Do you feel weird when...

• Ayukat

  18 Dec 05, 22:59

  I wouldn't say hurt... but its kinda a weird feeling...
  
  When one of your parents tell you something like "I married the wrong man." ot "I didn't know how to think in the past, thats why I married your mother."
  
  Would you feel weird? Coz if they didn't get married... you wouldn't be here and they're telling you this now?
• Ito_^

  18 Dec 05, 23:05

  no leh. my mom says dat all the time.
• chanff8

  18 Dec 05, 23:11

  its better than "I didn't know my taste is THAT bad last time..."
• kingofbeholder

  18 Dec 05, 23:11

  Originally posted by Ayukat:

  I wouldn't say hurt... but its kinda a weird feeling...
  
  When one of your parents tell you something like "I married the wrong man." ot "I didn't know how to think in the past, thats why I married your mother."
  
  Would you feel weird? Coz if they didn't get married... you wouldn't be here and they're telling you this now?

  tell them, you think come to the wrong family?
• alfagal

  18 Dec 05, 23:21

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  no leh. my mom says dat all the time.

  same here..
• JennTS

  18 Dec 05, 23:27

  i always wonder how my mum and dad could have actually loved each other that much to get married.
  
  now you see them quarrel all day and all night.
• polarsnake

  18 Dec 05, 23:29

  Originally posted by alfagal:

  same here..

  me too
• DrTech

  18 Dec 05, 23:32

  Originally posted by JennTS:

  i always wonder how my mum and dad could have actually loved each other that much to get married.
  
  now you see them quarrel all day and all night.

  Deep down... they still care for each other
• merciwaves92

  18 Dec 05, 23:32

  no lei,my mum also always says that.
  
• Pitot

  18 Dec 05, 23:40

  Ok, for the benefit of all..
  I shall define the different stages again..
  
  When they were a couple... I love you..
  
  When they were almost married and deeply in love.. You are my soulmate, i want to spend the rest of my life with you..
  
  When they are married.. This is my wife and i love her..
  
  When talking to his son.. Oi! Siao gina! This wan is ur mother leh.. can u believe it?
  
  
• ShutterBug

  19 Dec 05, 06:26

  I'd say that to some, such a statement or remark from your parent can hurt.
  
  I mean, it can make it seem like your existence was an accident.
  
  But however, you now have a life and a mind of your own, you lead your own life and learn from your parent's mistakes - don't make the same mistakes.
  
  Marriage is like that; once the person is married to you, or the both of them are married, they'd start to see MORE of each other's flaws. I'm married too, but I am aware of my wife'c short comings, but some what irks me most is her inability to polish up those flaws.
  
  But importantly, LOVE shuold prevail in the end. This keeps the family together...
• de_middle

  19 Dec 05, 10:35

  you may end up saying the same things sometime in the future....... LOVE IS BLIND
• zeny

  19 Dec 05, 10:47

  Originally posted by Ayukat:

  I wouldn't say hurt... but its kinda a weird feeling...
  
  When one of your parents tell you something like "I married the wrong man." ot "I didn't know how to think in the past, thats why I married your mother."
  
  Would you feel weird? Coz if they didn't get married... you wouldn't be here and they're telling you this now?

  relax bro is just normal letting out of fustration from both side of your parents is a normal process.
  
  The only time you seriously need to worry is when they refuse to talk to one another.