How do you cheer up someone who is feeling down?

• NeverSayGoodBye

  19 Oct 05, 11:12

  ..... err.. the Someone could be BF or GF, Friends, Colleagues, Siblings..etc
• charlize

  19 Oct 05, 11:13

  Maybe once you leave, they will begin to cheer up?
• FireIce

  19 Oct 05, 11:14

  a box of ferrero rocher or almond roca
  
  or start dancing like chicken little.......numa numa ei~
• sinicker

  19 Oct 05, 11:15

  talk to her, make her laugh. if she my gf, i got my special tactic.
• Simple_Bear

  19 Oct 05, 11:18

  Tell jokes...
  
  If gf...then...oops...
  
  
• Oriental & Beautiful

  19 Oct 05, 11:52

  hear them pour their heart out to u, and just listen. lend them a shoulder to cry on....
  
  then tell them that they have to move on, don dwell on it anymore.
  
  finally, say something humourous or crack a joke; hugs work well too...
• R3SsH|n

  19 Oct 05, 12:09

  making the person laugh or smile work wonders
• Ah Cek

  19 Oct 05, 12:59

  tell tat person your own miserable stories but must be more cham than him/her so he/she will not feel he/she is the only cham person. there are more cham person around.
• Mr Fugue

  19 Oct 05, 13:24

  I ask for his/her date and time of birth and analyse the chart to see if it's destined.
• BlUe G@rF|eLd

  19 Oct 05, 13:25

  Originally posted by Mr Fugue:

  I ask for his/her date and time of birth and analyse the chart to see if it's destined.

  Suan Ming Lao???
  
  Gt charge $$ wan or nt??!!
• kaobeikaobu

  19 Oct 05, 17:33

  Originally posted by Mr Fugue:

  I ask for his/her date and time of birth and analyse the chart to see if it's destined.

  actually that person after awhile will be ok one, but after hear u, sure tiao lou...
• digicharat

  19 Oct 05, 17:36

  pull their pants or skirt down. and give them a kick.
• Quinsy

  19 Oct 05, 17:52

  Sit beside them and hear them out.
• renorenal

  19 Oct 05, 18:07

  Originally posted by digicharat:

  pull their pants or skirt down. and give them a kick.

  
  
  If girl, hugging is good, if she is open minded for you to let you do that.
  
  If guy, tapping on the shoulder would suffice.
• mochou

  19 Oct 05, 18:24

  tell him/her my experience or someone else's experience of really bad/sad/miserable things. So that he/she feels that "my situation is not really that bad"
• digicharat

  19 Oct 05, 18:35

  Originally posted by mochou:

  tell him/her my experience or someone else's experience of really bad/sad/miserable things. So that he/she feels that "my situation is not really that bad"

  
  ok then i tell them... "aiya.... you problem chicken feet compare to mine, you know? let me tell you what is call serious problem... blah blah blah.... see? your problem small matter. mine one so serious yet im still living. so quit whining and get on with life will ya?"
• renorenal

  19 Oct 05, 19:07

  Originally posted by digicharat:

  
  ok then i tell them... "aiya.... you problem chicken feet compare to mine, you know? let me tell you what is call serious problem... blah blah blah.... see? your problem small matter. mine one so serious yet im still living. so quit whining and get on with life will ya?"

  NEXT MORNING PAPER REPORT:
  
  Girl committed suicide by jumping off the ledge of a 24-storey building.
• renorenal

  19 Oct 05, 19:07

  Originally posted by digicharat:

  
  ok then i tell them... "aiya.... you problem chicken feet compare to mine, you know? let me tell you what is call serious problem... blah blah blah.... see? your problem small matter. mine one so serious yet im still living. so quit whining and get on with life will ya?"

  NEXT MORNING PAPER REPORT:
  
  Girl commits suicide by jumping off the ledge of a 24-storey building.
• Xiao Jun

  19 Oct 05, 19:11

  1. Restore e person's esteem
  
  2. Be emphathic
  
  3a. Take responsibility if u are e cause of it
  
  3b. or ALWAYS remain neutral if u are not involved!!
• Mr Fugue

  19 Oct 05, 20:23

  Originally posted by BlUe G@rF|eLd:

  Suan Ming Lao???
  
  Gt charge $$ wan or nt??!!

  brief analysis are FREE.
• FireIce

  19 Oct 05, 20:25

  Originally posted by Mr Fugue:

  brief analysis are FREE.

  cool
  
  i din know u do underwear reading.