is he interested?
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i have a colleague whom i liked for some time & recently we started talking more than the mere 'hi-&-bye' type of colleague. we both like listening to the same type of songs & after i sent him two songs, he lent me a cd of mp3 to share. does it mean we have a possibility of developing a relationship?
my fren told me to take it easy at this stage but i cant help thinking abt him...
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haha judging from what youve said, i think he's interested. go fer it babe!
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Interested in sex? Most likely.
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I think it's quite typical to be in that position. When you think that you want to fall in love, you will, and you are. Things happen when you want them to happen and one will lead to another much deeper issue.
He is definitely interested in you, and you are infatuated with him (can't stop thinking about him). Why not take it slow and understand his characters more first rather than jumping into a relationship and fall into the statistics of 1-week or 1-month relationship failure?
Things will work out much better if you know him better, not by what he likes best, but what he do best... -
Not to rain on your parade but its hard to tell that he likes you just by giving u the CD and talking to u more often... As for possible or not.. if hes single and healthy then of course its possible la... -
are all guys like that one?Originally posted by ditzy:Interested in sex? Most likely. 
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Oie ditzy don't spill cold water on people leh..Ok morningglory back to your question..If you want me to make you happy den the answer is NO,if you want the sad truth den the answer is YES..Originally posted by morningglory:are all guys like that one? -
Rubbish la you..Erm ok,i think on evidence so far there's not alot of hints that he's interested in you yet,however try to improve the current relationship first like maybe going out for dinner after work cause frankly speaking just sharing songs ain't enough..After that den its easier to tell whether he's interested in you..Originally posted by stellazio:Oie ditzy don't spill cold water on people leh..Ok morningglory back to your question..If you want me to make you happy den the answer is NO,if you want the sad truth den the answer is YES.. 
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honestly, not all....Originally posted by morningglory:are all guys like that one?
but those exceptionals are already an endangered species -
I think i belong to the species which is extinct liao..Originally posted by Arena:honestly, not all....
but those exceptionals are already an endangered species
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Test him first loh.
Some guys are just being friendly lah.
So to make sure, better hint or test his movite bah... -
how to test him?Originally posted by Eiizumi:Test him first loh.
Some guys are just being friendly lah.
So to make sure, better hint or test his movite bah... -
Like what rockey said earlier..Go out on a few dates first like dinner after work or lunch together..Men motives very easy to tell one..If despo for sex sure very kan chiong type..Those really like you want will be patient and more caring i think..Originally posted by morningglory:how to test him? -
Give him something first...Originally posted by morningglory:how to test him?
Maybe like ask him out to lunch with you together or give him another music CD to see how he react loh...
You woman should sense how he feel bah... Men more retard into getting how relationship works... -
It isn't exactly easy to gauge if a guy's interested in you or not, because some very friendly types make you think that they might be from their actions, when actually, they're just being friendly. Very pai seh, if that's the case!
I'd say take it slow and easy. See how things develop. Get to know him better first by doing things together.
Then, see if he makes the next move! -
What if he's also reading this thread and knows your tricks, and then he also plays safe?
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Well said,learn from the mdm..Someone who speaks from experience can't be that wrong..Originally posted by Rhonda:It isn't exactly easy to gauge if a guy's interested in you or not, because some very friendly types make you think that they might be from their actions, when actually, they're just being friendly. Very pai seh, if that's the case!
I'd say take it slow and easy. See how things develop. Get to know him better first by doing things together. Then, see if he makes the next move! -
got once i went to his side to do my work & he made chinese tea for me...i din say i want or not coz i dun like chinese tea but he asked me out of courtesy i oso dunno how to reply. then he accidentally saw my email once & knew i hav frenster & immediately he asked him to add him. i was kind of surprised too..
i hope he is going to our company's retreat too...it is a good chance to be ard with him. -
play safe for what?Originally posted by ditzy:What if he's also reading this thread and knows your tricks, and then he also plays safe? 
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unfortunately only someOriginally posted by morningglory:are all guys like that one? -
Guys are always 1/3 of everything.Originally posted by morningglory:play safe for what? 1/3 sweet, 1/3 sneaky, 1/3 heaven knows. But there are wholesome guys also, unfortunately most of them are ermm how should I put this, gay. -
Its called getting into one's good books.Originally posted by morningglory:got once i went to his side to do my work & he made chinese tea for me...i din say i want or not coz i dun like chinese tea but he asked me out of courtesy i oso dunno how to reply. then he accidentally saw my email once & knew i hav frenster & immediately he asked him to add him. i was kind of surprised too..
i hope he is going to our company's retreat too...it is a good chance to be ard with him. For the friendster thing, "woohoo, i got one more friend in my list, now I got 299 friends! 250 are girls!" -
wah lau, u really poured ice cold water on ppl liao..Originally posted by ditzy:Its called getting into one's good books. For the friendster thing, "woohoo, i got one more friend in my list, now I got 299 friends! 250 are girls!" -
so ur guy / girl / half /Originally posted by ditzy:Guys are always 1/3 of everything. 1/3 sweet, 1/3 sneaky, 1/3 heaven knows. But there are wholesome guys also, unfortunately most of them are ermm how should I put this, gay.
or the man in the sky whom seems to know everything -
you might be "unfortunate" enough to have ditzy as your colleagueOriginally posted by morningglory:play safe for what?