Originally posted by FBI:
OK! THis gal is my classmate and for dunno y recently we kinda click along so well that we become best friends.
Peacock, my fren likes this gal.
Her name is Charcoal.
Charcoal and i were v close, like erm best frens. We talk alots, suan each other also... Basically jus having fun.
Recently things got so well that we will chat frm midnight 2 to 6 in the morning.
We were happy as frens but recently something change.. I suspect she likes me. Cause yesterday, we were talking like usual and then i start to mention abt my life in N A, how stress it is and stuff. THen we talk abt our dreams and told her i wanted to go poly. THen she told me she don have this intention of going poly.
THen i told her that i want everything to b perfect, like studies, games and watever..
She became sad out of the sudden.. then she keeps wanting to log off and telling me "bye, i'm off.. haiz" I was like shock as i dunno wat i done to make her feel sad!
Jus a moment ago, another thing happened. THis time she asked me for help in a assisgnment. When i agreed to help her, she told me "Ai ni wor, thankx" Then she keep saying "Ai ni" and stuff..
Not only these things, most of the time when i didn't reply her msg or i am offline.. She will sms me and say "hey why so fast offline? Stupid boy why never reply my msg" and stuff like that.
ANd jus now, she went to slp and left a sms saying that she wanted to tell me things, but dun want liao.
Ok right now, if she really likes me i really dunno how to answer her as:
I only treat her as a fren, no special feelings.
I don wish to reject her as it will hurt her feelings, i don wish to accept her also.
It will b awkard if she really confess to me..
Like i mentioned b4, my fren peacock likes her! i don wanna hurt my fren feelings also. And i will never fight with frens for a gal..
I jus wanna know, how am i gonna ans her if she really confess to me
Come on, how can this in anyway be deep shit? No disregard to the girl's feelings though, but there are worse situations to be stuck in.
Just be honest with her if she ever asks you and say you have no feelings for her. But tell her that you will always be a friend for her.
How she takes it is totally not in your hands. You could just make it less painful for her.
I don't feel there's any need to blame yourself if you haven't been giving her wrong signals.
plus since she say nothing you also dunno if she really likes you.
