Friends... also not like this right??

• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 11:07

  ..... I regularly meet up with one of my good female friend in a pub for a drink over the weekend. But she got another group of friends who are regular there too. So most of the time we end up in the same table, i had no problem with that. But the thing that bugged me was that my this female friend would talked and joked with them the whole night, that means i am left in the cold, totally ignored. Once in a while is ok, but it had becomes a routine and i am starting to get piss off. Now i don't feel like meeting her up again, i think i deserve better treatment. I tried to be friendly with her friends but they never reciprocate. Enough is enough.
  
  ..... Have you been in a similar situation as mine??
• Ito_^

  17 Feb 06, 11:08

  post her sex vid online lor
• FireIce

  17 Feb 06, 11:09

  socialise with her group of frens and be part of the group....
• charlize

  17 Feb 06, 11:10

  Get drunk.
  
  And spill all the dirty little secrets about your friend with her friends.
  
  
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 11:52

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  socialise with her group of frens and be part of the group....

  ..... i tried very hard liow, but they were not receptive. I don't quite like them either, when they saw me they always pretend not to see me. I don't give a hoot on her friends really, just give my this female friend face only. Not welcome by the group is alright with me, but the worst is to be ignored by my female friend. Wanted to tell her but those are her good friends too. Need to change a new pub i guessed.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 11:53

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  post her sex vid online lor

  ..... she's not a porn star
• coffeeortea

  17 Feb 06, 11:54

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... she's not a porn star

  the nyp girl not a pornstar too
• charlize

  17 Feb 06, 11:54

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... she's not a porn star

  She will be.
  
  Soon.
  
  
• shade343

  17 Feb 06, 11:54

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... i tried very hard liow, but they were not receptive. I don't quite like them either, when they saw me they always pretend not to see me. I don't give a hoot on her friends really, just give my this female friend face only. Not welcome by the group is alright with me, but the worst is to be ignored by my female friend. Wanted to tell her but those are her good friends too. Need to change a new pub i guessed.

  well since you tried and things didnt work out, maybe the next time she ask you to go out, politely decline and say its "awkward".
• SGpork

  17 Feb 06, 11:54

  u like her isit?
  
  
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 11:54

  Originally posted by charlize:

  Get drunk.
  
  And spill all the dirty little secrets about your friend with her friends.
  
  

  ..... Get drunk before, but all that came out was the food and drink she had eaten
• ^tamago^

  17 Feb 06, 11:57

  mix, mix, remix....
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 11:58

  Originally posted by shade343:

  well since you tried and things didnt work out, maybe the next time she ask you to go out, politely decline and say its "awkward".

  ..... Sounds sensible...
• skeujin

  17 Feb 06, 11:59

  if u made up yr mind tt u dnt mind losing this drinking buddy. thn next time she asks u out. ask her about her behavior n that of her frens. b tactful.
  
  i have regular drinking buds. n if one of us brings some1 down. we will accomodate n entertain to a certain extent. if the person is boring, does not participate n in a world of his own. we will put our attention to betr use.
• charlize

  17 Feb 06, 11:59

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... Get drunk before, but all that came out was the food and drink she had eaten

  For a start, you can tell that to her friends.
  
  
• technoboy

  17 Feb 06, 12:01

  Bring your other friends along as well?
• charlize

  17 Feb 06, 12:01

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Bring your other friends along as well?

  Yeah.
  
  Fight, fight.
  
  
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:02

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  u like her isit?
  
  

  .....I knew her almost 3 years liow, from the beginning, yes... got some feeling for her. BUT since got rejected once we remain as very good friend from then on, nothing more than that.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:04

  Originally posted by coffeeortea:

  the nyp girl not a pornstar too

  ..... heyy what's nyp??
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:08

  Originally posted by charlize:

  For a start, you can tell that to her friends.
  
  

  ..... tried many times already, they SUXXX!!!!
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:09

  Originally posted by ^tamago^:

  mix, mix, remix....

  ..... Mix cocktails??
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:11

  Originally posted by technoboy:

  Bring your other friends along as well?

  .....Others yeahh..but the taste of music and crowd don't suits them
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:13

  Originally posted by skeujin:

  if u made up yr mind tt u dnt mind losing this drinking buddy. thn next time she asks u out. ask her about her behavior n that of her frens. b tactful.
  
  i have regular drinking buds. n if one of us brings some1 down. we will accomodate n entertain to a certain extent. if the person is boring, does not participate n in a world of his own. we will put our attention to betr use.

  ..... Sounds sensible too, good suggestion....
• NeverSayGoodBye

  17 Feb 06, 12:14

  Originally posted by charlize:

  Yeah.
  
  Fight, fight.
  
  

  ..... YEAhhh..standby lights and cameras.... you joker lahh!!!
• alkaiden

  17 Feb 06, 15:30

  u guy or gal? are her frens guys or gals?
  
  mayb u not attractive or funny enough bahz. if u dun wanna go tell her u dun wanna go lahz, shes nt the 1 forcing u anyway. tink for urself