Look or Characters?????
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This is how I break it down:
1) Looks: 35%
2) Character/Attitude: 30%
3) Intelligence: 35%
Got 1 only: When old, will be forgotten
Got 2 only: Will struggle in early days but will eventually make it. However, others will gossip about lack of looks and intelligence
Got 3 only: Will make it big but will not sustain.
Got 1 and 2 without 3 is a retard like Forrest Gump. Must be lucky to be acceptable.
Got 1 and 3 without 2 is a egoist. Will not make it big in life.
Got 2 and 3 without 1 is the usual scholars that you see around you. Still got hope of earning enough for cosmetic surgery.
Ideal: all 3 must possess. -
As long as u got $$$$ looks or vitue will come second to these girls. I already tested the water in SG clubs everytime i go SG..
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As long as u got $$$$ looks or vitue will come second to these girls. I already tested the water in SG clubs everytime i go SG..
Those are transaction girls. They give you service you give them money. Like go call chicken sama sama so that is why you test water is correct.
We are talking abt gf/bf with potential to progress to hubby and wife so your test water is wrong scenario
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Originally posted by sohguanh:
Oh issit ? shiet.. my bad..
[b]As long as u got $$$$ looks or vitue will come second to these girls. I already tested the water in SG clubs everytime i go SG..
Those are transaction girls. They give you service you give them money. Like go call chicken sama sama so that is why you test water is correct.
We are talking abt gf/bf with potential to progress to hubby and wife so your test water is wrong scenario [/b]
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u shd try hanging out more at community centres and libraries in future.....Originally posted by BadzMaro:As long as u got $$$$ looks or vitue will come second to these girls. I already tested the water in SG clubs everytime i go SG.. -
of cuz muz look good then i'll b interested....if good character not gd lookin onli can b frenz!!!
but if chio but realli stuck up and stuff will onli piss me off, cant even b frens -
...me intend to go for character, but the thing about look keeps me at bay all the times, even though it is hard to get the best of both world, but then again, if you try hard enough, you might just get...Originally posted by changb57:hey guys/gals......
nowaday people goes for look or characters to find gf/bf...or even life partner???
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hmm...can i hav a 50-50?
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character!
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I got no looks. Only characters. Ai mai?
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if its a fling looks den..serious relationship abit of looks and more character..
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more character den looks.
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both
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but now girls also beware of molesters in these places...Originally posted by FireIce:u shd try hanging out more at community centres and libraries in future.....
You stranger to them and suddenly say "Hi" to them in these places... they may turn away.... -
For guys is,got looks first then talk.
If no looks=no chance in hell! -
life is imperfect; there's only suitable/compatible, no such thing as PERFECT.
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For me it's character. When I like the character, I like also the whole person, looks included though I didn't like the look before knowing the character of that person.
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wow..u just took the words out of my mouthOriginally posted by thinkdifferent:For me it's character. When I like the character, I like also the whole person, looks included though I didn't like the look before knowing the character of that person.
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Then I hope you brushed your teeth before.Originally posted by alexkusu:wow..u just took the words out of my mouth -
sure did..i took a smint too..jus in caseOriginally posted by thinkdifferent:Then I hope you brushed your teeth before. -
good looking girls having bad characters...
vs
bad looking girls having good characters...
haha...don't give me crap that looks aren't important...that is nearly impossible...the first impression is based on looks...if your first impression is not good...you already set a standard in your heart...anything else will be hypocritic...
then again...the character makes up for the lack of looks...so i will say...a 50-50 will be fine...
anyway i am no takashi kineshiro...as long as the girl looks presentable...it is fine with me...being sweet and pretty will be an added bonus... -
It is a simple equation. If you look ugly, you have no choice but to nurture amicable characteristics. Those who are endowed with the looks tend to be arrogant and are generally selfish since they are the hunks-and-babes magnet.
I think that is mainly the reason why fat, ugly and unattractive guys are mostly the ones who possess honey-coated tongues. I am sure you have encountered those witty and smooth-talking kinds.
Similarly, the ugly and fat girls tend to make the most noise. Since nobody pays much attention to them because they are ugly, they have to succumb to several attention-seeking actions mainly through random vocalizations.
Just my general take from my past experience though. Although in some cases it may vary. -
how about gentle obeident gal vs career minded with strong characters.......one is sweet and gentle and other is career look with intelligent.
which one will you guys choose.....a career woman or gentle obeident gal...
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spell wrong...it is obedient.Originally posted by changb57:how about gentle obeident gal vs career minded with strong characters.......one is sweet and gentle and other is career look with intelligent.
which one will you guys choose.....a career woman or gentle obeident gal...
I hope i spell it right there....hehehe -
It's true that the first impression is by the look, but it's shallow to judge someone by the look. I have learnt, that everyone is worth to get the chance to know his/her character, no matter how he/she looks like. Becasue the ugly people can be beautiful persons, while the good looking people can be real a...holes. Even when I see someone who makes me think like : Oh my, the mother nature has been cruel to you.... I don't discriminate that person juts because of the look and want to know that person anyway. Everyone deserves this chance.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:good looking girls having bad characters...
vs
bad looking girls having good characters...
haha...don't give me crap that looks aren't important...that is nearly impossible...the first impression is based on looks...if your first impression is not good...you already set a standard in your heart...anything else will be hypocritic...
then again...the character makes up for the lack of looks...so i will say...a 50-50 will be fine...
anyway i am no takashi kineshiro...as long as the girl looks presentable...it is fine with me...being sweet and pretty will be an added bonus...