Having gf...no good

• forum_man

  6 Feb 06, 15:45

  haiz seeing some lonely guys here asking for gf for their valentine day feels sad...but i personally think that having a gf is not really good...why?
  
  Firstly they expect alot of your time,love and attention...Now i no time to mingle with my buddies, go out with them she will ta along too...
  
  Secondly she is sucking away my energy....physically (during sex) and mentally (always monitoring my movements)...
  
  Lastly she is controlling my finance....haiz my money she know every cents, my finance minister...
  
  So you guys still wan Valentine day?
• SGpork

  6 Feb 06, 15:47

  ya lor ya lor..
  
  so have u break up with her ?
  
  
  
  
• forum_man

  6 Feb 06, 15:53

  I think when guys and gals just got into BGR relation, everything seems sweet and honeyed....
  
  But once they are together for long time, know each other inside out, friction starts to come...worst if staying together... (which im encountering now)...
  
  Knew my gf for 4 years liao...haiz. really no freedom leh...Now i know why guys got 7 years itchness...haha i 4 years nia itchy liao....
  
  Gals care to comment, why you all like that huh???
  
  so you still wanna Valentine Day?
• dragg

  6 Feb 06, 15:53

  the are always 2 sides to a coin.
  
  
• Sleeping Forest

  6 Feb 06, 15:59

  very simple.
  
  if its no gd,its bcos u hav a lousy gf, u are e lousy 1, or u are nt capable of handling a relationship.
  
  
• BadzMaro

  6 Feb 06, 16:03

  
• StarPuppy

  6 Feb 06, 16:04

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  

  eh...your balls not stuck in the machine liao arh?
  
  
• charlize

  6 Feb 06, 16:04

  You suck.
  
  Yes, you.
  
  
• FadeToBlack

  6 Feb 06, 16:33

  I only wan gf for sex......
• DailyFreeGames.com

  6 Feb 06, 17:12

  Singapore girls very materialistic lah, think you said all those reasons is because you've got yourself a typical singaporean girl... It's hard to find somebody special who is different for a change, but then that's why they are sometimes so special... For me, now that I am stuck with a gf i would wished i am single, but if i am single, i might want to have a nice gf to spend my time with, so it's a no right no wrong answer lah... If you happen to find a special girl, then great, otherwise, don't complain lah... you complain later your gf also come here to complain, then everybody complain...
• browniebaobao

  6 Feb 06, 17:15

  Originally posted by forum_man:

  I think when guys and gals just got into BGR relation, everything seems sweet and honeyed....
  
  But once they are together for long time, know each other inside out, friction starts to come...worst if staying together... (which im encountering now)...
  
  Knew my gf for 4 years liao...haiz. really no freedom leh...Now i know why guys got 7 years itchness...haha i 4 years nia itchy liao....
  
  Gals care to comment, why you all like that huh???
  
  so you still wanna Valentine Day?

  when u have the sexual need, would u say u dun wana have gf?
  
  then go one night stand or find pro to sleep with u and be rewarded with AIDS?
• alkaiden

  6 Feb 06, 19:13

  try to find hot female frenz who r willing to make love to u but not emotionally attached...
  
  but if u think ur gf is a chore, den i think u shld find someone better. if u realli hit off well w her, u shld enjoy the time u hav w her...
• hyperactivechatterbox

  6 Feb 06, 19:14

  Scully your girlfriend sees this....
• 798

  6 Feb 06, 20:14

  Originally posted by forum_man:

  I think when guys and gals just got into BGR relation, everything seems sweet and honeyed....
  
  But once they are together for long time, know each other inside out, friction starts to come...worst if staying together... (which im encountering now)...
  
  Knew my gf for 4 years liao...haiz. really no freedom leh...Now i know why guys got 7 years itchness...haha i 4 years nia itchy liao....
  
  Gals care to comment, why you all like that huh???
  
  so you still wanna Valentine Day?

  yeah, i agree. when you start a r/s, there are so many commitment, like the time your partner doubt you not loving him/her enough. i remembered 2 years back i nvr bothered to call a gal i treasured much on valentine day, in the end she left me for good...
• 798

  6 Feb 06, 20:16

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  when u have the sexual need, would u say u dun wana have gf?
  
  then go one night stand or find pro to sleep with u and be rewarded with AIDS?

  there's always 'raincoat'.
• CoolMyth

  6 Feb 06, 20:18

  When people don't have something, they complain.
  
  When people have that something, they also complain.
  
  Such is the irony of life.
• browniebaobao

  6 Feb 06, 20:23

  Originally posted by 798:

  there's always 'raincoat'.

  wat if raincoat got hole?
  
  strike 4D lor.
• UandMe

  6 Feb 06, 20:24

  Originally posted by forum_man:

  haiz seeing some lonely guys here asking for gf for their valentine day feels sad...but i personally think that having a gf is not really good...why?
  
  Firstly they expect alot of your time,love and attention...Now i no time to mingle with my buddies, go out with them she will ta along too...
  
  Secondly she is sucking away my energy....physically (during sex) and mentally (always monitoring my movements)...
  
  Lastly she is controlling my finance....haiz my money she know every cents, my finance minister...
  
  So you guys still wan Valentine day?

  yes we still wan a gf and Valentine's day, we just dun want to have a gf like yours...
• 798

  6 Feb 06, 20:24

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  wat if raincoat got hole?
  
  strike 4D lor.

  wear 2 den. maybe carry an umbrella as well.
• Wolfwoof^^

  6 Feb 06, 20:32

  Originally posted by forum_man:

  I think when guys and gals just got into BGR relation, everything seems sweet and honeyed....
  
  But once they are together for long time, know each other inside out, friction starts to come...worst if staying together... (which im encountering now)...
  
  Knew my gf for 4 years liao...haiz. really no freedom leh...Now i know why guys got 7 years itchness...haha i 4 years nia itchy liao....
  
  Gals care to comment, why you all like that huh???
  
  so you still wanna Valentine Day?

  I stay wif my x for 2yrs wor.. then breakoff.. Dont know why but last time we so much in love, kaoz!
• 798

  6 Feb 06, 20:37

  Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:

  I stay wif my x for 2yrs wor.. then breakoff.. Dont know why but last time we so much in love, kaoz!

  it was more heartpain that both used to fall in love and fallen off... sometime make one wonder is r/s is such a burden? giving not enough, she complained, giving too much for her... she walk off of your life... tiring... really tiring...
• Kuali Baba

  6 Feb 06, 21:13

  Originally posted by 798:

  wear 2 den.

  The friction between 2 'raincoats' can break both of them...no kidding.
• PT21

  6 Feb 06, 23:28

  Hello
  FadeToBlack, u really a knnbccb,
  
  no wander now gal see guy like a jerk, is because of u guys out there, playing with love.
  
  Knnb ccb
• darknessfall

  6 Feb 06, 23:34

  initially i tot i was in AA...haha..
  
  anyway, when you have one, u wish u were single and enjoying singlehood
  when u r alone, u desperately wish that you have a bf/gf to keep you company
  
  its always like that..but i think, if you think your partner is so bad or straining to you, find a nicer one. Or talk to her about your problem to strengthen the r/s...no use complaining and she dunno about it....
  
  cheers...gl
• BaByBoY

  6 Feb 06, 23:46

  when they need u, u`ll feel like king
  when u`re of no use, they`ll just hack care u