For me,Originally posted by iceFatboy:hi Codename,
for me, I have been very careful with associations with female colleagues.
even with those close ones, I maintain no hands policy.
You have my sympathy.
And the best way for you is to look ahead and just treat this as learning experience.
I thank you for sharing with us for I believe there are some who will treat this as an movie script and think it won't happen to them.
Yes, in these sort of cases, it's usually your word against hers, and in the absence of concrete evidence, people tend to believe the woman. You're lucky that you were able to prove your innocence.Originally posted by codename4:For me,
I already did my best NOT to touch my female suibordinate BITCH at all.. but this has to happen and she has to accuse me!
How to prevent ? You cant!
u are really VERY lucky to have escape Unscathed. Many Singaporean men will be in hot soup once their female subordinate decides to FRAME them.Originally posted by new_b:hmm..i had experince this bf..but luckily and thank god, it hadnt went as far as the threadstarter...luckily my superviosr believe i am notthat kind of person
Somtimes..i am irked by the gneder equality, women right or whatever you called them...it seems to be abuse by a certain percentage of women..
really dont know what to say and do
They often speak of women wrath has no limit ( sorry forgot the true phrase)
i sometimes wonder do guys has this kind of fury......how would it be if we were to have this kindof fury ^^.....
Maybe u would like to share your part of the story so that we guys here can beware and the ladies here can warn their brothers and boyfriends or husbands?Originally posted by Misogynist:Just steer clear of women..
Happened to my family once.. a careless brush of the hand and the bleeding harlot shouted molest.
Women can use the women's charter to their advantage, for the louiest reason ever, from cutting a queue to getting money out of you..
Therefore, please estimate for yourself how many innocent MEN has been JAILED for Molest when scheming and vicious women decide to cry rape or molest for revenge!Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Yes, in these sort of cases, it's usually your word against hers, and in the absence of concrete evidence, people tend to believe the woman. You're lucky that you were able to prove your innocence.
It is really very sad the more i think of it. Wonder how many guys are innocently sentenced by the court to jail for nothing.Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Yes, in these sort of cases, it's usually your word against hers, and in the absence of concrete evidence, people tend to believe the woman. You're lucky that you were able to prove your innocence.
U sure he was paid a TIDY sum for the false JAIL term?? So far I have heard of NONE but $50 only!Originally posted by Ravelin:Sorry to hear what you went thru, man...
I recall an ex-neighbour of mine was wrongly accused of rape many years back. He was convicted and sentenced to (if I'm not wrong, 8 years) but was let off after 5.
What happened was his wife truly believe his innocence and spent their life savings hiring a private eye to pursue this woman, his accuser. It finally came to light that she was (and still is a prostitute) and usually profession of this nature did attract the interest of the police who ordered a fresh investigation.
Well, this man was a cabby and this woman had taken his cab and upon reaching the destination, offered sex for payment of the fare. He refused to accept it and even said that she could pay him the money when she have it (of course, he asked for her particulars). She flew into a rage, attacked him and in the very fierce struggle/fight, both suffered injuries and torn clothings.
He stopped when she pulled out a knife (small one but still lethal nevertheless) and she forcefully masturbated him and then apply some semen onto her privates (he did not ejaculate but the trace of semen was harm enough).
She then cried bloody rape and well, the man was arrested. Test found that intercourse was recent (she just had a non-paying customer prior to hailing the cab) coupled with the trace of semen, the cabbie was finished....until, finally...release... but what pain for him and his family!
Frankly, did justice really prevailed ? He was paid a tidy sum for loss of income plus some damages (how much ? no idea) but his episode really leave a very bad aftertaste in my mouth for the slipshod manner in the initial conviction.
Yes, do be careful, guys but sometimes we have to count on more than common sense...we need to have the six sense to anticipate trouble too.
Just my thoughts.