Originally posted by iPeace:
I seemed like I can't like anyone now...
My heart seem numb, stale, unable to get moved by other guys.
I guess it's partly becuz of my past r'ship (which hurt rather alot).
But I have moved on! I don't get down, sad or depress whenever I think about my ex-bf. But I just can't bring myself to like someone else...
I seem to forget how liking someone else is like now... or even how to start liking one.
Hmm, then how about starting to like and love yourself first?
Without filling yourself up with this love, you will find it hard to accept another person.
How to love yourself? Go and do things which you enjoy doing. Give yourself quality time all by yourself. Rediscover your strenghs and virtues. Laugh.
Give yourself the best gift: Time.
There is no hurry to like anybody now, is there?
When the student is ready, the teacher appears.
When you are ready to love again, he will appear. Meantime, get yourself ready by loving yourself.
Hugs
Originally posted by iPeace:
If a girl first met this guy, but doesn't have any initial attraction towards him, does it mean this girl would not like this guy even after some time later?
How do u come about liking someone?
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When attraction is there, you'll like this person!
No initial attraction doesn't mean there won't be in time to come. For certain qualities need time and sometimes events to happen before it can be discovered
