4-6 year olds either wearing pampers or using strollers
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Saw before at Orchard Road, lazy kids refusing to walk.5 year old still using stroller.Omg
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youngsters nowadays are spoon-fed from young liaoz.........
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lazy parents lazy kids. wad to do.
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not all okay?if not there would not be straits time pocket funds or children's homeOriginally posted by Mr Fugue:youngsters nowadays are spoon-fed from young liaoz......... -
These 4-6 year olds are emotional blackmailers. They like to act cute to parents and get what they want.
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simon u dun like kids eh
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I always believe in Spare The Rod Spoil The Child. Compare nowadays children with past era they are so different. Pain should be inflicted on them at the opportune moment to install discipline.
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This the source of OBESITY in SIngapore; Parents, who over-pamper their children.
Would you be terrified if you are the enemy being charged by a troop nerdy looking softy soldiers?? -
"For the Glory of my McDonalds!!!..Yahhh! Yah! Yah!"Originally posted by ShutterBug:This the source of OBESITY in SIngapore; Parents, who over-pamper their children.
Would you be terrified if you are the enemy being charged by a troop nerdy looking softy soldiers??
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haiz.... kids nowadays dunno how to be good kids. parents nowadays dunno how to be good parents...
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haiz.... kids nowadays dunno how to be good kids. parents nowadays dunno how to be good parents...
Cane is a mandatory item in all parents hands to instill order and discipline. Past era parents and teachers had done that and look at their young disciples later grow up to be good parents.
Sadly, now parents has lost their touch with the cane. Dun they understand there are times when just good advice from the mouth cannot control the children? Inflict pain and they will remember.
Cane is also used as a punishment for criminals with serious crime in Spore so I dun see why it cannot be used by parents to control unrepentent children. -
Originally posted by sohguanh:
er, nope. cane is not good for the child's psychological health. look at my father can tell liao.
[b]haiz.... kids nowadays dunno how to be good kids. parents nowadays dunno how to be good parents...
Cane is a mandatory item in all parents hands to instill order and discipline. Past era parents and teachers had done that and look at their young disciples later grow up to be good parents.
Sadly, now parents has lost their touch with the cane. Dun they understand there are times when just good advice from the mouth cannot control the children? Inflict pain and they will remember.
Cane is also used as a punishment for criminals with serious crime in Spore so I dun see why it cannot be used by parents to control unrepentent children.[/b]
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er, nope. cane is not good for the child's psychological health. look at my father can tell liao.
You do not subscribe to the idea of using cane to instill discipline and order? Then how you propose to control very very naughty kids? Use mouth and advice?
Even in prisons, cane is used as a tool to inflict pain and punishment for serious offender. Why is that so? It must be for a reason.
When I advocate cane, I do not mean for every single slight thing you use cane cuz it will lose it's magical effect once the child get used to it. Only cane when very serious act is committed by the child to remind them that that is something parent cannot condone and should be remembered for life.
I believe cane is there for a reason and our prison services has proven that cane can and will make ppl reflect on their serious mistakes. We as parents can learn from the prison services in how to control very rebellious children. -
Originally posted by sohguanh:
i mean, one should not use the authoritarian position. inflicting positive punishment does not teach a child what is right. it teaches a child a cane is painful. he/she quickly learns to differentiate the stimulus.
[b]er, nope. cane is not good for the child's psychological health. look at my father can tell liao.
You do not subscribe to the idea of using cane to instill discipline and order? Then how you propose to control very very naughty kids? Use mouth and advice?
Even in prisons, cane is used as a tool to inflict pain and punishment for serious offender. Why is that so? It must be for a reason.
When I advocate cane, I do not mean for every single slight thing you use cane cuz it will lose it's magical effect once the child get used to it. Only cane when very serious act is committed by the child to remind them that that is something parent cannot condone and should be remembered for life.
I believe cane is there for a reason and our prison services has proven that cane can and will make ppl reflect on their serious mistakes. We as parents can learn from the prison services in how to control very rebellious children.
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parents should use cane to stop behavior, and then use gentler methods to reason with child. best is use social pressures, like tell the child if he continues to do that, his friends will not like him that sort of thing. but put it mildly.
i have seen children grow up to be really decent, clever kids without the use of cane. -
i have seen children grow up to be really decent, clever kids without the use of cane.
Did you grow up in a family and schools without cane? I am different cuz I come from the era where cane is prevalently used by parents and teachers. During my era, teachers already can use cane. Caning is not an exclusive act to be done by the discipline master or principals.
Look at our era kids, didn't we grow up to be more obedient as compared to the present crop of kids who dare to challenge teacher to fight and verbal abuse and threatening suicide etc etc methods?
I believe cane should be reinstated to instil law and order. Always remember spare the rod spoil the child. Words of wisdom for all parents to be