When choosing a life partner....

• huy

  24 Jul 06, 16:05

  seriously.. i don care.. as long as he has a career and enough to support me, i will be happy with it..
  
  i know of a guy who is only an O' level graduate and now he is the general manager of a company..
• Urroh

  24 Jul 06, 18:28

  Had you never heard that Love is Blind?
  
  When you got yr life partner, do you still care of her background?
• kikq

  24 Jul 06, 23:16

  Originally posted by the.owl:

  if she is not highly educated, she will see education in a different view than you, thats for sure. and you say you know you would but if thats really the case are you so sure? if everyday your husband has to work and work to achieve his higher education whereas you dont even know wtf he is doing and he has no time for you, how would you feel?

  there's a pretty good chance my future husband will be more educated than me and of course i'll support him. and i think he'd tell me what he's doing and where he is. i'd feel lonely that's for sure but it's not going to last forever. i'll manage a few years. i'll have my own job to worry abt too. it's not like im going to sit at home all day waiting for him to come home. i wanted to go to university and get a degree but im not able to cos i cant afford it. i'll be happy for him if his dreams finally come true. and you also have to remember that 'highly educated' doesnt always = smart.
• MingFreeman

  25 Jul 06, 02:22

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Why?
  If ur education background better than her,den she is not fit for ur love???
  

  This question is more suitable for gals
• spinsugar

  25 Jul 06, 11:05

  Yes.
  
  Let me explain.
  
  My mother was from a very wealthy, influential family of inventors, world-class sportsmen/women and high achievers. She married my father, a car salesman at the time. He had poor education, from a very poor family, but had a gift of gab.
  
  He became so insecure that he would constantly threaten my mother to harm her/us kids using knives, blackmail, causing a scene at her office - whatever he could find.. he faced ridicule from friends who knew he was a joke compared to my mother, who was then often praised by her business associates as a "tigress in business". He spent her money in the bucketloads, kept multiple mistresses and caused my mother's business empire to fall. The law could not protect or help us because it considered a "family affair".. he stuck like superglue.. my mother couldn't just hire a hitman if u know what I mean.
  
  I look for a man's life education. Paper qualifications, celebrity status, how high u are up the corporate ladder - all hogwash.[/b]
• the_don

  25 Jul 06, 11:08

  character, clickability > education
• Gedanken

  25 Jul 06, 11:20

  Hwa say! Dondon pops up!
• hurry_man

  25 Jul 06, 11:21

  Ok, in order to have a successful family life, the husband must have higher education qualification, at least a tetiary education..am I right to say tat? cos the males are no doubt the sole breadwinners for their families..
  
  Lets hear ur views on this ...
• ahkico

  25 Jul 06, 16:40

  @ 1st i tot i do.. When choosin a life partner.. He gonna be @ least on par or has higher educational level than mi..
  
  Coz i have the thinkin tat.. Guys R suppossed to be the main breadwinner of the house.. I wanna the guy to be the head rather than mi.. Dun wanna be earnin more & be the breadwinner..
  
  I realise somethin.. Love is bLInd..
  
  My guy.. He's O level holder.. Mi.. Dip holder.. Dun wanna think so much.. Coz all i noe is tat.. I can find a guy who has higher qualification. gives mi a beta quality of life.. BUt no one can replace him in his love 4 mi.. Oops! Kinda out of topic liao.. Sorry!