battle of the sexes!!! and some of my personal questions
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yea...girls want this so called equality...yet they feel they should have the privilege to everything...
right...guys have to be gentlemen at times...but sometimes...demand is so unreasonable...you would wanna just strangle them...
girls...
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but they say 'liu xue bu liu lei'...... bo bian...must put up a gung ho front...sad lehOriginally posted by Mr Fugue:guys also human, guy also can cry one........... -
quote from R3SsH|n:
girls...
can lah. You can still live lah. Many of my friends have gone past at least 1/4 of their life without a gf. Anyway there are still some nice girls around that aren't like that. I have seen a few..not a lot tho
you can hate them....but you can't live without them..
anyway bladez87 while i feel sorry for you you should not treat it too seriously that it affects ur personal life..just remember to pay her back her own coin lor. -
aiya...some girls really...dunno what to say...they are really err..insenstiveOriginally posted by bladez87:ok it is like this. i just had a quarrel with my project mate. i said i had blood phobia and she showed me a very bloody and gruesome video with alot of blood. so i was obviously very pissed at her for doing so and telling me that the video no blood at all.
then things heated up and she questioned me with a " are you a man anot, blood also scared."
so i was like , you mean a guy cant have fears? you mean scared of blood = not man? what kind of theory is that?
next on i told another girl friend. she told me since i am a guy, i should not be so petty and just forgive and forget about this incident.
so now my next question, why cant a guy be petty?
what is the difference between the genders that allow females to have such priviledges that a guy cant have?
but as a guy...we are more mature in some aspect...espically of the part of taking things easy...so learn to forgive and forget man...
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but imagine a world of only guys...guys...guys!!!Originally posted by depressed:quote from R3SsH|n:
can lah. You can still live lah. Many of my friends have gone past at least 1/4 of their life without a gf. Anyway there are still some nice girls around that aren't like that. I have seen a few..not a lot tho
anyway bladez87 while i feel sorry for you you should not treat it too seriously that it affects ur personal life..just remember to pay her back her own coin lor.
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not nice...if u count the g@ys in....ewwOriginally posted by R3SsH|n:but imagine a world of only guys...guys...guys!!!
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very bad meh? just look at the trouble - having men and women have so much trouble, from pregnancy to women's charter to NS and to discrimination and so on and so forth. Maybe if men/women one of them never exist in the first place there won't be so much trouble liao.
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maybe a Doomsday will do us a little goodOriginally posted by depressed:very bad meh? just look at the trouble - having men and women have so much trouble, from pregnancy to women's charter to NS and to discrimination and so on and so forth. Maybe if men/women one of them never exist in the first place there won't be so much trouble liao.
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no la...the world is a better place with both man and women...all those problems you stated are just caused by a minority of both species...Originally posted by depressed:very bad meh? just look at the trouble - having men and women have so much trouble, from pregnancy to women's charter to NS and to discrimination and so on and so forth. Maybe if men/women one of them never exist in the first place there won't be so much trouble liao.
really...i cannot live without girls in my life
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imagine a wolrd of nothing but girls.. girls.. girls!!!Originally posted by R3SsH|n:but imagine a world of only guys...guys...guys!!!
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Zzz...girls...then she go da xiao bao gao to my other groupmate. then i dont want let the other girl to be stuck in middle, so anything i also ok lor. my fault then my fault lor. taking things easy, can la. but i hate it when i serious and people take me for joking and still continue, like i serious when i hate blood and she can still send me a bloody video Zzz, somemore say no blood. wth man. o well over le. was really tempted to go solo, but dont want put the other girl in a bad spot, somemore tutor will ask why, then will leave a bad impression with the rest of class especially with the other girl.
not something gentlemanly hor. must forgive and forget to be gentleman right...Zzz not my fault also need to admit my fault right? zzz. life as a guy not easy man...not easy...some stuff i can take easy , most others i cant haha. especially coming from someone who i hardly know, i have no reason to give her the benefit of the doubt that she might not be serious or joking. if normal friends then ok la, kpkb here and there no hard feelings. but from a stranger, is like different reaction lor...why should i be a gentleman to someone who i only met once? -
dun be a wuss.Originally posted by bladez87:ok it is like this. i just had a quarrel with my project mate. i said i had blood phobia and she showed me a very bloody and gruesome video with alot of blood. so i was obviously very pissed at her for doing so and telling me that the video no blood at all.
then things heated up and she questioned me with a " are you a man anot, blood also scared."
so i was like , you mean a guy cant have fears? you mean scared of blood = not man? what kind of theory is that?
next on i told another girl friend. she told me since i am a guy, i should not be so petty and just forgive and forget about this incident.
so now my next question, why cant a guy be petty?
what is the difference between the genders that allow females to have such priviledges that a guy cant have?
dun cry -
i dont cry ...
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Honestly, if you don't like being a guy, den go be a gal!
Can't believe what I'm hearing from a bunch of guys, saying things like paying back the girl for what she'd done? Well if Sg is full of guys like you peepz who don't know how to take things easy and humor the females around you, it's little wonder why there're more and more lesbians around nowadays!
