Originally posted by Wanda:
How does the beh kim (wreath fund) come about in the past? Does anyone know?
Was it bec people were poor then, so relatives and friends make a contribution to help out with expenses of the funeral? If that's the reason, then it seems to be a kind of outdated practice?
I do contribute it but give a token sum only, since it's not like the family really needs money. But some ppl think that we shd contribute a lot more if it's for close relatives. What do you think?
Not too sure about it's originity actually.
Heard from my grandfather that people in the past were poor, so they pooled their money together to help their fellow mates in settling the funeral proceedings and burial. They put all the monies garnered and placed in a piece of white cloth and passed it to the immediate family members.
The tradition evolved to the nowadays that we use a white envelope instead of white cloth.
As for the amount, it's actually a gesture.