Chatting up gals(strangers)
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Anyone wanna try this???
What's a good way for a shy guy to overcome that nervous feeling that holds him back from approaching women?
The answer is to start small.
Don't worry about what anyone else is doing or what anyone else thinks.
Just go out for a day and go to a mall alone. Walk into every store and start a conversation with a woman who works there. Don't worry about whether the woman is good-looking, married or whatever. Simply practice.
At first, let the women start the conversations. When they say, "Can I help you find something?" reply with "Yes, that would be great. I'm looking for joy, peace and a rich girlfriend. Do you have any of those here?" Say it with a straight face, like a comedian would.
After you've done this 20 times, reflect on what you've learned. Think about what worked and what didn't. Think about the conversations that took place as a result.
Take a break, walk down to a department store, and spray some cologne on each wrist. On your right wrist you can spray D&G's "Dolce & Gabbana," and on your left wrist, Armani's "Acqua Di Gio."
Then, walk into 20 more stores. This time, try to make direct eye contact with the first woman you see that works there, and hold it until she either starts talking to you or she looks away. Then walk over to her and say, "Hi, I need a female perspective on something. Which of these colognes do you like better?"
Then, when she chooses one, shake your head and look at her with a disapproving look and say, "You would."
Then give her a sly smile and say, "Why do you like it better? I want to be a chick magnet here, so tell me what you're thinking."
If you do this exactly as I've described, you will have "gotten started," and you'll have a base of experience to work from.
By the way, if any of the women are cute , feel free to say, "Hey, I have to go. Do you have e-mail?" -
pros don't need tips , we use this
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yah u will be slap a few time, punch by the girl guy friend, drag out by security guard and end up in the police station or worst IMH u even finish
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y dun u try it first,kiddo?Originally posted by NewAge:yah u will be slap a few time, punch by the girl guy friend, drag out by security guard and end up in the police station or worst IMH u even finish
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Multiple flaws. Firstly the saleswomen of course will converse with you, because that's their job. But you will be able to converse only because they are in a specific setting and outside that work setting it will not work anymore. Secondly the reflections and learning will also be faulty as they are reflections based on a specific work setting and untransferrable to other settings with other women. Thirdly the parfume thing is really really too made up and unreal. Who will pull it off? I imagine none. This whole article is too dreamy, completely out of touch with reality.
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Actually,you all are reading too much into it,from what I think,the thrust of the article is to make the guy talk more to strangers and in the process become more confident.That's all.Originally posted by #$%^&*:Multiple flaws. Firstly the saleswomen of course will converse with you, because that's their job. But you will be able to converse only because they are in a specific setting and outside that work setting it will not work anymore. Secondly the reflections and learning will also be faulty as they are reflections based on a specific work setting and untransferrable to other settings with other women. Thirdly the parfume thing is really really too made up and unreal. Who will pull it off? I imagine none. This whole article is too dreamy, completely out of touch with reality. -
Smells like David D'Angelo.
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you can only do that in ang moh countries i guess.
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That's a bad way of gaining confidence.Originally posted by Marco_Simone:Actually,you all are reading too much into it,from what I think,the thrust of the article is to make the guy talk more to strangers and in the process become more confident.That's all. -
n..u still dun have a gf huh?
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D'Angelo is better yet ...hai.Originally posted by Kuali Baba:Smells like David D'Angelo. -
locals (either male or female) usually just bochap you or run awayOriginally posted by TwinTurbo_Supra:you can only do that in ang moh countries i guess. -
since yah so clever to think of the method u shld have to honor to try it out firstOriginally posted by Marco_Simone:y dun u try it first,kiddo? -
Ya,the article is written in a Western context.So how would one modify it to suit the local context?Originally posted by Lorry`:locals (either male or female) usually just bochap you or run away -
throw the whole thing outOriginally posted by Marco_Simone:Ya,the article is written in a Western context.So how would one modify it to suit the local context? -
Originally posted by Marco_Simone:
these sounds so familiar...
Anyone wanna try this???
[b]What's a good way for a shy guy to overcome that nervous feeling that holds him back from approaching women?
The answer is to start small.
Don't worry about what anyone else is doing or what anyone else thinks.
Just go out for a day and go to a mall alone. Walk into every store and start a conversation with a woman who works there. Don't worry about whether the woman is good-looking, married or whatever. Simply practice.
At first, let the women start the conversations. When they say, "Can I help you find something?" reply with "Yes, that would be great. I'm looking for joy, peace and a rich girlfriend. Do you have any of those here?" Say it with a straight face, like a comedian would.
After you've done this 20 times, reflect on what you've learned. Think about what worked and what didn't. Think about the conversations that took place as a result.
Take a break, walk down to a department store, and spray some cologne on each wrist. On your right wrist you can spray D&G's "Dolce & Gabbana," and on your left wrist, Armani's "Acqua Di Gio."
Then, walk into 20 more stores. This time, try to make direct eye contact with the first woman you see that works there, and hold it until she either starts talking to you or she looks away. Then walk over to her and say, "Hi, I need a female perspective on something. Which of these colognes do you like better?"
Then, when she chooses one, shake your head and look at her with a disapproving look and say, "You would."
Then give her a sly smile and say, "Why do you like it better? I want to be a chick magnet here, so tell me what you're thinking."
If you do this exactly as I've described, you will have "gotten started," and you'll have a base of experience to work from.
By the way, if any of the women are cute , feel free to say, "Hey, I have to go. Do you have e-mail?"[/b]
i remember reading something like these somewhere sometime ago... -
just do it?Originally posted by MrFugue:pros don't need tips , we use this -
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