Share your Dating experience dat went wrong...

• Wanda

  10 Jul 06, 14:57

  The guys were rather....erm....un-streetsmart about things (like a bit suaku)?
  
  Come to think of it....they seemed to come from Engrg... Oops, no offence to anyone pls!
• Urroh

  10 Jul 06, 16:39

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  Whats wrong with dating a trans?

  Will you date one then??
• An0nym0us

  10 Jul 06, 18:15

  Originally posted by Urroh:

  Will you date one then??

  I am one and I don't understand whats so repulsive about us...
• Urroh

  10 Jul 06, 18:33

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  I am one and I don't understand whats so repulsive about us...

  Sorry to say this but most of us guys will not date one. There nothing repulsive about trans but it is inbuilt in guys to woo girls.
  
  I have trans and lesbian friends too..
• xfool

  10 Jul 06, 18:59

  Originally posted by Wanda:

  The guys were rather....erm....un-streetsmart about things (like a bit suaku)?
  
  Come to think of it....they seemed to come from Engrg... Oops, no offence to anyone pls!

  wat guys are u referring to?
• An0nym0us

  10 Jul 06, 19:33

  Originally posted by Urroh:

  Sorry to say this but most of us guys will not date one. There nothing repulsive about trans but it is inbuilt in guys to woo girls.
  
  I have trans and lesbian friends too..

  what if a particular trans is uber hot, would that override the mentality then?
• Sakuraflower

  10 Jul 06, 23:55

  ya it is kinda of embarrassing but it is also added up to a lot of fun become both of u are different and can share different experience.
• dinky1409

  11 Jul 06, 00:21

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  what if a particular trans is uber hot, would that override the mentality then?

  It's a general mentality in men to go for real women. How uber hot can the trans be? Unless the guy is not the averaged guy, then probably he won't mind the uber hot trans. I know it's kinda discriminating, but that is how the world works and that is how nature turns us out to be.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  11 Jul 06, 12:03

  Originally posted by Princess livia:

  now stead den ltr nt till 1hr found out tt he 2timed mie..

  ..... Guy liked him gave love a bad name. you will find a better one. You are a princess, lots of prince out there waiting for ya.... cheer up!!
• NeverSayGoodBye

  11 Jul 06, 12:05

  Originally posted by Wanda:

  The guys were rather....erm....un-streetsmart about things (like a bit suaku)?
  
  Come to think of it....they seemed to come from Engrg... Oops, no offence to anyone pls!

  ..... Engrg, got earning power mah.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  11 Jul 06, 12:15

  Originally posted by Urroh:

  Sorry to say this but most of us guys will not date one. There nothing repulsive about trans but it is inbuilt in guys to woo girls.
  
  I have trans and lesbian friends too..

  ..... There is nothing wrong to date a trans, a date is just a date, it is not as if "he" is my exclusive. Trans can be a friend too, just like gays. But when you go out with them prepare for lots of unwanted attention. Trans can be funny too
• newcomer

  11 Jul 06, 12:25

  When we left the cafe, she tried to push the door open but it wont because it's a sliding door. Den I slide it open for her and she was damn paiseh. After we left the cafe she kept hitting my back... said it's my fault. ??? Lol.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  11 Jul 06, 12:31

  Originally posted by dinky1409:

  It's a general mentality in men to go for real women. How uber hot can the trans be? Unless the guy is not the averaged guy, then probably he won't mind the uber hot trans. I know it's kinda discriminating, but that is how the world works and that is how nature turns us out to be.

  ..... well of cause every straight man will go for straight women. When you date a trans it is not that "he" is uber hot then you date ''him", it is because "he" is your friend. Any guy can date a trans, if he is self-assured and comfortable with himself.
  
  Society tends to look down and have low opinion of transvestites, remember that there are minority who doesn't share the same view. They wear a different colour of tinted eyes.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  11 Jul 06, 13:10

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  When we left the cafe, she tried to push the door open but it wont because it's a sliding door. Den I slide it open for her and she was damn paiseh. After we left the cafe she kept hitting my back... said it's my fault. ??? Lol.

  ..... you got the blame ehhh
• newcomer

  11 Jul 06, 14:30

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... well of cause every straight man will go for straight women. When you date a trans it is not that "he" is uber hot then you date ''him", it is because "he" is your friend. Any guy can date a trans, if he is self-assured and comfortable with himself.
  
