Slim looking guys

• CynthiaLady

  15 Apr 06, 14:20

  according my fren( she's female) she feels the new cosmopolitan men are supposed to be feminine in appearance. They normally are slim and not muscular or wadever
  And macho ruggard unshaven guys are shown the exit in these times
  
  I also do notice men nowadays ( in their 20s and 30s) have this persona attached to them...the pressure to be cosmopolitan? Too soft also no good leh..
  As women preferences like to change over time. some men i said willb e confused and still stuck in the older times,
  
  
• borntolive

  15 Apr 06, 16:01

  ?? huh wad u mean so guys should be muscular n not shaven?
  
  care to eloborate?
• CynthiaLady

  15 Apr 06, 21:44

  Originally posted by borntolive:

  ?? huh wad u mean so guys should be muscular n not shaven?
  
  care to eloborate?

  depends on what women in present times wan. Last time popular is ah beng lor
  Now it is cosmopolitan.
  
  What i mean is women change their prefernce according to the times so should thg uys change as well?
  
  many of them are tying to do but some ar enot successful. Sometimes your inside nature cant be changed.
  
  
• FireIce

  15 Apr 06, 21:47

  Originally posted by CynthiaLady:

  many of them are tying to do but some ar enot successful. Sometimes your inside nature cant be changed.
  
  

  yah loh yah loh
  
  some ppl leopard neber change spots oso
• CynthiaLady

  15 Apr 06, 21:47

  talkng to a few male friends, many of them are not fussy when it comes to women. You know some degree grad men also married their maids.
  
  so where is this whole thing heading? Women are they brainwashed by society from time to time?
  
  
• KenPlus

  15 Apr 06, 21:47

  Well I feel that regardless of Males or females,it best for individual to dress or looks the way they like themselves,not others preferences.
• ^tamago^

  15 Apr 06, 21:48

  yeah, i understand wat u mean.... more and more girls go for pretty boys instead of muscular and protective guys....
• CynthiaLady

  15 Apr 06, 21:49

  some guy are act smart also. half cosmo half ah beng kind.
  
  
• CynthiaLady

  15 Apr 06, 21:51

  pretty boy some are so "pretty" they can pass off as females. irks me..
  
  Men shuld have some kind of hardness int heir nature, if not they ar not men.
  
  so dont try to buy into what the mags or the media portraying their ideal iomage of comsopolitan.
  
  I feel they are just trying to sell products if u seen the movie Fihgt Club you know what i mean
• FireIce

  15 Apr 06, 21:53

  hanor hanor
  some ppl irks me oso
  
  tsk!
• CynthiaLady

  15 Apr 06, 21:53

  Originally posted by ^tamago^:

  yeah, i understand wat u mean.... more and more girls go for pretty boys instead of muscular and protective guys....

  ya many males are nowadays becoming more like females...
• ^tamago^

  15 Apr 06, 21:58

  this is a guy. pretty?
  
• alwaysdisturbed

  15 Apr 06, 22:10

  wat abt those wif beach muscles? i find dat they r oso on the increase...
• tiggersgd

  15 Apr 06, 22:16

  guys, just be urself.
• alwaysdisturbed

  15 Apr 06, 22:24

  Originally posted by tiggersgd:

  guys, just be urself.

  i am being myself...
  
  i shld say i'm hardly influenced by the general...
• chunyong

  15 Apr 06, 22:59

  Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:

  wat abt those wif beach muscles? i find dat they r oso on the increase...

  males are supposed to grow muscles mah, dats y we have 15x more testosterones than females...its the most marvellous chemical ever...the chemical to grow and also...to spark off wars...make full use of it during your teens and into your 30s...cos when u reach 40s...u dun have dat much of them in u liao...
  
  muscles also protect your body mah..imagine u have thick pects...its like a layer of extra armour protecting your heart, lungs etc...
• Kuali Baba

  15 Apr 06, 23:16

  I have small bones, that's the way I've been endowed.
• MrFugue

  15 Apr 06, 23:31

  Originally posted by CynthiaLady:

  pretty boy some are so "pretty" they can pass off as females. irks me..
  
  Men shuld have some kind of hardness int heir nature, if not they ar not men.
  
  so dont try to buy into what the mags or the media portraying their ideal iomage of comsopolitan.
  
  I feel they are just trying to sell products if u seen the movie Fihgt Club you know what i mean

  nabei munnabhai mbbs as cynthialiady
• ^tamago^

  15 Apr 06, 23:36

  interesting...
• joker105

  15 Apr 06, 23:48

  Originally posted by CynthiaLady:

  according my fren( she's female) she feels the new cosmopolitan men are supposed to be feminine in appearance. They normally are slim and not muscular or wadever
  And macho ruggard unshaven guys are shown the exit in these times
  
  I also do notice men nowadays ( in their 20s and 30s) have this persona attached to them...the pressure to be cosmopolitan? Too soft also no good leh..
  As women preferences like to change over time. some men i said willb e confused and still stuck in the older times,
  
  

  hmm.... wat happen 2 tall dark n handsome....
  
• zanza

  15 Apr 06, 23:51

  
  
  Thats a guy [/quote]
• boy in blues

  15 Apr 06, 23:52

  oh jolly goot......
  Bollywood Beng very handsome
  
• digicharat

  16 Apr 06, 06:40

  i watch discovery channel they said that women on normal days will prefer guys who look softer.
  but when nearing their period, they like more masculine guys...
  so how?
• digicharat

  16 Apr 06, 06:41

  Originally posted by ^tamago^:

  this is a guy. pretty?
  

  wow... very cute.
• cornyfish2000

  16 Apr 06, 07:08

  Originally posted by digicharat:

  but when nearing their period, they like more masculine guys...
  so how?

  Nearing ovulation, not period...