave you sparks the day your eyes met hers...
  
  for it was she that gave you a smile so sweet it rid you of the bitter moments...
  
  for it was she that gave you a touch so gentle that you want to hold her in your arms forever...
  
  for it was she that gave you a kiss so soft it shielded you when your world collasped...
  
  for it was she that made you realise what love truly is...

  well said guess it sums it all up...
• the Bear

  25 Sep 05, 23:16

  i would think it would be my LAST love...
  
  that would be when she would agree to marry me and we do.. and spend the rest of our days together
  
  the rest would not matter at all...
• ne0matrix

  25 Sep 05, 23:20

  Originally posted by Lance_han:

  den go look for her

  
• kikq

  26 Sep 05, 01:27

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i would think it would be my LAST love...
  
  that would be when she would agree to marry me and we do.. and spend the rest of our days together
  
  the rest would not matter at all...

  awwwww how sweet
  
  (i can hardly remember my first love, but im not a guy so...)
• shade343

  26 Sep 05, 01:57

  sigh....sentimental value....
• stellazio

  26 Sep 05, 02:11

  First love for guy unforgettable
  First love for girl one to forget