Originally posted by Cenarious:
you are just attracted to her on first sight??
All relationships are between souls, not merely between incarnated personalities or physical bodies of any one (eg. the present) lifetime.
Initial attraction may be supported or triggered by physical, chemical, biological factors, including sexual attraction; but at the deeper level, it is always a karmic psychospiritual complex that underlies the relationship between two individuals, and one that usually encompasses many lifetimes, not merely the present.
This is especially so, if you find yourself 'strangely' attracted to a person whom, you might otherwise find nondescript or not particularly attractive/pretty/stunning. Usually the first time you meet such a person (with whom you already have a relationship at the soul level, and whom has potentially an important role to play in your (individual and combined) existential program(s) for this lifetime), you will experience a subtle but unmistakable feeling, like an awareness of recognition, a psychic 'spark', or some other (positive loving "old friends/lovers"; or negative ominous "oh no not him/her again") type of feeling.
For more info on relationships across lifetimes, particularly "Evolutionary Duo" relationships, see
*here*.