all mans parents wan their son marry pretty girl?
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my Question to u. is true?
tat all mans parents wan their son marry pretty girl or rich girl. tell me ok. -
wat do u think....
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my parents only want me to find a good fillal guai gal
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Typical traditional parents wanna find one can cook, good to give birth, can do housework kind lor.. They will take opportunities to do spot check on their future to be xi fu
For me, cook up a few dishes for dinner is tested. Check kitchen got clean up or not is tested. Check toilet bowl got washed properly or not is tested. Check got help their sons iron working clothes is tested.
So wat other tests?
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not too pretty until like slut la....they also dun want the super vain kind
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where do the parents care?
it is not like the father gets to share....
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that kind of parents must be not so deep enuff.
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a fren once said : " i dun wan to marry/gp after girs whom think they r pretty .."
n this after incident where we sat across these two girs in Wisma fd court n noticed these two adults ( in fact he was just looking hilariously at them with their hp busy taking pics of themselves )
then one of them told the one back facing him , she turned ard n stared /snubbed at him .......wow ...
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I think this is kinda like not done anymore. I think most girls these days actually look out for husbands that know and will actually help out around the houseOriginally posted by sohguanh:Typical traditional parents wanna find one can cook, good to give birth, can do housework kind lor.. They will take opportunities to do spot check on their future to be xi fu
For me, cook up a few dishes for dinner is tested. Check kitchen got clean up or not is tested. Check toilet bowl got washed properly or not is tested. Check got help their sons iron working clothes is tested.
So wat other tests?
Though I know of one extreme case is that the guy's mum expects his gf to cook, clean and iron and basically do everything for her precious son if she goes over to his place
The girl involved loved the guy so much that she is willing to do it just for him. -
The girl involved loved the guy so much that she is willing to do it just for him.
Are you a Singaporean? Well now you know why Sporean females hard to get hitched? Cuz they study too much and have too high qualifications so they gradually pull away from their traditional roles
Sporean males LL look for foreign talent bride lor.... you spore gers dun wan got a lot of foreigner queueing up leh... hehe.... -
no. too many SPGs and FBIs around. so bo pianz you see. i pity these men.
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PRC GIRL i find you abit sianz also. used to bang your kind liek crazy while i was in taiwan last time
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pity those not so pretty gals out there if the statement is true
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Originally posted by sohguanh:
Yes I'm Singaporean
[b]The girl involved loved the guy so much that she is willing to do it just for him.
Are you a Singaporean? Well now you know why Sporean females hard to get hitched? Cuz they study too much and have too high qualifications so they gradually pull away from their traditional roles
Sporean males LL look for foreign talent bride lor.... you spore gers dun wan got a lot of foreigner queueing up leh... hehe.... [/b]
No I have no problems getting hitched and neither do my friends
No I'm not playing the traditional role either and neither are they.
I guess it's ultimately what the guy is looking for as well. Not every guy wants a girl who stays at home and look after the house, and not every guy is unreasonable enough to expect their wife to work and cook and bear the responsibility of all the housework and affairs of the children.
I mean, if you think a foreign bride is better for you or other Singaporean men who think the same, by all means go for it.
Ultimately it is personal choice and expectations. -
Ultimately it is personal choice and expectations.
Agree totally. Since we are on this I want to point out seem a lot of Sporean highly educated couples are not having babies and this got our gahmen worried cuz these group of ppl are the one they want their offspring to secure the future for spore. But they are not producing enuff babies. There is a theory Mr Cannot Say Surname Sir is smart couples produce smart babies. The other way round is open for interpretation. But he is not seeing enuff smart babies come out hahahaha.....
In contrast, the M and I race and China and foreign ladies are giving birth at KK hospital. The baby bonus has prompted them but for those spore educated couples the money not good enuff hahaha.... In time to come their offspring will dominate the country. Tink a bit then
I guess as one who rise up so high in company, taking maternity leave is a threat to own position in company after come back? Hehhehee..... -
Originally posted by sohguanh:
What can I say. The baby bonus is really not attractive to those in executive positions. Seriously people in those position are not looking at $ but more on childcare, mobility, lifestyles etc.
[b]Ultimately it is personal choice and expectations.
Agree totally. Since we are on this I want to point out seem a lot of Sporean highly educated couples are not having babies and this got our gahmen worried cuz these group of ppl are the one they want their offspring to secure the future for spore. But they are not producing enuff babies. There is a theory Mr Cannot Say Surname Sir is smart couples produce smart babies. The other way round is open for interpretation. But he is not seeing enuff smart babies come out hahahaha.....
In contrast, the M and I race and China and foreign ladies are giving birth at KK hospital. The baby bonus has prompted them but for those spore educated couples the money not good enuff hahaha.... In time to come their offspring will dominate the country. Tink a bit then
I guess as one who rise up so high in company, taking maternity leave is a threat to own position in company after come back? Hehhehee.....[/b]
Like they say, different strokes for different folks, plus yes the threat of losing the position in the company is very real. I don't see that group of people having kids unless companies are more pro-family. Just the government wanting is not enough. -
nt chinese man,so nt so demanding mahOriginally posted by elindra:Yes I'm Singaporean
No I have no problems getting hitched and neither do my friends
No I'm not playing the traditional role either and neither are they.
I guess it's ultimately what the guy is looking for as well. Not every guy wants a girl who stays at home and look after the house, and not every guy is unreasonable enough to expect their wife to work and cook and bear the responsibility of all the housework and affairs of the children.
I mean, if you think a foreign bride is better for you or other Singaporean men who think the same, by all means go for it.
Ultimately it is personal choice and expectations. yr hb make concession to marry pretty gal wad