ladies do you prefer bigger or smaller built guys?

• newmanmback

  9 Oct 05, 19:20

  Originally posted by shade343:

  10 pieces of $1000 notes or 100 $1 coins?

  one cheque book
• alfagal

  9 Oct 05, 19:41

  i am 1.7m..so i wld like my guy to b taller than me of cos..
  
  i love guys with v broad shoulders, nice arms and chest..think its v masculine. provides a good sense of security.
  
  however, do not lik guys who are totally muscular..these pple pay too much attention to themselves...narcissitic..it just turns me off..
  
  being charismatic and confident is def. a plus point.
  
  conclusion: i lik larger guys..but..not too big it wld b nice to have V-shaped bod
• chunyong

  9 Oct 05, 20:06

  last time i 55kg, now 64 liao....lifting weights and my friends say i look better. i still fit into M/L sized clothes. Got those shorty but dua leng gong guys...whole body like round round sibeh ugly....go gym to look good but too much makes u look like a Zangief...
  
  another kind is those who train abs niah....chest totally nothing but got abs...those ah....i dunno wat to say.
  
  best is build on your frame, pack some muscles but don't expand your frame. if u realise u outsized ur clothes (M/L)...then u are on route to be Zangief.
• Marco_Simone

  9 Oct 05, 20:12

  Originally posted by alfagal:

  i am 1.7m..so i wld like my guy to b taller than me of cos..
  
  i love guys with v broad shoulders, nice arms and chest..think its v masculine. provides a good sense of security.
  
  however, do not lik guys who are totally muscular..these pple pay too much attention to themselves...narcissitic..it just turns me off..
  
  being charismatic and confident is def. a plus point.
  
  conclusion: i lik larger guys..but..not too big it wld b nice to have V-shaped bod

  80-82kg on a 1.8m frame sounds nice to you?
• alfagal

  9 Oct 05, 20:25

  Originally posted by chunyong:

  last time i 55kg, now 64 liao....lifting weights and my friends say i look better. i still fit into M/L sized clothes. Got those shorty but dua leng gong guys...whole body like round round sibeh ugly....go gym to look good but too much makes u look like a Zangief...
  another kind is those who train abs niah....chest totally nothing but got abs...those ah....i dunno wat to say.
  
  best is build on your frame, pack some muscles but don't expand your frame. if u realise u outsized ur clothes (M/L)...then u are on route to be Zangief.

  
  
  
• alfagal

  9 Oct 05, 20:27

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  80-82kg on a 1.8m frame sounds nice to you?

  nice...
  but abit beefy arent u?
• Simple_Bear

  9 Oct 05, 20:37

  Mmm...
  
  According to BMI, I am super duper obese...
  
  
• chunyong

  9 Oct 05, 20:39

  Originally posted by alfagal:

  
  
  

  ntu got alot of Zangiefs....i know a few personally...
• ha8n

  9 Oct 05, 21:11

  thread starter --- have u seen smaller built guys wif girs bigger than them in streets /smaller girs wif taller guys ??
  
  the personality counts at the end of the day so wats ur qn again
• alfagal

  9 Oct 05, 21:37

  Originally posted by chunyong:

  ntu got alot of Zangiefs....i know a few personally...

  haha! actually...NUS also got alot..but....mostly tat i saw...are from a certain sporting group..if ur smart enough..u can easily guess them..dun wish to mention..sensitive sia..
• chunyong

  9 Oct 05, 22:28

  Originally posted by alfagal:

  haha! actually...NUS also got alot..but....mostly tat i saw...are from a certain sporting group..if ur smart enough..u can easily guess them..dun wish to mention..sensitive sia..

  i know, clashed b4 a few mths back....Lee Hsian Loong was there oso for the event rite ? heh....sad to say most of them will be gu-niang biologically if they carry on their after-training diet, i mean my side lah...
  
  the zangief i saw was from cheerleading...not dat CCA. another was not in any CCA...short, massive...looks like a bouncer and most prob can bounce too....
• alfagal

  9 Oct 05, 22:51

  Originally posted by chunyong:

  i know, clashed b4 a few mths back....Lee Hsian Loong was there oso for the event rite ? heh....sad to say most of them will be gu-niang biologically if they carry on their after-training diet, i mean my side lah...
  
  the zangief i saw was from cheerleading...not dat CCA. another was not in any CCA...short, massive...looks like a bouncer and most prob can bounce too....

  
  
  
  meanie u...
• chunyong

  10 Oct 05, 05:51

  Originally posted by alfagal:

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  meanie u...

  i like to make fun of those dua dua jiak gym people....especially those rounded rounded ones with no cutting....those are the ones who dun do cardio
• coffeeortea

  10 Oct 05, 06:12

  Originally posted by supafatty:

  Don't be so sensitive (yes this is a direct remark against you).
  
