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hi, we have been together for 1 yr and 5 mths somehow th ethings we do is routine and i am quite sick of it actually..
what things can we do besides going for a holiday??
But going to holiday is still doing the same thing.. nothing special..
although in words is care but no action ... i really dun know .....
sometimes i think spending the time together watch tv is very wasteof time and we both have different interest.. and our thinking is also quite different..
i have fear of getting married ... but the last time i want to marry soon....
sighed .....
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Wah lau....only 1 year 5 months like that liow. Of course you're afraid to get married lah.....I think the other person also afraid to marry you.
OK, OK, only one solution: swinging parties. You need to attend swinging parties.
Eh, seriously, take it easy lah. Such things cannot be forced. Just relax and go with the flow. The more you think, the bigger the problem seems. Take a short break from each other perhaps? Like go out with friends separately, go for holidays separately, etc.
In your rush to get married, please remember that there is one thing worse that not getting married. That is, getting into the wrong marriage! -
perhaps the two of you have been spending too much time with just each other? are you still meeting up with your other friends, pursuing your interests, etc?Originally posted by FlowerGrass:hi, we have been together for 1 yr and 5 mths somehow th ethings we do is routine and i am quite sick of it actually..
what things can we do besides going for a holiday??
But going to holiday is still doing the same thing.. nothing special..
although in words is care but no action ... i really dun know .....
sometimes i think spending the time together watch tv is very wasteof time and we both have different interest.. and our thinking is also quite different..
i have fear of getting married ... but the last time i want to marry soon....
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Steve, dun meet her up everyday. Maybe two or three times a week.
Meanwhile, try to cultivate new activities that both of you may like. Yoga, cycling, watever...
You are getting a new car rite? Take her out for a spin then...
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sg is only so small... the things u can do is not alot even u go overseas so the best thing is find something tat u enjoy doing week in week out...Originally posted by FlowerGrass:hi, we have been together for 1 yr and 5 mths somehow th ethings we do is routine and i am quite sick of it actually..
what things can we do besides going for a holiday??
But going to holiday is still doing the same thing.. nothing special..
although in words is care but no action ... i really dun know .....
sometimes i think spending the time together watch tv is very wasteof time and we both have different interest.. and our thinking is also quite different..
i have fear of getting married ... but the last time i want to marry soon....
sighed ..... -
You are getting a new car rite? Take her out for a spin then... [/b][/quote]
ya.. car soon coming... a black color one -
ya.. car soon coming... a black color one[/b][/quote]Originally posted by FlowerGrass:You are getting a new car rite? Take her out for a spin then...
Which car u getting? Remember to msn me, k?
We can go for a spin together then. Haha...
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thinking back.. not so.. i always keep my time for her.. i think i am in real trouble.. hahaOriginally posted by comberbache:perhaps the two of you have been spending too much time with just each other? are you still meeting up with your other friends, pursuing your interests, etc? -
sure.. its a 1.4 Getz ... hope my loan approvedOriginally posted by stupidjoe:Which car u getting? Remember to msn me, k?
We can go for a spin together then. Haha... 
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If afraid to get married....hmmmm, wrong partner liao. Can mve on oredi dun waste eachother's timeOriginally posted by FlowerGrass:sure.. its a 1.4 Getz ... hope my loan approved