If you think being a guy is difficult, ever tried thinking of those abused wives? Gee.. I do wonder who abused them. Some men, just think they're too good for the girls.
Nan ren, no need to be so petty bout things. And bladez87, GET A LIFE MAAN!! I mean, you do have a choice ya noe? Be an arse and kick a fuss outta it la. OH! And why not throw urself down a cliff in the process?
Some guys just don't know how to be a GENTLEMAN. Females wana be pampered, but I know guys wana be pampered too. And females do have a higher level of tolerance when it comes to dealing with guys who're petty about small things.
She ka jiao u, take it in ur stride and forget about it la. (--!) -
guys should work and have fun while gals should also work but give all the money to guys hehe
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there're bound to be a few transsexuals.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:but imagine a world of only guys...guys...guys!!!
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i am.Originally posted by Ren^Dez^Vous:Honestly, if you don't like being a guy, den go be a gal!
but its out of my hatred of being a guy and my desire to be a girl. -
Yes we ask for equality but know that this is only due to the fact that women have been discriminated against for centuries!! We were always regarded as the weaker gender because there is definitely no competition when it comes to the brawn but that doesnt mean we dont have BRAINS.
For all the women(NOT MEN) in the past who fought to get us females what we have now, its something that has enabled us to prove our self-worth. We are not merely good at making beds, cooking and cleaning. Just because we have proven ourselves to be more apt when it comes to multi-tasking, it doesnt mean that we have to be on the receiving end of Men being complete assholes due to us trampling on their frail little egos.
BE A MAN. Your replies shows how much of a wuss you are. You're entitled to be angry sure, but reacting the way you did with such dramatic ungentlemanly flair?? Utterly GROSS... -
jus forget it ba..no point harping on such stuff..being a guy normally means u get to consider the consequences before u do smt..
so think before u act,remember u have a project to complete with her.. -
Yes we ask for equality but know that this is only due to the fact that women have been discriminated against for centuries!! We were always regarded as the weaker gender because there is definitely no competition when it comes to the brawn but that doesnt mean we dont have BRAINS.
I am sorry hor..what happened in the past is the PAST. The men at present has nothing to do with what happened to the women years ago. Besides if reincarnation actually exist some of the men here could be those women in their past lives lol. Same applies to the women. And by saying women tend to be more apt when it comes to multi-tasking, isn't that very sexist? what makes you think men can't do better? you got any proof?
For all the women(NOT MEN) in the past who fought to get us females what we have now, its something that has enabled us to prove our self-worth. We are not merely good at making beds, cooking and cleaning. Just because we have proven ourselves to be more apt when it comes to multi-tasking, it doesnt mean that we have to be on the receiving end of Men being complete assholes due to us trampling on their frail little egos.
BE A MAN. Your replies shows how much of a wuss you are. You're entitled to be angry sure, but reacting the way you did with such dramatic ungentlemanly flair?? Utterly GROSS...
I agree he seems a little bit overreacting but you are not much better yourself leh. Just because we suggest some things you overreact and insult him like that. You also cannot take things easy yourself, so what makes you think you have the right to criticize others. Furthermore that girl is not his gf. Since you advocate gender equality, why should you insist on him must be gentlemanly and all that shit? then shouldn't the guys stereotype too and insist women must wear more femininely and behave more femininely instead of going round making lame comments?
Another feminist...pui. Ask for gender equality and yet expect men to behave the way they want to.
Anyway equality does not exist in sg anyway. Some people lives are too good liao, don't have to serve NS and have job priorities going for them n yet they still bitch about men. -
Haha.. Dun come and bullshit me about guys being able to multi-task. To ask me for proof that men can't multi-task, do you in fact, have proof that men can? Lol.. No one's asking men to be more gentlemanly, and I suppose it IS too much to ask for all men to be gentlemanly.
So sorry for my "lame comments" ahhh.. Had forgotten that not all men are like my boyfriend and past boyfriends, whom I have never doubted to be true gentlemen. I think it's only right for guys to open doors for females, pull out chairs, and carry heavy stuff for them. After all, there IS a reason for them being born more physically-inclined then females, no? However, I'm not for guys paying everything though. That's taking advantage of the guys.
Hmmm.. Honestly think this topic is pointless. Haha.. Guys will never all be the same. And everyone change at some point of their life. Like this guy who was so sweet to my friend whom he was interested in and bought her tons of lollipops (which he knew she likes) and formed her name with it.. Turns out that this guy was a total arse who can't take rejection when my friend turned him down due to his attitude towards things in life.
