emotionally needy girlfriends.
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how do you deal with them?
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Share them with us!
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clingy ones u mean?
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as in those with alotta "issues" and family problems, hence looking up to their boyfriend as the solution of all their problems.
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Then you should support her and try to help her get rid of her problems and issues. If you cannot acheive that why are you still hanging around with her?
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when some people say "if u leave me i'll die", a rare few actually mean it.
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dude u better leave them or u will end up like meOriginally posted by Hellraiza:how do you deal with them? -
Read your PM
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I'm also curious to know what are guys opinion of emotionally needy girls...
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what happened to you?Originally posted by FBI:dude u better leave them or u will end up like me
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i bet phone bills will go up, or you find yourself having drinks at coffeebean for 6 hoursOriginally posted by Hellraiza:as in those with alotta "issues" and family problems, hence looking up to their boyfriend as the solution of all their problems. -
ask them to prove itOriginally posted by Hellraiza:when some people say "if u leave me i'll die", a rare few actually mean it. -
Who gives a shit about them. They go not other friends so they hang on to their bf. And the bf become the slave to the gf; his good buddies ask him to f**k off becos he's got a dog humping his foot everytime he walks somewhere.Originally posted by Hellraiza:how do you deal with them? -
So is it safe to say that guys don't like too emotional or girls with many emotional needs
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I think that it's important that one should lend support and care for each other in a relationship but in a relationship where there's threats like the above one u mentioned, then i think it's not a healthy relationship and something ought to be done..the best solution might be leave her but of cos at the same time, not allowing her to do foolish things..maybe talk to her family or friends etc.
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hmm... tell her not to be easily swayed by her emotions but think.. Don't always do things by how she feel but rather what she thinks..
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she needs so much love that she find other dudes.Originally posted by An0nym0us:what happened to you?
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Try to help and to be there for her. After awhile, she will be ok
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oh i need u please dun go please dun go help help dun like dat leh tonite free or not come stay wif me i very lonely very scarely one day u leave me how promise me know forget me not not not i love u ar
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the same one happened to mine..Originally posted by FBI:she needs so much love that she find other dudes.
get wat i mean?
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I've had the bad luck to befriend two women like that.Originally posted by Hellraiza:how do you deal with them?
At first I gave them the listening ear and help I thought they needed. But they kept returning to the same old song. It was around then that I realised they were affecting me too - by slowing sucking the life out of me. I asked another friend for advice and it turned out she was also "helping"! Anyway, to cut a long story short, I just couldn't give them the kind of help they needed. -
I've one clinging to me during Sec Sch. Finally get her off from liking me, but felt bad doing so.
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yeah sureOriginally posted by FadeToBlack:the same one happened to mine..
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how do you deal with them?
Do you love them in the first place, if you do, whats the need to 'deal 'with 'them'? -
Just be firm.
Tell them u need space to do your own things.
They have to learn to be independent, if not the r/s will not work.