is this a punishment?
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i know this guy 4 years ago. he was my tuition classmate. we were not really closed. there were once after one year of knowing each other, he sent a sms which was a bit strange to me. he asked me whether i had a picture of loving couple in my handphones or not n asked me to sent it to him for his friend wanted it. so i sent to him n he sent me back a pic of loving couple which is diifferent from mine. i was wondering what he was trying to say. then he wrote a long sms about telling me long grandmother story n at the last sentence he said he liked me. i was stunt at that moment. i remembered i was having tuition with my cousin at that time. i couldnt concentrate at all. i didnt know what to say. n i couldnt ask my cousin opinion 4 she got big mouth n will tell my mom probably. but i received the secong which say i was just joking. so all my nervousness low down. the next day, he sms me by saying now it is true, i like you. oh, it is my first experience, i feel so happy. at least somebody like me although i didnt like him at all. instead of rejecting or accepting him, i just ignored him. he thought that i accepted him. i started to hate him n avoided him. he was actually quite good to me. he took care of me. when there was a break or he purposely requested for break during tuition, he would go out n took cold drink 4 me. but, there was once i was so sick, he asked me whether i was ok n gave me warm water. but just that i didnt like him always stick to me. now, i was still single n very lonely, while all my friends have their own love story. i sometimes feel very jealous. is this a punishment 4 ignoring him?
can give me opinion after you have read this long story of mine?
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first of all no need to feel depressed over this.
you didnt like him that's it. case closed.
seeing your friend in relationship doesn't mean you must like someone you doesn't like in the first place. take it slow. in time to come you will meet the right guy. -
thx a lot.....Originally posted by playboy_1985:first of all no need to feel depressed over this.
you didnt like him that's it. case closed.
seeing your friend in relationship doesn't mean you must like someone you doesn't like in the first place. take it slow. in time to come you will meet the right guy.
i feel much better now. hihihi. -
there is no punishment. it is all a matter of choice, don't feel that not accepting someone who likes you is wrong. do you like him? if no then so be it. you are not obliged to like him, just because he likes you.
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Originally posted by Michaeled:there is no punishment. it is all a matter of choice, don't feel that not accepting someone who likes you is wrong. do you like him? if no then so be it. you are not obliged to like him, just because he likes you.
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is this a punishment 4 ignoring him? can give me opinion after you have read this long story of mine?
No, this is confirm *not* punishment, and there will be *no* punishment for whatever happened between you and that guy. It is 100% within your right to decide if you wished to reciprocate, or not.
You will soon have opportunities for other, more helpful and mutually affectionate relationships, as long as your heart is open to receiving them.
For those interested to understand how karma really works (it is *not* the 'retribution' that pple often misunderstand it as), visit my website here. -
Originally posted by sasa89:
i know this guy 4 years ago. he was my tuition classmate. we were not really closed. there were once after one year of knowing each other, he sent a sms which was a bit strange to me. he asked me whether i had a picture of loving couple in my handphones or not n asked me to sent it to him for his friend wanted it. so i sent to him n he sent me back a pic of loving couple which is diifferent from mine. i was wondering what he was trying to say. then he wrote a long sms about telling me long grandmother story n at the last sentence he said he liked me. i was stunt at that moment. i remembered i was having tuition with my cousin at that time. i couldnt concentrate at all. i didnt know what to say. n i couldnt ask my cousin opinion 4 she got big mouth n will tell my mom probably. but i received the secong which say i was just joking. so all my nervousness low down. the next day, he sms me by saying now it is true, i like you. oh, it is my first experience, i feel so happy. at least somebody like me although i didnt like him at all. instead of rejecting or accepting him, i just ignored him. he thought that i accepted him. i started to hate him n avoided him. he was actually quite good to me. he took care of me. when there was a break or he purposely requested for break during tuition, he would go out n took cold drink 4 me. but, there was once i was so sick, he asked me whether i was ok n gave me warm water. but just that i didnt like him always stick to me. now, i was still single n very lonely, while all my friends have their own love story. i sometimes feel very jealous. is this a punishment 4 ignoring him?
can give me opinion after you have read this long story of mine?
u dun feel touched meh?? -
one question though...
why u started to avoid him after he confessed?
i am always baffled by this question...with no answer... -
cos it is awkward to face the person, esp if she rejected him?Originally posted by R3SsH|n:one question though...
why u started to avoid him after he confessed?
i am always baffled by this question...with no answer... -
whats so awkward about someone liking you? being love and loving someone is a normal thing wad...Originally posted by rainee:cos it is awkward to face the person, esp if she rejected him?
haiz..personal experience...
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h, it is my first experience, i feel so happy. at least somebody like me although i didnt like him at all. instead of rejecting or accepting him, i just ignored him
seems to me ur an ugly biatch who after so long has someone who 'likes' u. does that make u feel good or larger ur ego?
u wan him to keep on 'liking' juz cuz u can feel better bcuz u gt low self-esteem bah. But when hes doing stuff for u, u feel annoyed.
lol cant blame u either, cuz the guy is being a retard -
Originally posted by tt3:
i felt touched. but i felt shy at the same time, cause i am a shy girl
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u dun feel touched meh??
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. by the way i felt awkward. just that it is a not nice feeling. i also dun think much because i was quite young 
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the reason why i avoid him is because he give me those kind of strange feeling. i noe that it is my fault not telling him the truth about me not liking him. but the way i think is, if i rejected him, i afraid he will very bad, but if i accept him, it is like a hell to me. i dun even know wat to do. so the best way is to avoid.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:one question though...
why u started to avoid him after he confessed?
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yes, i am ugly compared to the pretty one. but i am not so bad. i didnt expect anybody to like me. my target of having a relationship is when i have work. i just feel lonely sometimes. being like by somebody whom you dun like him at all n no feeling, i will feel very terrible n horrible. instead i dun noe how to tell the truth to him. i afraid i will hurt his hurt. i am very afraid to make mistake esp to hurt my friends' hurtOriginally posted by alkaiden:seems to me ur an ugly biatch who after so long has someone who 'likes' u. does that make u feel good or larger ur ego?
u wan him to keep on 'liking' juz cuz u can feel better bcuz u gt low self-esteem bah. But when hes doing stuff for u, u feel annoyed.
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it's not really necessary to aceppt someone who treats u good.Originally posted by sasa89:i felt touched. but i felt shy at the same time, cause i am a shy girl . by the way i felt awkward. just that it is a not nice feeling. i also dun think much because i was quite young
U might jus missed out a v good guy i think.
anyway it's already over, don nede to feel bad.
ANyway next time, jus pretend not to know.
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so... that was four years ago? are you still in contact with him? is he still showing interest in you?
yes? good. make good use of him first and dump him the very moment you found your supposely right guy.