love at first sight = lust ...not love

• Classyfied

  5 Jan 07, 17:06

  recently i sortta fell in love with a girl at first sight...but i coudnt really tell if its love or lust..but i believe la...its more to the lust side..i admit ...ok...
  
  so this sets me thinking wheather love at first sight among ppl ..........
  izit really love or juz for sex?wad do u guys think?
• Agenda

  5 Jan 07, 17:11

  Think hard about her, Imagine you and her in a beach setting.. She is about to make out with you..
  
  Did you get a hard-on? If yes means lust, No means you have erectile dysfuntion
  
  Depends la, Sometimes love at first sight is because of this certain charm the person has
• digicharat

  5 Jan 07, 17:12

  this one need to think one meh?
  there is no such thing as love at first sight.
  only lust at first sight.
  
  please teach me how the hell are you going to love a complete stranger at first sight?
• rainee

  5 Jan 07, 17:16

  do u even know her yet?
  
  u dun even know her name rite?
• aku1b0d0

  5 Jan 07, 18:08

  depends. i've through this thing before, and that feeling only last for a few weeks
• freakass

  5 Jan 07, 19:51

  Are you talking about the girl who danced with you during the school orientation?
  
  I had a similar experience as yours too... I also danced with a girl during the orientation in my JC years ago... Then I had a crush on her... kept on looking out for her in school... then as weeks go by, I totally forgot about her already...So it simply means that if there's no interaction at all, there can be no love... only lust
• toyota-corolla

  5 Jan 07, 19:55

  Originally posted by freakass:

  Are you talking about the girl who danced with you during the school orientation?
  
  I had a similar experience as yours too... I also danced with a girl during the orientation in my JC years ago... Then I had a crush on her... kept on looking out for her in school... then as weeks go by, I totally forgot about her already...So it simply means that if there's no interaction at all, there can be no love... only lust

  ineresting.
  
  but is interesting if both party is interested in each other.
• CoolMyth

  5 Jan 07, 20:02

  Can love exist without lust? Personally, I dun believe so.
  
  You shall have asked the gal for her name, msn when got the chance. If no more chance, then it's time to switch target.
• snop_coolz

  5 Jan 07, 20:03

  lol..but in sg its not really common for guys to just ask for msn..or mayb i m being left out...
• CoolMyth

  5 Jan 07, 20:05

  Originally posted by snop_coolz:

  lol..but in sg its not really common for guys to just ask for msn..or mayb i m being left out...

  I thought now ask msn is the fad? Otherwise ask what?
  
  I'm not too aware of recent fads also.
• freakass

  5 Jan 07, 20:08

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Can love exist without lust? Personally, I dun believe so.
  
  You shall have asked the gal for her name, msn when got the chance. If no more chance, then it's time to switch target.

  Yah I feel the same as you... Love cannot exist without lust.... but Lust can definitely exist without love...
• Sheepophile

  5 Jan 07, 20:08

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Can love exist without lust?
  

  yes.
• freakass

  5 Jan 07, 20:10

  Originally posted by snop_coolz:

  lol..but in sg its not really common for guys to just ask for msn..or mayb i m being left out...

  Seriously, I think you stand a better chance if you have asked for a girl's msn or email... cos it's not as threatening and intruding as asking for her handphone number... For msn and email, she can easily block you... but for handphone number, she cant stop u frm calling and it will be so damn irritating...
• freakass

  5 Jan 07, 20:12

  Originally posted by Sheepophile:

  yes.

  You just said that love can exist without lust? This is so funny... so if you love your partner so much that it's 100% love and no lust, then you are not able to have sex with him/her.... Lust is exactly the thing that turns you on....
• aku1b0d0

  5 Jan 07, 20:15

  Originally posted by CoolMyth:

  Can love exist without lust? Personally, I dun believe so.
  
  You shall have asked the gal for her name, msn when got the chance. If no more chance, then it's time to switch target.

  agreed. at least some lust lah. kissing also involves lust mah.
• Sheepophile

  5 Jan 07, 20:23

  Originally posted by freakass:

  You just said that love can exist without lust? This is so funny... so if you love your partner so much that it's 100% love and no lust, then you are not able to have sex with him/her.... Lust is exactly the thing that turns you on....

  im capable of that and that feeling was reciprocated too. everheard of kinship?
• Classyfied

  5 Jan 07, 21:11

  Originally posted by freakass:

  Seriously, I think you stand a better chance if you have asked for a girl's msn or email... cos it's not as threatening and intruding as asking for her handphone number... For msn and email, she can easily block you... but for handphone number, she cant stop u frm calling and it will be so damn irritating...

  thats the thing that keep me depressed these 2 days cuz i forgot to ask for her name!!! too mesmerized by her liao at that time ...then everything also forget...i now want to locate her also cannot find liao...wtf...only know she same orientation house as me..wtf
• BenBenDeZhu

  5 Jan 07, 21:16

  Originally posted by Classyfied:

  thats the thing that keep me depressed these 2 days cuz i forgot to ask for her name!!! too mesmerized by her liao at that time ...then everything also forget...i now want to locate her also cannot find liao...wtf...only know she same orientation house as me..wtf

  come i help you find her, $50 per hr
• jaydunkfull

  5 Jan 07, 21:38

  if you like her because she is chio,then that is lust. if you like her at first sight and she is not chio and you know it,then it is definitely more than lust.
• Classyfied

  5 Jan 07, 21:40

  Originally posted by jaydunkfull:

  if you like her because she is chio,then that is lust. if you like her at first sight and she is not chio and you know it,then it is definitely more than lust.

  ya...i know its lust liao...but then how to stop myself from thinking her?
• BenBenDeZhu

  5 Jan 07, 21:44

  Originally posted by Classyfied:

  ya...i know its lust liao...but then how to stop myself from thinking her?

  think of fiona xie
• Classyfied

  5 Jan 07, 21:47

  Originally posted by BenBenDeZhu:

  think of fiona xie

  i nt attracted to fiona xie.i swear.not even a bit.
• Agenda

  5 Jan 07, 21:50

  Originally posted by Classyfied:

  i nt attracted to fiona xie.i swear.not even a bit.

  neither am i. Those boobs... bu shi ren de
• Classyfied

  5 Jan 07, 22:02

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  neither am i. Those boobs... bu shi ren de

  i really cannot understand why guys are so crazy over her lor...btw i not joking ar...i say real one..i prefer the ''bring ur toothbrush'' female host..dun know the name
• freakass

  5 Jan 07, 22:20

  Originally posted by Classyfied:

  i really cannot understand why guys are so crazy over her lor...btw i not joking ar...i say real one..i prefer the ''bring ur toothbrush'' female host..dun know the name

  What show is that? Is it still on TV? Which channel, what time? I wanna see your taste... hahaha