Trainin up :)

• kenn3th

  18 Jan 07, 20:03

  if let's say i m an emo person, so how do i train up on my mental, so as to be mentally stronger.
• MyPillowTalks

  18 Jan 07, 20:50

  find ways to stop getting angry when u lose a quarrel, other ways other then the count 1-10.....which is useless i tink
• kenn3th

  18 Jan 07, 20:52

  but if u are so emotional that u cry when u get scolded?
• Short Ninja

  18 Jan 07, 20:57

  Your sense of guilt is making you cry.To be mentally strong you have to get hurt more often instead of running away from the problem.......hey, wait a minute!! why am I giving advice to my son????
• R3SsH|n

  18 Jan 07, 21:04

  be proud.prideful.
• snop_coolz

  18 Jan 07, 21:10

  school for scoundle..
• MyPillowTalks

  18 Jan 07, 21:11

  Originally posted by R3SsH|n:

  be proud.prideful.

  but not arrogant
• kenn3th

  18 Jan 07, 23:18

  but let's say if someone needs to be less emo, eg: crying,
  
  so how do i get hurt more often? till i am numb from everything?
• Bontakun

  18 Jan 07, 23:22

  Originally posted by kenn3th:

  but let's say if someone needs to be less emo, eg: crying,
  
  so how do i get hurt more often? till i am numb from everything?

  Not like that lah... that is no diff from drowning in the drunkardness of being numb or void of such emotions.
  
  There is no foolproof way to "train up" your emotional level. Its the experiences you have and your encounters in the future that help you grow and mature more.
• kenn3th

  18 Jan 07, 23:25

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Not like that lah... that is no diff from drowning in the drunkardness of being numb or void of such emotions.
  
  There is no foolproof way to "train up" your emotional level. Its the experiences you have and your encounters in the future that help you grow and mature more.

  but in normal day activities, if for eg control my urge to, eh buy something or eat fastfood does it "strengthened" me?
• popikachu

  18 Jan 07, 23:28

  slap yourself real hard,
  
  then tell yourself,
  wtf am i doing?
• kenn3th

  18 Jan 07, 23:29

  [quote]Originally posted by popikachu:
  slap yourself real hard,
  
  then tell yourself,
  wtf am i doing?[/quote
  
  why are u a p-member? can u slap urself hard and tell me why?
• Bontakun

  18 Jan 07, 23:31

  Originally posted by kenn3th:

  but in normal day activities, if for eg control my urge to, eh buy something or eat fastfood does it "strengthened" me?

  In a "sense" yes. You exercise self-control to refuse to do something you desire. Then you will reflect on why you do it. Is it "right" or "wrong"? How you justify your decision to do so and otherwise. THe next time can you do it again or will you do the other way?
  
  All these and more, you learn more, you grow, you understand more and somehow you mature more.
• kenn3th

  18 Jan 07, 23:33

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  In a "sense" yes. You exercise self-control to refuse to do something you desire. Then you will reflect on why you do it. Is it "right" or "wrong"? How you justify your decision to do so and otherwise. THe next time can you do it again or will you do the other way?
  
  All these and more, you learn more, you grow, you understand more and somehow you mature more.

  icicx thx