Males can cry? Or is it better to hold back?

• babymac13

  23 Oct 05, 22:29

  
  Nan Ren Ku Ba Ku Ba Bu Shi Zhui.......
• sinicker

  23 Oct 05, 22:30

  if T.T. Durai cries, everyone will start donating to NKF again!
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 22:33

  Originally posted by alfagal:

  usually guys wld hold back their tears ma..most of them wld think tat its sissy to cry, or so called social behavior to b a man, cant cry wat..
  
  but if a guy really cried, it mus have been of something quite a strong emotion that caused e tears lo..or put it in another words, things mus have been quite bad tatz y they cried....
  
  so if u imagine wat e guy is going thru, u will only feel heart ache or touched lo..

  I see... I see... ok... next time I will remember to take a bottle of water with me when I go propose (knowing that I will get rejected)
  
  Thanks for the explanation alfagal
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 22:34

  Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:
  
  there are guys who cried like there's no tmrw, girl also tidak apa...
  
  so it's depends on individuals nt just based on sex.
  
  as for ur first, maybe gotta do with what we normally perceived in the society, as guys shld be emotionally stronger than girls. So it's something if the guy really goes on his knees or/and cry....
  
  

  I see what you mean... it does take a lot of guts to do that... Thanks for the explanation kbkb
• -ohyeah-

  23 Oct 05, 22:34

  Originally posted by renorenal:

  Yeah... somehow that would be my second question, I wonder why sometimes girls cry, guys just tidak apa, especially when there reach a verge of breaking up... I mean.... girl's tears are quite powerful to make guy's knees go weak... rite?

  i dun understand.....
  
  wat is tidak apa?
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 22:35

  Originally posted by -ohyeah-:

  i dun understand.....
  
  wat is tidak apa?

  tidak apa in Malay, it means no reaction... or dun care attitude...
• fudgester

  23 Oct 05, 22:35

  Originally posted by -ohyeah-:

  i dun understand.....
  
  wat is tidak apa?

  Malay for 'it doesn't matter.'
• thinkdifferent

  23 Oct 05, 23:00

  It's touching when a guy cries becasue it shows that he is sensitive and that means he can understand us ladies and won't hurt us. But hey, that doesn't guarantee he can udnerstand us and won't hurt us. I have been hurt and misunderstood by a sensitive guy... He has changed from a senstivie and understanding guy to a furious monster. Damn, I shouldn't post much of my personal life here.
  
  Anyway, I personally don't like guys (I mean I wouldn't like to have such guy as a bf or husband, but no problem if a friend) who cry too much coz that shows that they are weak and mentally unstable. Guys who sh.. in their pants if something happens are like kids, in case of troubles you have to hold them above the water.
• ditzy

  23 Oct 05, 23:04

  If you hold back your fart, it doesn't really feel good right?
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 23:11

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  If you hold back your fart, it doesn't really feel good right?

  Walau eh... what an analogy
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 23:13

  Originally posted by thinkdifferent:
  
  Anyway, I personally don't like guys who cry too much coz that shows that they are weak and mentally unstable. Guys who sh.. in their pants if something happens are like kids, in case of troubles you have to hold them above the water.

  Hahaha... how true...
• vIn.Warrior

  23 Oct 05, 23:15

  you'll feel alot better if you let out and cry. go ahead!
  but for guys, if you really want to cry, maybe try hiding in some corner where no one can see or hear you crying; if not sure damn paiseh to let gurls see you cry.
  
• stellazio

  23 Oct 05, 23:17

  my tears evaporated into the sky a long time ago..
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 23:19

  I've heard of a quote from a friend going like this...
  
  Girls cry, guys weep...
  
  Is there any difference between crying and weeping? Or is it just there so that it sounds nicer?
• BabyLover

  23 Oct 05, 23:34

  Originally posted by renorenal:

  I've heard of a quote from a friend going like this...
  
  Girls cry, guys weep...
  
  Is there any difference between crying and weeping? Or is it just there so that it sounds nicer?

  meaning guys shed tear.. d quiet sobsob kind.. while gals really cry out
• renorenal

  23 Oct 05, 23:49

  Oh... so that's where the term kau peh kau boo came about...
• subarugal

  23 Oct 05, 23:58

  Originally posted by memor|es:

  a guy ever cried because of me, i was so touched. i put so much feelings in it but ended up getting hurt.

  rowing the same boat
  Then next round we got to be smarter breed
• Camellias4me

  24 Oct 05, 03:49

  They haf to put up a strong front all the time.. can be tiring sometimes.
  Such a rare sight to see a grown-up man cry.. dat i like to see..
• ShutterBug

  24 Oct 05, 05:33

  Naturally, guys will TRY to hold back tears, while some can't even try.
  
  There are some who cannot cry in the presence of others, and breaks down miserably in privacy.
  
  I am one who will try to hold, but if it's too much, I have no shame to cry in front of people.
  
  Crying is a human's natural reflex, similar to say for example, vomiting. Can anyone hold back vomit? No matter how macho you are, you'll still throw up even in public.
  
  Crying purges your heart of sorrow. Holding back, hurts you emotionally. So cry if you need to. Don't injure yourself.
• Xcert

  24 Oct 05, 06:55

  Originally posted by ^spidee^:

  Nan2 er2 you3 lei4 bu4 qing1 tan2.

  zhi3 shi4 wei4 dao4 shang1 xin1 chu4...