Real silly or ... ?
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My collegue's grandmother passed away recently. All my collegues and I contributed our condolences. One of my collegues informed him that some of us wanted to pay last respects. But he told my collegue that he did not wish to invite me and a few collegues to his wake as he had a bad grudge against us. The word "invite" is really rude to use.
This news brought shock to the management.
It is my first time to come across something like that. I find it really silly or ... what u think?
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I think invite is the wrong term to use.
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Don't worry! Be happy always!
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well, since it is not mentioned, we dun noe how bad the grudge is. In any case, its personal and wakes are personal. Its entirely his personal perogative as to who to invite to the wake - and we shld respect.Originally posted by millienium_bear:My collegue's grandmother passed away recently. All my collegues and I contributed our condolences. One of my collegues informed him that some of us wanted to pay last respects. But he told my collegue that he did not wish to invite me and a few collegues to his wake as he had a bad grudge against us. The word "invite" is really rude to use. This news brought shock to the management.
It is my first time to come across something like that. I find it really silly or ... what u think?
He's already bad enough given the demise of someone close to him, I guess he doesn't want his emotions further affected by your presence bah. Leave it loh. Who wants to go to a wake ?
But then again, by doing / saying this, it does not do your relationship with him any good. Wait until he has settled the funeral and stuff, then maybe meet up to resolve the misunderstanding bah.
For this time, leave it loh. -
I always happy one..Originally posted by mhcampboy:Don't worry! Be happy always!
this wont affect me badly.. -
childish.
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ya loh..Originally posted by sermodabian:childish.
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Ya, I let him be since this wont affect me badly.Originally posted by red_amoeba:well, since it is not mentioned, we dun noe how bad the grudge is. In any case, its personal and wakes are personal. Its entirely his personal perogative as to who to invite to the wake - and we shld respect.
He's already bad enough given the demise of someone close to him, I guess he doesn't want his emotions further affected by your presence bah. Leave it loh. Who wants to go to a wake ?
But then again, by doing / saying this, it does not do your relationship with him any good. Wait until he has settled the funeral and stuff, then maybe meet up to resolve the misunderstanding bah.
For this time, leave it loh. I always keep a distance away from him whatever I see him. I can say he is sort of unreasonable and tends to pick on anyone.. Maybe he got nothing better to do.. 