Help me!

• oldbandit

  3 Jul 06, 21:01

  I have a crush on a ger since my pri sch days. 13 years have past and yet i still cant let go. We been together when i was serving my NS, but sadly, she ran awy with another guys who is married. Now 6 years have pass and 2006 i have a 2nd chance to be with her again. Although i am attach now. I want to have a 2nd chance with her. But i will be letting this curr GF down. I do not want to live my life in regrets. Pls advise.
• Ah Cek

  3 Jul 06, 21:02

  stick to ur current one.
• JennTS

  3 Jul 06, 21:39

  Originally posted by Ah Cek:

  stick to ur current one.

  agreed.
  i think that the fact that she left you for other married guys during your NS days says alot about her.
• SGpork

  3 Jul 06, 21:41

  run away with married guy..
  when she already in a relationship
  
  aww...
  so bad
  
  now u have gf.. u want 'dump her' for her..
  so bad ..
  
  
• oldbandit

  3 Jul 06, 21:54

  i dont think i can blame her. After all i was only a Lcp taking home 200+ while he is a Lta with cars. Most impt, he have tons of time while i am always outfield..
• JennTS

  3 Jul 06, 21:57

  so it's "oh that guy is richer. SORRY!"
• SGpork

  3 Jul 06, 22:00

  $_$
  
  
  
  
• FireIce

  3 Jul 06, 23:38

  does she want a chance with u?
  
  actually i dun think u relli love her
  u jus bey gam wan tt time u lose her?
• fugue in C minor

  4 Jul 06, 06:18

  You've to ask your heart who you realli want. No one can help you.
• hoolala

  4 Jul 06, 09:49

  This time you muz plan to cheat all her $$$....tell your gf the plan
• jam on a bread

  4 Jul 06, 09:51

  It's so obvious why ask?
• ShutterBug

  4 Jul 06, 10:09

  Originally posted by oldbandit:

  I have a crush on a ger since my pri sch days. 13 years have past and yet i still cant let go. We been together when i was serving my NS, but sadly, she ran awy with another guys who is married. Now 6 years have pass and 2006 i have a 2nd chance to be with her again. Although i am attach now. I want to have a 2nd chance with her. But i will be letting this curr GF down. I do not want to live my life in regrets. Pls advise.

  Don't make U-turns in life, unnecessarily.
  
  Because when time passes, you can NEVER turn back the clock.
  
  You don't need help, you just need to grow older.
  
• oldbandit

  4 Jul 06, 12:27

  Not that i want to U turn or not happy juz because she ran away or what. If u all have come across this type of feeling which i cant explain, then u will know how i feel. I do want a 2nd chance wuith her but i will be hurting this current ger.... In a state of confusion...
• dcx

  4 Jul 06, 12:30

  Originally posted by oldbandit:

  I have a crush on a ger since my pri sch days. 13 years have past and yet i still cant let go. We been together when i was serving my NS, but sadly, she ran awy with another guys who is married. Now 6 years have pass and 2006 i have a 2nd chance to be with her again. Although i am attach now. I want to have a 2nd chance with her. But i will be letting this curr GF down. I do not want to live my life in regrets. Pls advise.

  My advise......maybe you shld give up your gf n that runaway girl....
• tiggersgd

  4 Jul 06, 12:32

  u just want a fling, am i right?
  
  is your r/s wif ur current gf ok? did u quarrel wif her recently? or do u feel there's no more excitment in the current r/s?
  
• oldbandit

  4 Jul 06, 12:57

  there was no argument in my current r/s. everything is going well. Is just that after she left me while my NS days, there is a void irreplaceable in my heart. I tried but unable to find someone to fill that up. The knot in my heart is tied up strong. Seeking to release myself but by hurting another is to hard for me to do it..