  I am not discriminating, have not, and do not intend to. This is a balanced opinion gathering discussion and if you cannot be patient and calm enough to read it before putting forth you $0.02, then you can keep it, in silence.

  yeah, relax lah manager, superfatty has not been discriminating at all.
• coffeeortea

  10 Oct 05, 06:14

  gymnast/martial artist bod all the way =)
• the.raven

  10 Oct 05, 06:38

  Originally posted by Marco_Simone:

  80-82kg on a 1.8m frame sounds nice to you?

  thats fat
• supafatty

  10 Oct 05, 10:31

  Originally posted by ha8n:

  thread starter --- have u seen smaller built guys wif girs bigger than them in streets /smaller girs wif taller guys ??
  
  the personality counts at the end of the day so wats ur qn again

  .......................... if i had a nickle for everytime i hear this phrase ...................
  
  this has been clarified in one of the posts in this thread already! nvm you didn't read but don't post without reading
  
  anyway glad to see everyone putting forth their own $0.02 so far ..
  
  btw 1.8m @ 80kg isn't fat la .. i think it's a good weight to be at for that height .. personally .. provided that the 80kg isn't 25% bodyfat la
• the.raven

  10 Oct 05, 10:50

  I have a friend whos like 1.8 and hes constantly tell me "he is too light" I ask him how much he weigh he tell me 76kg and I was like wtf I ask him how much he wanna weigh he tell me at least 85 kg. cuz he play basketball.
  
  lame.
  
  he ask me how much I weigh i tell him 63 kg hes like OMGWTF so light, wtf.
• supafatty

  10 Oct 05, 10:54

  Raven I'm 10 kg heavier than you leh !! and I'm not even that tall to boot .. wah your post really drive a knife straight through my heart ..
• ShrodingersCat

  10 Oct 05, 10:58

  but ya. think bigger guys usually have it better compared to smaller guys.
  and i dont mean big like muscular big.
  
  geez, have u ever seen a big guy dance? they look GOOD.
• BadzMaro

  10 Oct 05, 10:58

  *reposted soz*
• BadzMaro

  10 Oct 05, 10:59

  1.8 n 80 is not bad la. its not fat man.. considering weight to height ratio ah. Well, i have always dreamed to be like Arnold.. i go gym hardcore but i think i need 10 more yrs of HARDCORE training to even get close .. sigh... but guys to those that do weights for chest n v -shaped body.. do u guys have propblem with clothes ? like sometimes they dun look good on u n etc etc.. hard to wear ler.. thats what i think ar... cant everytime wear tight-t ma rite ?
• supafatty

  10 Oct 05, 11:04

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  1.8 n 80 is not bad la. its not fat man.. considering weight to height ratio ah. Well, i have always dreamed to be like Arnold.. i go gym hardcore but i think i need 10 more yrs of HARDCORE training to even get close .. sigh... but guys to those that do weights for chest n v -shaped body.. do u guys have propblem with clothes ? like sometimes they dun look good on u n etc etc.. hard to wear ler.. thats what i think ar... cant everytime wear tight-t ma rite ?

  I'm lucky to have a natural V shape although I'm probably 90% fats la .. my gf aknowledges this fact as well .. my waist is not thin but it's not thick either .. my shoulder on the other hand is really really broad .. I like to wear shirts .. it makes me look slimmer around the waist and brings out my chest .. but i tell you .. it's not finding clothes that's the problem in SG .. it's the fact that you cannot wear it out .. it is so hot .......................... so i can set my wardrobe up the night before with a nice long sleeved shirt and a pair of pants and matching leathers .. but i end up wearing a pair of shorts, tshirt and slipper the next day .. the weather .. phoo.. yea .. so tshirts .. cannot wear tight .. wear until very loose .. a M size t shirt will fit me not too tightly .. there is abit of room .. but because of the weather .. i usually end up wearing XL .. quite ah pek la ..
• choco B

  10 Oct 05, 11:10

  Haha I like my men stocky. Small frames just don't cut it for me, because the guy appears too boy-like.
  
  And a previous post by a girl about women being more particular about how they look themselves rather than how the men look, is quite true. Women are narcissistic. How they like their men to look is reflective on how they look. If they're petite , they can accept men with smaller build. If a girl's bigger sized, then they prefer men who are similarly big sized to give them the "security" factor. Or so that she doesn't look like a giant next to her man - they'd look more compatible in terms of size.
  
  Yes this all sounds selfish and vain but hey that's how it works
• supafatty

  10 Oct 05, 11:13

  reminds me of the time when me and my gf were just lying on the beach talking about how we first met .. so romantic .. but i tell you she broke my heart that night ..
  
  "tell me one reason why you love me"
  
  "cause when i'm next to you, my face don't look so big"