Originally posted by elasticplastic:
Friends from school or for that matter, a real physical place of meeting, is very different from the ones you make on the net. For me internet friends only come together by that very same interest of the virtual environment that you met each other, be it games or some chat channel or what. Once that interest dies off, you find very few other things to really sustain the friendship. Real life friends are formed through long periods of being together in the same physical space, and sometimes inevitably you will be forced to experience many varied things together, and hence the bonding between these friends will be stronger than those of the virtual environment. You'd have more common collective memories and it'd be easier for "real life" friends to do things together or sustain the friendship, coz your friendship with these people are not just bounded by one single interest. Thats just IMO, haha.
Internet friendship, except in some cases, tend to be rather frivolous and fragile, and often rather superficial.
quite true. but for me, being a scout, i tend to make friends over the net who are also scouts or guides, so there's a common interest there. so nth unsafe about. and i've actually met quite a number of them in campfires and camps and can mingle quite well for the fact that we're bonded in someway alr being in the same organisation. so, while making friends over the net can be risky, by getting the method right, u can get urself a true friend.