As usual, common fren lend $ pisses u off
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wad can u do when a friend of urs lend few hundred bucks and kept delaying the debt?
are this kinda ppl. considered 'friends'? -
Traitors!
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no they are just using you.
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Good friends wont ask you for hundreds of dollars.
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they might have trouble paying the debts.
treat them as 17+... if they nv work, it might take quite a long time.
as few hundreds is not really little.
may be u can ask him pay bits by bits ba. -
everytime always lose money when I lend them money.
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They simply making use of you loh. Very common these days and both sex (men or women) also know of this trick. So remember, never borrow $$$ to people you don't know well. If you really want to do it, be sure not a big amount of $$$.
In modern days, no such things as friendship liao. Even if you r asking them out just for a tea or kopi, they'll think you are trying to get them payup and will avoid u at all cost. They don't even appreciate your helpfullness and dear friendship. What to do.......like it or not......this is life.
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Frienz lend $ still ok...They still will pay u back slowly...Relatives den jialat...They don return how to open mouth ask them for it...
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Wah, this is even worst. Normally relatives borrow a bigger amount of $$$ rather than friends.Originally posted by godofdeath:Frienz lend $ still ok...They still will pay u back slowly...Relatives den jialat...They don return how to open mouth ask them for it... -
i must be lucky then...my relatives help out my family because of our bad financial status. and the best thing about it is that they no ask us to pay them back.
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don't lend money that you are not prepared to write off.....lending people cash is like investing. Sometimes you get your money back plus interest, sometimes you lose everything because the stock market crashed
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Aiyo, manager, why you use this kind of siggy
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Do u mean ur fren borrowed money and refused payment?
At that moment when u have decided to lend him the money, u should be sure whether he will pay up and be prepared that there's a possibility he won't. -
yea...times have change......i have met this scenario for alot of times liao......even things like earphones or Cd games...
theres one friend of my who borrowed my creative earphones frm me last year december when theres secondary school holiday...now hes in sec 5 NA and i waiting to go poly...we seems to be less in communication liao.....i call his handphone he also tiam tiam act blur act blur like this....some more he haven return me my friend FROZEN THRONE CD lor....wa liao what the hell sia....i wanna go back school beat him up liao!!!!
another scenerio is that when i hanging out with friends everytime need to spend money like play pool or bowling they everytime say no money no money lor....then in the end i have no chioce but to treat them....the reason why i got more money than them is that i dun spend so much money on cloths or electronic gadguts and i know how to save......
lesson learnt 1:do not lend things to friend if u are not gonna communicate so much with him le..
leasson learnt 2:when u hang out with friends....DO NOT BRING NETS....and have money in your wallet juz enough for urself for that day......so ur frens will not have any thing to say liao..... -
Whats wrong this time? Looks like my siggy always got problems wor.Originally posted by polarsnake:Aiyo, manager, why you use this kind of siggy -
nt refuse, but keep dragging. he sae 1 month in 1st place. den nw drag until almost 1yr..Originally posted by browniebaobao:Do u mean ur fren borrowed money and refused payment?
At that moment when u have decided to lend him the money, u should be sure whether he will pay up and be prepared that there's a possibility he won't. -
look at his personalities b4 lending him moneyOriginally posted by Purplehaze623:wad can u do when a friend of urs lend few hundred bucks and kept delaying the debt?
are this kinda ppl. considered 'friends'? -
You can't judge his/her personalities by his ineptness to pay off the debts. Look at the reasons before you judge.
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dont think you will be able to get it back lah...
i also lent my friend 1000 bucks. till now 1 yr liao. find that he is like avoiding me now.
i already put that into my bad debts account liao... -
i will never ever lent my friend 1000, not to mention 100. 10 still can consideredOriginally posted by digicharat:dont think you will be able to get it back lah...
i also lent my friend 1000 bucks. till now 1 yr liao. find that he is like avoiding me now.
i already put that into my bad debts account liao... -
wahh.. unlucky of u... mine's only around 300... i reallie hate calling ppl. for those bad debts.Originally posted by digicharat:dont think you will be able to get it back lah...
i also lent my friend 1000 bucks. till now 1 yr liao. find that he is like avoiding me now.
i already put that into my bad debts account liao... -
If you lend money to friends/relatives and they are not returning you anything. My advice to you is to call that person up, tell him/her that the sum of money is considered given away and does not need to be return.
And from that point onwards, you have free yourself of the frustration and hatred towards that person. That is no need to make yourself suffer because of other person's wrongdoings.
If you do it right, the person who owns you money will stop avoiding you, will have a better opinion of you, and may ever consider returning you the money in future.
Guys, all of you must understand that money lost can be easily earn back, human relationships that are lost are hard to come back and may never ever come back. I understand this because I have experience, don't follow my footsteps. -
how come you lend that person so much?
shd lend $20 -50.
few hundred dollars? cannot borrow from parents? -
Originally posted by SoulDivine:
I half agree with u, but half not agree with u... especially when u mentioned call tat person up and say tat u given him tat sum of money and does not need to return.. my view is tat, if tat person who is sincere of cherishing u as a frien, he will still insists of paying u back, even if u say tat to him/her.. maybe by installment la.. but if the person did tat again and again how? isn't tat taking advantage of u? tat's y sometimes must see how is the situation first...
If you lend money to friends/relatives and they are not returning you anything. My advice to you is to call that person up, tell him/her that the sum of money is considered given away and does not need to be return.
And from that point onwards, you have [b]free yourself of the frustration and hatred towards that person. That is no need to make yourself suffer because of other person's wrongdoings.
If you do it right, the person who owns you money will stop avoiding you, will have a better opinion of you, and may ever consider returning you the money in future.
Guys, all of you must understand that money lost can be easily earn back, human relationships that are lost are hard to come back and may never ever come back. I understand this because I have experience, don't follow my footsteps. [/b]
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Yahor, should try borrow from family members first. But then why didnt I think of this and wifout thinking twice fork out few hundred bucks to help friends leh? Hmm.....maybe this is wat I call: Yi Qi.Originally posted by dark_snowboy:how come you lend that person so much?
shd lend $20 -50.
few hundred dollars? cannot borrow from parents?