What is my children's identify?
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No experienced, cannot married yet got another question. 
My brother asked me to go for Malay Girl to marry, he say malay girls "sayang Ah Bung ceocoh ceocoh". I got no objection over it lah. Anyway, marry malay girl only need to "potong" a bit then Jalan leh and afterthat masuo sini. My dad also need not to worry about dowry cause the girl side will give to the man. Besides that, I will get a new place to live.. leaving my house to my dad. Of Course, I will have to change my name to
Problem is what happened to my kids if any
What will be show on their birth certificate
Will he be a Chinese a Malay a Mix-blood What surname he followed Is he a Majority or Minority?
My dad is very concerned..his thinking is still very old chinese. I am even more worried when their classmates laughed at them too. -
Other things i dunno, but sir-name can be either father's or mother's 1, normally father's 1..
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I thought if I "Jia" malay girl, I had to change name leh. Maybe become Abdullah or Ali like that.Originally posted by rathcycle:Other things i dunno, but sir-name can be either father's or mother's 1, normally father's 1..
Next thing is that am I still a Chinese? By changing surname, my kids will be what? -
I susposed only those midwife or KK nurse can answer these identity problem for me. I don't want my kids to be called "Chap Cheng" by other kids..I will be angry. 
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you are living in the past, gotta be progressive la.Originally posted by king108: I susposed only those midwife or KK nurse can answer these identity problem for me. I don't want my kids to be called "Chap Cheng" by other kids..I will be angry. -
But what will be their identities? I am very curious..Originally posted by LazerLordz:you are living in the past, gotta be progressive la. -
Think ur name will change to something something... bin Abdullah. Coz Abdullah was the father of Muhammad.
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Wah.. Usually the children of mixed parentage always very good looking sia..
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huh? marriage so easy one ah? say marry malay girl means tomorrow you will straight away find a malay girl to marry and have kids!?!!
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Originally posted by TehJarVu:huh? marriage so easy one ah? say marry malay girl means tomorrow you will straight away find a malay girl to marry and have kids!?!! My neighbourhood, north, south, east, west all malay muslim.
Chances Better.. -
Originally posted by dinky1409:Wah.. Usually the children of mixed parentage always very good looking sia.. The problem is their ID? What will be showed on their birth certificate or NRIC future. Do I have to change also. Needed to find out, because some of my clients may not be happy with my new ID.
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see mix with which race ??Originally posted by dinky1409:Wah.. Usually the children of mixed parentage always very good looking sia.. -
err.. then wouldn't you have to become a Muslim and pray 5 times a day??Originally posted by king108: No experienced, cannot married yet got another question.
My brother asked me to go for Malay Girl to marry, he say malay girls "sayang Ah Bung ceocoh ceocoh". I got no objection over it lah. Anyway, marry malay girl only need to "potong" a bit then Jalan leh and afterthat masuo sini. My dad also need not to worry about dowry cause the girl side will give to the man. Besides that, I will get a new place to live.. leaving my house to my dad. Of Course, I will have to change my name to
Problem is what happened to my kids if any What will be show on their birth certificate
Will he be a Chinese a Malay a Mix-blood What surname he followed Is he a Majority or Minority?
My dad is very concerned..his thinking is still very old chinese. I am even more worried when their classmates laughed at them too. -
So I will become a Muslim. Pray 5 times a day, no problems lah. But am I still chinese or become a new minority?Originally posted by ShutterBug:err.. then wouldn't you have to become a Muslim and pray 5 times a day?? -
You will become a Chinese Muslim, and only allowed to eat Halal food. I know of a Chinese acquaintance who is like that.Originally posted by king108:So I will become a Muslim. Pray 5 times a day, no problems lah. But am I still chinese or become a new minority? -
Then what is the identity of their children? Chinese or Malay? Since I married out, no married in.Originally posted by Wanda:You will become a Chinese Muslim, and only allowed to eat Halal food. I know of a Chinese acquaintance who is like that. -
My Chinese acquaintance not yet have children, so dunno yet.Originally posted by king108:Then what is the identity of their children? Chinese or Malay? Since I married out, no married in.
Perhaps you can call up the Registry of Births to ask. -
My Chinese acquaintance not yet have children, so dunno yet.
So does he need to cut his skin down below? -
me veri conservativeOriginally posted by dinky1409:Wah.. Usually the children of mixed parentage always very good looking sia.. only wan jipones zar bo -
by convention niaOriginally posted by ShutterBug:err.. then wouldn't you have to become a Muslim and pray 5 times a day?? -
Originally posted by sohguanh:
What skin har?
[b]My Chinese acquaintance not yet have children, so dunno yet.
So does he need to cut his skin down below? [/b]
Hello, don't expect me to ask a mere acquaintance this type of question, right? -
You kid will be half chinese half malay la. Simple as it. JUST LIKE ME!!Originally posted by king108: No experienced, cannot married yet got another question.
My brother asked me to go for Malay Girl to marry, he say malay girls "sayang Ah Bung ceocoh ceocoh". I got no objection over it lah. Anyway, marry malay girl only need to "potong" a bit then Jalan leh and afterthat masuo sini. My dad also need not to worry about dowry cause the girl side will give to the man. Besides that, I will get a new place to live.. leaving my house to my dad. Of Course, I will have to change my name to
Problem is what happened to my kids if any What will be show on their birth certificate
Will he be a Chinese a Malay a Mix-blood What surname he followed Is he a Majority or Minority?
My dad is very concerned..his thinking is still very old chinese. I am even more worried when their classmates laughed at them too. YEAH!!
Anyway, its up to you whether you want your kids to have a surname or what since the chinese is the father. One of my chinese cousin got married to a malay gal and named their daughter without any surnames. As for me, my mum is a chinese so yeah I do not inherit the surname. But i always use it unofficially though. Names on their ic or bc will depends la. Example Ali and your surname is Chin. So his name will be Chin Ali Bin YOUR NAME. Haha simple as that.
Anyway, you will still be chinese la. You can still celebrate your cultural events like Chinese New Year or Reunion dinner or what not. But you got to adhere to muslims rules as well.
And your kid will be mixed blood. How cool is that?? -
nope .. u dont marry out. meaning ur children still has ur surname . juz that u converted to muslim but is still a chinese. ur name will be the same .. juz that there will be some muslin name add to ur original chinese name. ur children race will be chinese lar but religion muslim. same as u. i have quite some friend who are mix as well .. tis is wat i observed .. hope i help.Originally posted by king108:Then what is the identity of their children? Chinese or Malay? Since I married out, no married in. -
Originally posted by sohguanh:
[b]My Chinese acquaintance not yet have children, so dunno yet.
So does he need to cut his skin down below? [/b] Potong is cleansing right..clean if no all the dirty thing stay there. The girl may also get inflected if got germs leh.
Cannot be so selfish, just want to song only. -
the child's surname should follow his/her father's surname. by marrying a malay lady, it's either you or the lady who should convert to Muslim/buddhist. and if u're a muslim, your name should be changed to _____ bin Abdullah, meaning "son of Abdullah', which is the prophet Muhammad's father. it's becoz according to the holy Quran, those who convert to Muslim is considered as clean from sin.
most importantly, your child would be mixed lah. and yeah, those mixed-parentage guys are really good-looking lol. trust me.