Is body language really that important?
A few days ago, my project group got into a big internal fight... Apparently one of the girls (girl 1) blame another (girl 2) of being rude... According to her (girl 1), the other girl (girl 2) is being rude all the time because of her tone of voice that, according to her, sounds like a threat like always want to fight and disrespecting her by covering her ears when she (GIrl 1) was talking. In the end, big fight, hu-ha.....
To me however, she (girl 1) is over reacting. After 2 mths of working with her (girl 2), I notice her voice tone always sounds like that so my mind auto ignore all hostile sound from her. I also notice, she tend to put her hands on both sides of her head.... (don't know way, but I guess its like the way we put our hands at a relaxed position).
I being her (Girl 1) friend, she expects me to see it her way but I kinda don't. She then called me oblivious...
Come on... people all the time may look or sound rude when they're don't mean to... Back when I work part time, my supervisor told me that at first I look very unfriendly, but as time passed by, she changed her mind. I also see my teacher looked like being rude because he bangs the table alot, but I later figured out that he is kinda esscentric...
So, am I being oblivious or is my friend being over-reacting?
sounds immature.
next, don't get involve when little kids fight.