Always did wonder how females who wished they were more powerfully built, felt about guys.. When they want so much to be independent but was not allowed to simply because they were females.. Hmmmmmm.... -
Haha.. Dun come and bull%#@! me about guys being able to multi-task. To ask me for proof that men can't multi-task, do you in fact, have proof that men can? Lol.. No one's asking men to be more gentlemanly, and I suppose it IS too much to ask for all men to be gentlemanly.
taken from www.careerjournal.com
Yet among human subjects in multitasking studies, University of Michigan psychology professor David Meyer says, "the two sexes typically come out about the same, on average." Even among air-traffic controllers, the Top Guns of multitasking -- of whom nearly one-fifth are women -- researchers don't see differences, says the Federal Aviation Administration's Carol Manning.
of course, from a sexist and biased point of view from you, only women can multitask?So sorry for my "lame comments" ahhh.. Had forgotten that not all men are like my boyfriend and past boyfriends, whom I have never doubted to be true gentlemen. I think it's only right for guys to open doors for females, pull out chairs, and carry heavy stuff for them. After all, there IS a reason for them being born more physically-inclined then females, no? However, I'm not for guys paying everything though. That's taking advantage of the guys.
woo what do we have? a bigot here?
asking for gender equality yet making unreasonable demands on men's supposed lack of gentlemanly behaviour and expect men to behave everything they want men to. It is as good as male chauvinists expecting women to wear skirts and nothing else (including pants and jeans), act as the women they are, forbid them to say any words that are deemed to be unfeminine like arse, assholes, demand that women stay at home and learn to be housewives and bear children instead of going out to work, believing males are superior to females,e.t.c. Regarding to opening of doors, a website for you to read :http://www.jtest28.com/MenHated.html.
taken from the website:
5:00 pm: It's time to go home, and remembering what Amy had said a few minutes earlier, I decide to open the door for a woman and her friend. As they walk by me, one of them commented, "What a pervert, he probably thinks he's going to get my number for opening the door for me."
Thanks to sexist sterotyping feminists like you here, we can never have real gender equality
such a sweet guy...I wish him luck in his future love life. Anyway, i do know of women that can't take rejection. Some time back (abt a few years ago), newspaper reported of a guy who left a girl for another one. The girl got so mad and end up stalking him and his new gf. When confronted, he replied that his former girlfriend is possessive and was controlling every aspect of his life. It was taken to the small case tribunals ( not too sure if it is the small claims tribunal or meditation from lawyers). They reach an agreement whereby the guy have to return his handphone given by his former gf and pay back the money for the gifts his former gf had given him. Such pettiness...tsk tsk
Hmmm.. Honestly think this topic is pointless. Haha.. Guys will never all be the same. And everyone change at some point of their life. Like this guy who was so sweet to my friend whom he was interested in and bought her tons of lollipops (which he knew she likes) and formed her name with it.. Turns out that this guy was a total arse who can't take rejection when my friend turned him down due to his attitude towards things in life.Always did wonder how females who wished they were more powerfully built, felt about guys.. When they want so much to be independent but was not allowed to simply because they were females.. Hmmmmmm
Wow now women can't be independent like you said? do you need brute strength to live in Singapore? there are reports that nowadays women are beginning to say no to marriage and pregnancy and is happily living a single life.http://www.singapore-window.org/sw02/020927a2.htm. Saying women can't be independent is a whole load of bullshiting crap. Women can't be more powerful than men? you should take a look at those weightlifting women in the olympic games.
Unfortunately, I have no interest to have this topic stretch to 9 pages here, which i see it as being pointless. Therefore i rest my case. I do have a website link for sexist sterotyping feminists like you to read
http://www.ifeminists.net/introduction/editorials/2004/0324roberts.html -
I guess many women who never had to fight for their rights and equality in the workplace are as clueless as men about gender equality.
Many (NOT ALL) gals in sg have very warped sense of equality, thereby causing this "heads I win, tails you lose" symdrome.
Based on personal experience, whenever I hold doors open for local women, I get snubbed. Why? Caucasian, indonesian and malaysian women on the other hand would smile and sometimes thank me for the gesture. For feminists and lower mentality ppl, no I did not sleep with them after that... sheesh...
I believe my table manners to be average for a modernised and civil society (ie no spitting, elbows on table, snorting, burping etc...). Many of my female friends are surprised when I wait for all parties involved to be present at the dinner table with their respective food before starting to dig in, yet some female friends of mine were appalled when I did not offer to cut their steak for them... (bear in mind that these female companions are/were not my gf)
Well dressed office women push, swear and elbow their way into the MRT trains during rush hour without allowing passengers to alight first, yet they expect men to give way to them. Passengers are supposed to alight FIRST. If a man needs to alight first, it is NOT common sense to expect him to give way to female passengers rushing into the train. This goes beyond govt propaganda, its manners, physics and common sense!
While women in sg are screaming for men to act like gentlemen and treat them as ladies, men like me are eager to treat a lady in a manner befitting her whenever we meet one...
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ask her to parade orchard road in a bikini and g-string. then tell her "what the fuck is wrong with you? you dont even dare to don swimming gear?"
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in the end you still have to get married lest you wanna lipslide other's rails or stay a childless maleOriginally posted by depressed:quote from R3SsH|n:
can lah. You can still live lah. Many of my friends have gone past at least 1/4 of their life without a gf. Anyway there are still some nice girls around that aren't like that. I have seen a few..not a lot tho
anyway bladez87 while i feel sorry for you you should not treat it too seriously that it affects ur personal life..just remember to pay her back her own coin lor.