Sex education by promoting using of condoms?
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how do U propose that be done?Originally posted by Mr Fugue:I say, showing teenagers the responsibilities and commitment of marriage would be a better option.............
trying to show teenagers something so abstract that even adults make a mess of it...sometimes.
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i think....promoting use condom for anal sex is not going to work...who in the right mind will do that?
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You never knowOriginally posted by borntolive:i think....promoting use condom for anal sex is not going to work...who in the right mind will do that? -
that's right.Originally posted by thinkdifferent:Though pre - marital sex is forbidden in many religions, it is still happening. Then it's better to use condoms then to do abortion or spread HIV and other STDs becasue that is much worse and affecting many lives.
To think that if there are no condoms, there is less sex is ignorant. Ofcourse no one religious likes to admit that pre - marital sex is happening. But is is happening anyway, though you close your eyes.
What is sad is, that many guys still don't want to use condoms. It's immature, irresponsible, reckless.
this non-admittance by religious leaders that ppl of their religion are carrying out pre-marital sex is a problem. they wouldnt want to come up with a solution. moreover, they wouldnt want to promote usage of condoms because pre-marital sex by itself, with or w/o a condom is already a wrong thing to do. what else can they do.. other than to keep mum? -
The only thing my guys friends learn from the army is the CB leaf....whatever that is...Originally posted by dragg:learn from the army use condoms as ballons. -
just another leaf.Originally posted by BillyBong:The only thing my guys friends learn from the army is the CB leaf....whatever that is... -
showing real-life divorce cases will suffice................Originally posted by Xcert:how do U propose that be done?
trying to show teenagers something so abstract that even adults make a mess of it...sometimes. -
was the topic bout promoting to muslim? how come u suddenly shoot in bout muslim? a bit off topic lehOriginally posted by sinicker:it's not right to promote usage of condoms in sex education towards Muslims.
coz' the primary thing is that pre-marital sex is a big no-no.
so the Muslim government leaders are facing a problem on how to face this problem amongst Muslims. they cannot go all out to promote condoms coz' pre-marital sex is wrong. but as in Muslim teachings, children are a "gift" frm God.. so.. it's very difficult. -
I have seen so many condomns sold in supermarket, seven-eleven...but in different packages only...
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well, i tink pple who tinks they r studs & can change pple's mindset by having sex with them is childish & naiveOriginally posted by alberteinstein:crazy harh...ask people to abstain from sex? Always got educators promoting sex abstinance...what is it for? What does it served? Sex itself is not a bad act. Unsafe sex is. An analogy is : driving is not a bad act, but reckless driving is. Should we then ban driving? Nonsense what...
educators should be promoting safe and responsible sex. When I saw ppl wearing those bands saying they will avoid sex till marriage, I always feel they must be very childish or naive. If that couple would let me have a night with his gf, they will be a strong proponents of sex before marriage!!!
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in a nutshell, i'm just saying you cant promote the use of condoms to Muslims during sex education.Originally posted by redname:was the topic bout promoting to muslim? how come u suddenly shoot in bout muslim? a bit off topic leh -
yah i know but its like out of nowhere tok about muslim wen nothing was mention bout muslim at all rite?Originally posted by sinicker:in a nutshell, i'm just saying you cant promote the use of condoms to Muslims during sex education. -
ok lor.. den talk abt sex education as a whole then.Originally posted by redname:yah i know but its like out of nowhere tok about muslim wen nothing was mention bout muslim at all rite? -
well, it really depends on how u look at it. 1stly, lets put religion aside cause its a touchy issue. sex education is there not to teach or encourage pple to scr3w ard but rather to teach them tht its not veri gd to scr3w ard cause u'll get STD, unwabted pregnancy & blah blah blah blah... but at the spire of the moment (u know lah, young hot blooded teenagesOriginally posted by sinicker:ok lor.. den talk abt sex education as a whole then. ) wat shld they do to prevent all tis -
they are promoting the product rather..
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Originally posted by redname:well, it really depends on how u look at it. 1stly, lets put religion aside cause its a touchy issue. sex education is there not to teach or encourage pple to scr3w ard but rather to teach them tht its not veri gd to scr3w ard cause u'll get STD, unwabted pregnancy & blah blah blah blah... but at the spire of the moment (u know lah, young hot blooded teenages ) wat shld they do to prevent all tis
i think parents today are also depending too much on schools/teachers to tell their children what's wrong abt sex. parents feel that schools should also provide sex education on top of the syllabus that they already have to teach.
has anyone here had a pep talk with your parents on sex?
i havent. and will never i guess. but i've noted such cases of unwanted pregnancy(like my 16-year-old cousin who is now a mother) and will abstain frm sex.
so the main problems constricting sex education..
-parents do not want to talk to their children about it
-schools teach children? possible. but at what age is ideal?
-how to teach? gory photos of infected penises/vaginas? seems it hasnt work, really.
-bring in religion? saying that religion doesnt allow pre-marital sex?
how now brown cow? -
condoms are for those with a huge manhood
condemn is for those with a big guts(terrorists)
condone is for those with a monk's heart
conceive is for those with a 'parenting' mind
any more to continue??