Why are u close to your Grandma?
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For those here who are close to your grandma (or grandpa), what exactly are the reasons?
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Pork floss.
But I never know how to make them... I only know that it is being turned over and over again in a frying pan. -
i am not close with them.
closer with my mum, like buddy. -
She took care of me, that is why I was close to her.
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Huh?Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Pork floss.
But I never know how to make them... I only know that it is being turned over and over again in a frying pan.
Liak bo kiu -
Grandma and Grandpa used to take care of me since young. Grandpa dotes on me and cooks the BEST Shark's Fin soup EVER. But he passed away some months ago.
Grandma cookes the best dinner. Loves me grands.
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Cos grandma is now already 77 and like some of u, took care of me when i was young. I'm afraid i will be devastated when she leaves this world.
When i wanted maggi mee, she would cook it w/o hesitation. When i asked my mum to do it, she would say, "Huh?!?! so much MSG, eat what." Maybe that's why.
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Cherish her MORE while there is time. My grandma left before I could cherish her much more than I wanted.Originally posted by Rock^Star:Cos grandma is now already 77 and like some of u, took care of me when i was young. I'm afraid i will be devastated when she leaves this world.
When i wanted maggi mee, she would cook it w/o hesitation. When i asked my mum to do it, she would say, "Huh?!?! so much MSG, eat what." Maybe that's why. -
yeh i cried buckets when grandpa passed away. used to teach me maths and lick his finger while flipping the pages.Originally posted by Quinsy:Grandma and Grandpa used to take care of me since young. Grandpa dotes on me and cooks the BEST Shark's Fin soup EVER. But he passed away some months ago.
Grandma cookes the best dinner. Loves me grands. 
How did u try to get over ur grandpa's death? -
so why didn't u?Originally posted by Bontakun:Cherish her MORE while there is time. My grandma left before I could cherish her much more than I wanted. -
I as a guy was proud and egoistic. My thinking in the past was very "man" style. No "sorry", no "fault", I am lagi best, etc, etc.Originally posted by Rock^Star:so why didn't u?
But slowly I saw my grandmother weaken day by day and I still have not changed my thinking and values much at that time. I felt pain but I do not know how to deal with it and partly is I am scared or proud.
I still do my part as a grandson and care for her, but to me it was never enough. I could have did more but I choked.
Only when she left did I realised what I had MISSED. She may be naggy and stubborn, but she taught me one important thing: Cherish your loved ones.
AND I thank her for teaching me that, because of her passing, I learn how to care for my loved ones. To cherish them and NOT take them for granted. Its not easy, but I am constantly reminding myself regarding this.
Friend, we all only have one life on mother earth. We make full use of it to do what we want and with a clear conscious. We have passion and emotions. These are NOT weak for its the very same things that makes us strong. Use it to strengthen your relationship with the people whom you loved and care about.
Beers! -
my grandma took care of me when i was younger...
fed me shower me this and that...
when she knew i was leaving, she gave me her only jacket so that i can keep warm...
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tis kind of thing gt reason 1 mehOriginally posted by Rock^Star:For those here who are close to your grandma (or grandpa), what exactly are the reasons?
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Yes there is, and even now you cannot see it, in the future you can even state and make power point out of it.Originally posted by tt3:tis kind of thing gt reason 1 meh -
forgive me for being pragmatic, i think that it'd be best to treat family members well right now, than mourning when they die.
my granny cooks great food, and theres a stockpile of junk food and coke (not cocaine, u $*&%^&*!
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gd for u....at least she gave u an invaluable lesson in her final days. this is priceless.Originally posted by Bontakun:I as a guy was proud and egoistic. My thinking in the past was very "man" style. No "sorry", no "fault", I am lagi best, etc, etc.
But slowly I saw my grandmother weaken day by day and I still have not changed my thinking and values much at that time. I felt pain but I do not know how to deal with it and partly is I am scared or proud.
I still do my part as a grandson and care for her, but to me it was never enough. I could have did more but I choked.
Only when she left did I realised what I had MISSED. She may be naggy and stubborn, but she taught me one important thing: Cherish your loved ones.
AND I thank her for teaching me that, because of her passing, I learn how to care for my loved ones. To cherish them and NOT take them for granted. Its not easy, but I am constantly reminding myself regarding this.
Friend, we all only have one life on mother earth. We make full use of it to do what we want and with a clear conscious. We have passion and emotions. These are NOT weak for its the very same things that makes us strong. Use it to strengthen your relationship with the people whom you loved and care about.
Beers! -
Then don't need to know.Originally posted by Rock^Star:Huh? Liak bo kiu -
I just cried for 2 weeks. Went and got a tattoo. Felt the pain, locked that sadness up.Originally posted by Rock^Star:yeh i cried buckets when grandpa passed away. used to teach me maths and lick his finger while flipping the pages.
How did u try to get over ur grandpa's death?
Now i think me kinda ok le. -
Tattoo? What designOriginally posted by Quinsy:I just cried for 2 weeks. Went and got a tattoo. Felt the pain, locked that sadness up.
Now i think me kinda ok le.