Is it Love or Filtation or .. ??

• moodyuke

  14 Jul 06, 23:26

  Under what circumstances can u tell that a guy likes a gal ?
  
  Asking for my fren on her scenario, I don't noe how to advise her. Need your advice ... Thanks!
  
  Here it goes..
  
  
  I like this colleague of mine and he knows it. We went out a couple of times, alone, 1-to-1.
  Many times, he told me that we are not possible, but he have been doing things I am confused about.
  
  
  
  That day we went for dinner, after that he asked me if he can hug me. I didn't reply. On the way back, he asked again and b4 i can reply, he hugged me and proceed to ask me for a kiss. I relented and reciprocated.
  
  Things went further. A simple kiss become a french kiss and a partial hug becomes a full hug.
  
  Hmmm... What do U guys/Gals think of this scenario..
  Is this guy serious or he is just making use of my friend. She really like him, but not sure if the guy shares the same sentiment, though he 'said so' that they can be v gd fren or even bf/gf but not anything further.
  
• rathcycle

  14 Jul 06, 23:28

  Post in AA and remember to type your topic with no spelling errors, if not later people will laugh at you..
• Kawazoe

  14 Jul 06, 23:30

  so he like her wan or not maybe he jus toying around
• missqi

  14 Jul 06, 23:31

  Originally posted by Kawazoe:

  so he like her wan or not maybe he jus toying around

  exactly.
• moodyuke

  14 Jul 06, 23:34

  Originally posted by missqi:

  exactly.

  Yup, he told her that he like her.. BUT then tell her that he don't think they can proceed on further to Marriage...
  
  So what do u think?
• Bontakun

  15 Jul 06, 00:01

  Originally posted by moodyuke:

  Yup, he told her that he like her.. BUT then tell her that he don't think they can proceed on further to Marriage...
  
  So what do u think?

  I suspect the guy only has intention to date, NOT commit. If your friend is ok with just dating and stuffs, then nth wrong. BUT if your friend has intentions to settle down and are looking for a soul mate, then you know more than I do.
• walesa

  15 Jul 06, 05:17

  Originally posted by moodyuke:

  Yup, he told her that he like her.. BUT then tell her that he don't think they can proceed on further to Marriage...
  
  So what do u think?

  How old is your friend and the guy?
• moodyuke

  15 Jul 06, 09:29

  Originally posted by walesa:

  How old is your friend and the guy?

  fren 20s and guy 30syour opinion?
• killstyle

  15 Jul 06, 09:38

  hahahaha.
  
  why evertime i see a 10 years gap????
  
  fetish for old farts????
  
  
• rathcycle

  15 Jul 06, 09:38

  Originally posted by killstyle:

  hahahaha.
  
  why evertime i see a 10 years gap????
  
  fetish for old farts????
  
  

  Who say cannot be 29 and 31 years old...
• killstyle

  15 Jul 06, 09:39

  you think too much.
  
  most likey its 21 and 31.
  
  
• killstyle

  15 Jul 06, 09:42

  remember this is a fcuked soceity. a sick one.
  
  lots of pervets and sickos around us, lots. in fact majority. this is a sick age for humanity. a sick generation.
  
  only a nuke will remove this dieasease. will cure this cancer. will remove the stain of perservion in huaminty. just like what chemo did to cancer.
• dakkon_blackblade

  15 Jul 06, 10:59

  Save your friend!!! Tell her to stay away from that horny bastard!!! If she's chio and really wants a boyfriend she can come find me.
• ha8n

  15 Jul 06, 11:16

  usually a gal not interested, will directly tell /hint ...
  
  there r times the gal also using the guy wat
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  15 Jul 06, 11:17

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  Post in AA and remember to type your topic with no spelling errors, if not later people will laugh at you..

  
• mamamamama

  15 Jul 06, 17:43

  the guy wan eat her yong tau foo la.. better dun get too close with him.. else later......
• hyperactivechatterbox

  15 Jul 06, 20:02

  I think that your friend should find out more about his mariage status first... Ask around about rumours of him.. To find out his personality more. Better still, she should play cold, to test his reaction...
• kopiosatu

  15 Jul 06, 20:06

  i think its filtration
• walesa

  15 Jul 06, 20:17

  Originally posted by moodyuke:

  fren 20s and guy 30syour opinion?

  This is still too vague - I mean, obviously advice for a 29-year-old and a 31-year-old will be vastly different from that for a 21-year-old and a 39-year old...
  
  Nevertheless, I'm still quite baffled by what he means when he says he sees a future as bf/gf, but not as husband/wife. If that guy was still in his 20's/early 30's, I suppose it'd be understandable of sorts that he might just want a serious relationship, but is not prepared to settle down just yet.
  
  Obviously, players wouldn't even see a future as 'bf/gf', while guys looking for a serious relationship are unlikely to see a future in 'bf/gf', but not as husband/wife.
• M©+square

  15 Jul 06, 20:29

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i think its filtration

  
• Kuali Baba

  16 Jul 06, 01:31

  Avoid him at all cost.
• desp1

  16 Jul 06, 01:47

  wat a horny man...
  wan play liao run away...
  
  god damn....
  
  he handsome???omg..ur frenz good?
  
  maybe he 2 or more timers..
  
  better aviod b4 too late.......
  
  tt guy act onli......sympathy votes...
  simple hug...become Full...
  
  
• browniebaobao

  16 Jul 06, 02:01

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i think its filtration

  filter what?
  
  aiyo threadstarter ar.. wat is filtation?
  
  Apparently he's playing with that girl.
• alivekickin

  17 Jul 06, 21:25

  he's juz playing with the girl la.. not serious de.. he dun respect her at all lor.
  
  stay 1000miles away from him