Why Some Teen Wait For SeX?
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Some teens are waiting longer to have sex — they are thinking more carefully about what it means to lose their virginity and begin a sexual relationship.
For these teens, there are many reasons for abstinence (not having sex). Some don't want to worry about unplanned pregnancy and all its consequences. Others see abstinence as a way to protect themselves completely from STDs. Some STDs (like AIDS) can literally make sex a life-or-death situation, and many teens take this very seriously.
Some teens don't have sex because their religion prohibits it or because they simply have a very strong belief system of their own. Other teens may recognize that they aren't ready emotionally and they want to wait until they're absolutely sure they can handle it.
When it comes to sex, there are two very important things to remember: one, that you are ultimately the person in charge of your own happiness and your own body; and two, you have a lot of time to wait until you're totally sure about it. If you decide to put off sex, it's OK — no matter what anyone says. Being a virgin is one of the things that proves you are in charge, and it shows that you are powerful enough to make your own decisions about your mind and body.
If you find yourself feeling confused about decisions related to sex, you may be able to talk to an adult (like a parent, doctor, older sibling, aunt, or uncle) for advice. Keep in mind, though, that everyone's opinion about sex is different. Even though another person may be able to share useful advice, in the end, the decision is up to you. -
*deviation warning
why somebody in life slacks?
answer:
they are caught by an over-pampered shackle regardless of their race or sex... -
say NO!
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wha..?Originally posted by Quarteto Da Pinga:*deviation warning
why somebody in life slacks?
answer:
they are caught by an over-pampered shackle regardless of their race or sex... -
whenit comes to sex before marriage..........."say less, say yes"
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So are you promoting pre-marital sex or what?Originally posted by FERRARIman:Some teens are waiting longer to have sex — they are thinking more carefully about what it means to lose their virginity and begin a sexual relationship.
For these teens, there are many reasons for abstinence (not having sex). Some don't want to worry about unplanned pregnancy and all its consequences. Others see abstinence as a way to protect themselves completely from STDs. Some STDs (like AIDS) can literally make sex a life-or-death situation, and many teens take this very seriously.
Some teens don't have sex because their religion prohibits it or because they simply have a very strong belief system of their own. Other teens may recognize that they aren't ready emotionally and they want to wait until they're absolutely sure they can handle it.
When it comes to sex, there are two very important things to remember: one, that you are ultimately the person in charge of your own happiness and your own body; and two, you have a lot of time to wait until you're totally sure about it. If you decide to put off sex, it's OK — no matter what anyone says. Being a virgin is one of the things that proves you are in charge, and it shows that you are powerful enough to make your own decisions about your mind and body.
If you find yourself feeling confused about decisions related to sex, you may be able to talk to an adult (like a parent, doctor, older sibling, aunt, or uncle) for advice. Keep in mind, though, that everyone's opinion about sex is different. Even though another person may be able to share useful advice, in the end, the decision is up to you. -
bankai!
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its like asking why some people have late lunch.
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Originally posted by dragg:its like asking why some people have late lunch.
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why..nowadays we all so kaypoh about whether people having sex or not har?
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Because we all are becoming worried of those humans who called "man" had sex before marriage. And "sex" is a brand its like a fashion wear trend which very popular now in singapore.. do u believe that now girls/boys in singapore are 50-50 tie with virgins and the non.? or may the non is on the majority?... sumtimes we cant blame the male... sumtime we cant blame both.. hahaz.. its a discussion forum.. no offence.. and no right or wrong..!.Originally posted by laurence82:why..nowadays we all so kaypoh about whether people having sex or not har?
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Who cares?
Why you bother? -
he wished he was born later.
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because im an analysist.Originally posted by missqi:Who cares?
Why you bother? -
Please spell it properly.Originally posted by FERRARIman:because im an analysist.
A-N-A-L-Y-S-T. -
aiya.. aslong people know ok ready liao..Originally posted by missqi:Please spell it properly.
A-N-A-L-Y-S-T. -
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X2Originally posted by boy in blues:say NO!
to pre-marital sex
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some not all... but the trend is more n more teens jump the bandwagon early jz to be labelled as cool... pure stupid...
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i won't force the one i like to do things that i want.
it boils down to a 2 things:
1) Kids are too immature to go steady if they still force their steady to do things against the wishes
2) Kids are gullible nowadays. They easily go steady just because of sweet words by the opposite sex(often the guys) -
wait for sex wrong.
have sex wrong.
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Originally posted by R3SsH|n:
Not really now girls dump guys
[b]i won't force the one i like to do things that i want.
it boils down to a 2 things:
1) Kids are too immature to go steady if they still force their steady to do things against the wishes
2) Kids are gullible nowadays. They easily go steady just because of sweet words by the opposite sex(often the guys)[/b] -
LOL. anyway safe sex is better den no sex.Originally posted by missqi:Please spell it properly.
A-N-A-L-Y-S-T. -
Originally posted by R3SsH|n:i won't force the one i like to do things that i want.
it boils down to a 2 things:
1) Kids are too immature to go steady if they still force their steady to do things against the wishes
2) Kids are gullible nowadays. They easily go steady just because of sweet words by the opposite sex(often the guys) -
so which is it?Originally posted by sinicker:wait for sex wrong.
have sex wrong.
and if sex is wrong i dun wanna be right