PAIN in the NECK....
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Given a CHOICE of either, would you rather be YOU HAPPY while OTHERS all around you have to SUFFER...
Or you SUFFER and the rest of the people around you HAPPY...?
What is your NORMAL PRACTICE....? WHY...?? -
why u cannot post in AA?
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Consensus.
Unless die die muz one suffer, then me 1st. After dat take turns.
I dun tink its healthy in any given situation, be it work or friends or family, to have one person suffer at the expense of others. Muz talk abt it and find ways to remedy it.
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This is a CHIT CHATTING and HYPOTHETICAL question...Originally posted by FireIce:why u cannot post in AA?
Not my agony, complaint, ranting or anything like that...?
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Btw, I can post in AA what... I just posted in AA not too long ago...? <Originally posted by FireIce:why u cannot post in AA?> -
Given a CHOICE of either, would you rather be YOU HAPPY while OTHERS all around you have to SUFFER...
I Rather be happy...Too bad la...Its every man for Himself...
Or you SUFFER and the rest of the people around you HAPPY...?
What is your NORMAL PRACTICE....? WHY...??
In the first place...Why make others Unhappy Or hurt others ?
"You Get what you Give" -
Let me be happy first. If got enough happy leftover, then pass around the happy.
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YOU don't go to hell, WHO does?
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It depends on the circumstances.Originally posted by Devil1976:Given a CHOICE of either, would you rather be YOU HAPPY while OTHERS all around you have to SUFFER...
Or you SUFFER and the rest of the people around you HAPPY...?
What is your NORMAL PRACTICE....? WHY...??
While we can't possibly please everyone we come across, we shouldn't deliberately try to make people's lives miserable either.
Scenario 1: You want to be an engineer but your parents want you to be doctor. So what would you do here? Would you choose to do engineering to be happy or to do what your parents want you to do, to make them happy but you feel miserable? If I were put in that situation, I would rather upset my parents and choose to do what I want to do. It's my career for the next 30++ years.... why do something I don't enjoy at all?? Your parents will always be your parents and they will love you regardless!!
Scenario 2: You like rock music and like to turn it up so loud day and night until all your neighbours can hear it. All your neighbours including whoever living in your house with you obviously will feel annoyed with the loud music. So in that case, what would you do? Just to be happy and let them suffer?? I don't think so and I don't believe one will be happy living a life like that with the whole world hating them, oh well, assuming one lives with a conscience anyway.
Whatever you do, there's always a consequence. It's just a matter of whether that's the consequence you're happy to bear.
To me, so long as at the end of the day my conscience is clear, my happiness will always come first. This is what boundaries mean, and please don't be mistaken with self-centredness.
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AA people having too much pain in the neck to answer devil-san
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I think i rather be the one suffering. Afterall how happy can i go when i see the others suffering.
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Hmm....well it depends la...if the others ard me are my father or mother or my sis...l will rather tk up the sufferingOriginally posted by Devil1976:Given a CHOICE of either, would you rather be YOU HAPPY while OTHERS all around you have to SUFFER...
Or you SUFFER and the rest of the people around you HAPPY...?
What is your NORMAL PRACTICE....? WHY...??
if not...dun tink l will lehzzz....dun care so much liao oso , but then l will see the situation oso la..if alot of ppl....l tink l mite tk up the suffering and let others be happy bah -
Scenario 2: You like rock music and like to turn it up so loud day and night until all your neighbours can hear it. All your neighbours including whoever living in your house with you obviously will feel annoyed with the loud music. So in that case, what would you do? Just to be happy and let them suffer?? I don't think so and I don't believe one will be happy living a life like that with the whole world hating them, oh well, assuming one lives with a conscience anyway.
I close Doors and Windows...dont know whether they can hear or not...
But for this i will admit i am at wrong...But if people are giving unreasonable demands...Like trying to put me down for their self Esteem...they can Dream on... -
neck pain?go find Chiropractor.
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if it is for my girl yes if others no
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other people suffering around me makes me happyOriginally posted by Devil1976:Given a CHOICE of either, would you rather be YOU HAPPY while OTHERS all around you have to SUFFER...
Or you SUFFER and the rest of the people around you HAPPY...?
What is your NORMAL PRACTICE....? WHY...?? -
i rather suffer
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I face that Scenario almost everyday. But I usually dun on it loudly at night or even sometimes during the day. If I am really keen in rocking out that day, I will be glad that there is an invention called Head/earphones.Originally posted by honeymouse:Scenario 2: You like rock music and like to turn it up so loud day and night until all your neighbours can hear it. All your neighbours including whoever living in your house with you obviously will feel annoyed with the loud music. So in that case, what would you do? Just to be happy and let them suffer?? I don't think so and I don't believe one will be happy living a life like that with the whole world hating them, oh well, assuming one lives with a conscience anyway.