OK for 30 yr old guy in a relationship with 18 yr old gal?
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so what? i know 16 who engaged with 33..
and the more is some1 i lyk.. -
are all your friends paired up in this 16:33 age gap ratio...rare
so if u tink love can prevail go ahead dun lose out...but wen things dun work out...LPPL just chill out loh
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12 years gap
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1)the difference is 1 generation gap. bth of you will have different physical and mental needs along the way. the mismatch will create more frictions and therefore break up.
2)You must have the courage to face comments from others like craddle snatcher, loser and etc...
3)Men's life is shorter than ladies. by the time u are 50 years old. U be old and drained. but she will still be peak of life.
In short... Short term relationship is fine....Long term may be a fairy tale.
My 2 cents worth. -
ask the gal's parents. they may/would object.
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My neighbours, both husband and wives same sheng xiao, but diff age
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I love older women, so I'll definitely have no qualms abt dating someone 12 yrs older than I am. People being people will of course start to talk, but if you really like being with that individual, why bother?
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try what????Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):why not?? younger one i also try b4
PLS SAY
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agree with you bro, me 38 my wife 26 no problem leh.Originally posted by epImetheus:why bother about others? it is the couple thinking that matters. -
individual destiny is different.Originally posted by irage:1)the difference is 1 generation gap. bth of you will have different physical and mental needs along the way. the mismatch will create more frictions and therefore break up.
2)You must have the courage to face comments from others like craddle snatcher, loser and etc...
3)Men's life is shorter than ladies. by the time u are 50 years old. U be old and drained. but she will still be peak of life.
In short... Short term relationship is fine....Long term may be a fairy tale.
My 2 cents worth.
some needs to marry late as a cure one............ -
younger the better. My wife and i 6 years age gap.
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Ideally not ok, but most impt the heart is ok... the feelings or the chemistry
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I agree with younger the better.m Buts thier ability to comprehend and understand things that will be frustrating in a relationship. trust me.. u n her.. are not on the same level of things..
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this kind of thing.. wont be long term. Who says anything about long term. he he.. short term.. get the experience. n BANG..go for younger. U gotta break the record barrier.. how young. Using money doesnt count.Originally posted by irage:1)the difference is 1 generation gap. bth of you will have different physical and mental needs along the way. the mismatch will create more frictions and therefore break up.
2)You must have the courage to face comments from others like craddle snatcher, loser and etc...
3)Men's life is shorter than ladies. by the time u are 50 years old. U be old and drained. but she will still be peak of life.
In short... Short term relationship is fine....Long term may be a fairy tale.
My 2 cents worth. -
Be realistic. Twelve years is really a pretty huge age gap.
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fandi ahmad and wendy jacobs 12 years gap.
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KNN........this is simply paedophilia at it's most extreme.
i only 21 year old guy, and yet when i see those 19-year old and below xiao-mei-mei out there in MRTs and on the streets and malls etc., i cannot tahan their childish, giggly sickening behavior. somemore, how can this 30-year old guy go with 18 year old girl?
unless the guy lusts for fresh, young meat to squeeze and piak, and the girl lusts for big fast juicy white sticky cash and money.
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your heart. but most importantly, TRUST is they keyword to a sucessful relationship
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my current situation is a 17 years old old falling in love on me...
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the same girl that buy stuff for u?Originally posted by 798:my current situation is a 17 years old old falling in love on me...
i'm 31 this year... (headache)
hmmm.. well dude.. tat some luck u have..
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dat's some point i am feeling very guilty. she is only a student and not working, this could be her hard-saving...Originally posted by binZ:the same girl that buy stuff for u?
hmmm.. well dude.. tat some luck u have..
i will nvr spend such money even if i am really in love wif a gal...
i guess i am at lost of how not to give her false hope.
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don't take care, gf will give up on u.Originally posted by Technomage:your heart. but most importantly, TRUST is they keyword to a sucessful relationship -
to be frank.. u have already reached this age.. meaning u have gone through a number of stuff in ur life.. i dun think u need me to teach u wat to do..Originally posted by 798:dat's some point i am feeling very guilty. she is only a student and not working, this could be her hard-saving...
i will nvr spend such money even if i am really in love wif a gal...
i guess i am at lost of how not to give her false hope.
whether u love her or not, its for u to decide..
But sometimes.. being "jue" or "cruel" might be the best thing to do.. her life is only just begining.. -
yeah, i agree. i believe she could be lacking of 'fatherly love' since she never see her father since birth. somemore i am a role-model or hero figure to her. young gal tend to idol ou xiang at young age.Originally posted by binZ:to be frank.. u have already reached this age.. meaning u have gone through a number of stuff in ur life.. i dun think u need me to teach u wat to do..
whether u love her or not, its for u to decide..
But sometimes.. being "jue" or "cruel" might be the best thing to do.. her life is only just begining..
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Although i dun want to say this, i feel that u are leading her by the tip of the nose by not telling her that u dun love her and wont ever be with her? its better to tell her straight than she find out herself bah? or else the impact will be worst?Originally posted by 798:yeah, i agree. i believe she could be lacking of 'fatherly love' since she never see her father since birth. somemore i am a role-model or hero figure to her. young gal tend to idol ou xiang at young age.
i believe when she grow, her heart and mindset will change.
like what u say above, this will probably be the case.. just let her know and get t over with.. best for everyone?