Why Do People Want To Hurt Themselves??
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Why is it there are many cases when they are hurt ot heartbroken due to a failed relationship, some tend to hurt themselves even more like cutting wrists, take pills, try to commit suicide etc etc...
I mean, you are already hurt, but why do some people still have the urge to hurt themselves physically?? -
they wan attention, i tink
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self-destruction sometimes has no explanation.
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attention? self destruction?? does it really work??
or its all in the mind? -
ah topic starter, it's clear from your question that you are young or have not loved so deep that when it ends, your world ends too.
i can't speak for all the "self-cutters" but i know some of them do that as an escape from the emotional pain they feel. It's something like this:
your eyes are dry of tears cos you cried so much, your heart is hurting so bad from all the beating it is taking. you take a pen knife, you let it glide across your arm, a thought comes "if physical pain can relieve this misery, even for a sec, i'll do it". you take the pen knife, slowly, very slowly, let the blade do the purpose it was made for - cut. you see blood, the pain from the cut overrides that of you heart. for that moment, just for a moment, you stop crying, you stop hurting. life becomes easier to bear.
If there is anyone out there who is cutting themselves, please pour out your woes to a friend or a blog. Letting your emotions come out would help you heal. -
you never really experience before really distressing? that's why you think that way?Originally posted by mhcampboy:attention? self destruction?? does it really work??
or its all in the mind? -
satanic origin
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wow.. those italic words..Originally posted by the_don:ah topic starter, it's clear from your question that you are young or have not loved so deep that when it ends, your world ends too.
i can't speak for all the "self-cutters" but i know some of them do that as an escape from the emotional pain they feel. It's something like this:
your eyes are dry of tears cos you cried so much, your heart is hurting so bad from all the beating it is taking. you take a pen knife, you let it glide across your arm, a thought comes "if physical pain can relieve this misery, even for a sec, i'll do it". you take the pen knife, slowly, very slowly, let the blade do the purpose it was made for - cut. you see blood, the pain from the cut overrides that of you heart. for that moment, just for a moment, you stop crying, you stop hurting. life becomes easier to bear.
If there is anyone out there who is cutting themselves, please pour out your woes to a friend or a blog. Letting your emotions come out would help you heal.
i guess it could be true.. -
can i hurt others den?
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no witnesses can liaoOriginally posted by Ito_^:can i hurt others den? -
In most of these case, the "self cutter" want to make the partner feel guilty. If they manage to re-attract the attention of the partner with this act, they will use it as emotional ransom against the partner.Originally posted by mhcampboy:Why is it there are many cases when they are hurt ot heartbroken due to a failed relationship, some tend to hurt themselves even more like cutting wrists, take pills, try to commit suicide etc etc...
I mean, you are already hurt, but why do some people still have the urge to hurt themselves physically??
"If you leave me again, I will kill myself and write down your name and what you do to me." -
emotional ransom.. tats true i guess...Originally posted by redness:In most of these case, the "self cutter" want to make the partner feel guilty. If they manage to re-attract the attention of the partner with this act, they will use it as emotional ransom against the partner.
"If you leave me again, I will kill myself and write down your name and what you do to me."
but wad makes the person really brave to actually hurt him/herself...
is love really that strong...
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the desperation for attention?
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ok. no witnesses. noted.Originally posted by missqi:no witnesses can liao 
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most people here are right about the attention seeking bit about some cutters. these people are still very safe, they dun die from cutting themselves.
however there is a group who does it not for attention. they hide their cuts and they can be very cheerful on the outside. these are the really scary ones cos they are the kind that may end up dead
so if you know anyone who cuts themselves, dun be quick to judge. sometimes these pple really need help. -
@mhcampboy
You will know when you get there.
@The don
True, suicide who really want to end their life does not inform anyone when they commit the act.
I have also seem a friend's friend who enjoy scarring herself with symbols. -
oh wow... hopefully i wont get to tat kind of stage where hurting myself is an option...Originally posted by redness:@mhcampboy
You will know when you get there.
@The don
True, suicide who really want to end their life does not inform anyone when they commit the act.
I have also seem a friend's friend who enjoy scarring herself with symbols. -
This is true of how i feel.Originally posted by the_don:ah topic starter, it's clear from your question that you are young or have not loved so deep that when it ends, your world ends too.
i can't speak for all the "self-cutters" but i know some of them do that as an escape from the emotional pain they feel. It's something like this:
your eyes are dry of tears cos you cried so much, your heart is hurting so bad from all the beating it is taking. you take a pen knife, you let it glide across your arm, a thought comes "if physical pain can relieve this misery, even for a sec, i'll do it". you take the pen knife, slowly, very slowly, let the blade do the purpose it was made for - cut. you see blood, the pain from the cut overrides that of you heart. for that moment, just for a moment, you stop crying, you stop hurting. life becomes easier to bear.
If there is anyone out there who is cutting themselves, please pour out your woes to a friend or a blog. Letting your emotions come out would help you heal. -
If there is anyone out there who is cutting themselves, please pour out your woes to a friend or a blog. Letting your emotions come out would help you heal. -quoted off the_donOriginally posted by VampireEB:This is true of how i feel.
plz dun do anything foolish.there'll always hope -
Originally posted by bluewinged:
Just let off stream to cool down myself.
[b]If there is anyone out there who is cutting themselves, please pour out your woes to a friend or a blog. Letting your emotions come out would help you heal. -quoted off the_don
plz dun do anything foolish.there'll always hope[/b]
As long as i dun hurt anyone. -
Part of it.Originally posted by NT2:satanic origin -
the anyone shldnt include yourself alsoOriginally posted by VampireEB:Just let off stream to cool down myself.
As long as i dun hurt anyone. -
cos those people are farking SELFISH !!!!! .....
they only think about themselves .... they like to wallow in self-pity ....
they never think of the pain they'll be causing to their loved ones ....
no one on this earth LIVES FOR THEMSELVES ALONE !!! ......
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Trying my best to refrain from doing it again.Originally posted by bluewinged:the anyone shldnt include yourself also
Definitely not trying to catch some attentions as wat pples tot.