Originally posted by mistyblue:
all blame the girl - double standard
how come never blame the guys who know this is illegal and yet decide to do it and later get caught.
Both parties are wrong
Perhaps because the guys have received their just punishment for knowingly breaking the law while the gal gets off scot free as far as the law is concerned. (losing her viginity is not counted as punishment)
I guess in most of such discussions, where everyone seems to flame the gal in question, its not so much of siding with the guys, rather the unfair treatment of both sexes by the law.
The disparity in response by the law in itself does not cause much dissentment, but rather, the manner in which certain gals use the law in their favour and a weapon, rather than a shield.
Someone i know mentioned that an uncle was in jail because of such an occurrance. The story goes like this:
The man reaches home and finds his wife in bed with another man. He slaps his wife. His wife goes to the police with the slap mark on her face claiming domestic violence. He goes to jail for being a "wife beater" and when he comes out, she will divorce him and take half of everything he owns, plus alimony.
As we can see, the man is being punished multiple times for his wife's unfaithfulness.