  Society tends to look down and have low opinion of transvestites, remember that there are minority who doesn't share the same view. They wear a different colour of tinted eyes.

  Isn't this the part where Heng comes in and defend the sexually challenged?
• An0nym0us

  11 Jul 06, 15:12

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... There is nothing wrong to date a trans, a date is just a date, it is not as if "he" is my exclusive. Trans can be a friend too, just like gays. But when you go out with them prepare for lots of unwanted attention. Trans can be funny too

  ..... well of cause every straight man will go for straight women. When you date a trans it is not that "he" is uber hot then you date ''him", it is because "he" is your friend. Any guy can date a trans, if he is self-assured and comfortable with himself.

  Actually what I meant by date was as in a relationship, a BTR kind of thing. Btw, whats so funny about ts?
  
  PS Theres a difference between transvestite and transsexual.
• sohguanh

  11 Jul 06, 15:51

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  PS Theres a difference between transvestite and transsexual.

  The difference is pretty obvious. One have chopped off his little brother while the other is still contemplating to chop it off or hide it ?
• sand king

  11 Jul 06, 16:17

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  Whats wrong with dating a trans?

  its sick man... just sick!!
• FORGET-ME-NOT

  11 Jul 06, 16:19

  We went out for dinner. I ate very little and left a lot of food. He offer to finish my share, I think he is good and understanding. Then we went for a drink, I cn't finish the drink and he offer to finish it. I guess is good to be spendthrift not to this extent.
  
  Another one is he keep staring at me during the movie. Till I can't concentrate
  on the show.
  
  
• xfool

  11 Jul 06, 21:27

  Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:

  We went out for dinner. I ate very little and left a lot of food. He offer to finish my share, I think he is good and understanding. Then we went for a drink, I cn't finish the drink and he offer to finish it. I guess is good to be spendthrift not to this extent.
  
  Another one is he keep staring at me during the movie. Till I can't concentrate
  on the show.
  
  

  so u got ask him why he stare at u?
• vito_corleone

  11 Jul 06, 21:29

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  Actually what I meant by date was as in a relationship, a BTR kind of thing. Btw, whats so funny about ts?
  
  PS Theres a difference between transvestite and transsexual.

  no diff. both equally disgusting.
• NeverSayGoodBye

  12 Jul 06, 10:58

  Originally posted by An0nym0us:

  Actually what I meant by date was as in a relationship, a BTR kind of thing. Btw, whats so funny about ts?
  
  PS Theres a difference between transvestite and transsexual.

  ..... funny in a sense that they got a weird sense of humour, it's a compliment
• NeverSayGoodBye

  12 Jul 06, 11:04

  [quote]Originally posted by FORGET-ME-NOT:
  [b]We went out for dinner. I ate very little and left a lot of food. He offer to finish my share, I think he is good and understanding. Then we went for a drink, I cn't finish the drink and he offer to finish it. I guess is good to be spendthrift not to this extent.
  
  ..... So no more second date?
  
  Another one is he keep staring at me during the movie. Till I can't concentrate
  on the show.
  
  .....He's trying to tell you something
  
  
• CanadianBornChinese

  12 Jul 06, 11:28

  Originally posted by NeverSayGoodBye:

  ..... Another time went out with a friend who is a transvestite, "he" was real pretty and attractive. "He" looks liked a lady. We went for a dinner at a coffeehouse which was quite crowded. The waiter came to take order and later asked '' Any drink sir?'' My friend answered in a macho voice
  "COFFEE PLEASE". Imagine the shock look on the waiter's face. Not forgetting other diners who turned around to stare and sniggered at us. It was an embarassing situation

  HAHAHAHAHA!
  
  PRICELESS!
  
  
• An0nym0us

  12 Jul 06, 19:50

  Originally posted by sohguanh:

  The difference is pretty obvious. One have chopped off his little brother while the other is still contemplating to chop it off or hide it ?

  Not really, transsexuals are those who intend or have gone for a sex change while transvestites are commonly used as a derogatory term to denote guys who have a sexual fetish for crossdressing but it is common for the layman to confuse the 2. (Do note that I have nothing against people with paraphillias that do not harm anybody)