For those with BFs who ride
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Does your BF go to m'sia frequently for food and petrol? Does he go for late night supper with them frequently too?
I can't help it but feel irritated when he does... He doesn't bring me along. For m'sia, I know it's cos he goes fast and he doesn't feel safe with me behind him.
For singapore, it's probably cos I have to work the next day so he doesn't get me along.
I tell him that he'd better not have any gal on his bike. Ever.
It's not that i dun trust him... but... sometimes when he goes on these trips, i feel jealous. Maybe he's starting to spend more time with the biker frenz than me that's why? i don't know... -
check his hp
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send a private eye to check on him?
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Ya lor. Check his handphone, wallet or bag if u dun trust him.
Anyway, its common for bikers and car enthusiast to meet up friends and go jb together especially at night.
So dun worry so much la. -
i think i can oni say......get used to it.............
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you do know that there are ALOT of night clubs in JB right?
instead of him riding, someone may be riding him. if you get the drift. -
hmm.. but it's not that i think he actually cheats on me. it's more like.... he spends more time with his bike than with me.. so i guess... i'm jealous that way.
it's not that i'm not willing to go for his little trips. he never even bothered to ask. when i offer to go, he juz ignores the question altogether.
is it that he just needs his space? or do bikers juz dun like people who dun ride to tag along? -
Yes he needs his space. If you know him well enough.. then im sure you would understand...Originally posted by juz_A_gal:hmm.. but it's not that i think he actually cheats on me. it's more like.... he spends more time with his bike than with me.. so i guess... i'm jealous that way.
it's not that i'm not willing to go for his little trips. he never even bothered to ask. when i offer to go, he juz ignores the question altogether.
is it that he just needs his space? or do bikers juz dun like people who dun ride to tag along?
its a man thing anyway... even i dun get it..
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as far as i know, he and the others always go by 2nd link. over there, not only can they speed and test how fast they can go, it's safer since all the crime seems to happen in JB (causeway).
so.. nightclubs? nah. i think they really go for the food and petrol. esp since got a few gals with them too. -
coz..you are a gal?Originally posted by mhcampboy:its a man thing anyway... even i dun get it.. -
Maybe he mindful of your safety ma. Go there still have to look after you might not be so fun. Jb not say very safe also.
I go there about once a month with friends but nobody other than my parents seem to mind. -
it is very very common for riders to go malaysia to pump petrol...
i heard from a number of the that it is real cheap and worth the time...
but id dunno cus i dont have a bike... i am still underage...
and it is also very normal for riders to go out together with their friend...
i know alot of rider from mac and they are the same... all nv bring along their gf one even they no working... only once in a very long time they bring...
yup... thats normal... -
Originally posted by laurence82:coz..you are a gal?
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think too much
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I guess that's too bad for me then. It's not once a month. He can sometimes go twice a week, on top of other supper outings.
Anyway, thanks to all who responded. I just needed to hear from others... some sort of reassurance.... -
so dat means u're neither male or female?Originally posted by mhcampboy: -
malaysia dangerous...i think he dun let u tag along because malaysia is not safe enough...
somemore malaysia crimes rates is like never lowering? -
2nd link is really only food, petrol and nothing else. as for riding the bike as fast as it can go... coz we living in singapore, and i assume he is riding a big bike, therefore, only 2nd link can sastify their speed adrenline...Originally posted by juz_A_gal:I guess that's too bad for me then. It's not once a month. He can sometimes go twice a week, on top of other supper outings.
Anyway, thanks to all who responded. I just needed to hear from others... some sort of reassurance....
and its very normal for bikers to meet up and talk about bikes, bikes and bikes...
coz i am one of those... crazy over bikes.
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So you want him to bring you along.
Both of you get involve in a car accident and die?
He prolly cares about you so he not bringing you along la.
And if he brings you along. Being with his friend they prolly just talk about bikes bikes bikes and bikes.
And you be standing at there like a dummy. Asking him to go back to sg earlier.
Guys dont like to be disturb by their gf while they are with their friends.
Sometimes you got to put up with things, have hope in urself and trust in your bf. -
Ask the rider....
go msia dun bring u I can understand....
if supper outing u oso can;t tag along means.......
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it's better than letting him ride you ryte?...
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"Letting him ride me"??????????
ya. Local supper also no go. i give up. like u all say, they only talk abt bike things. he prob scared i bored. scared for my safety.
perhaps i'm also jealous he gets to go to so many places (even in singapore, like romantic spots too) that he never even bring me before.
i ask him bring me, all he say is "next time". kaoz.
then the things we land up doing together become quite regular and boring. i personally enjoy spending time with him whatever we do, but i scared to him, his bike frenz more interesting than me...
i seriously think too much huh. -
since in cyber space I'll tell u the truth lo...
local supper and rounding nv go means something is fishy lo...
but smart women wun care much... U dun either~!! -
so, he's going to seedy places wit his buddies, but I don't think there's anything you can do about tt.
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hmm... i think its up to the individual bah...
some of my friends don't like to bring their gf along when we go rounding and supper. the reason they give is scared they bored. and also, riding in a grp with a pillion adds on to the responsibility of the rider. maybe cannot fully enjoy the rounding trip bah.
but i think most outing involves male and female riders. so nothing fishy to assume. and i doubt they visit romantic places. coz for my grp, we only go to some prata house, end up at yishun dam, then back to some prata house again. sounds boring rite? its the companionship and topic that counts. some gf just cannot accept such arrangements.
we even meet up 3 - 4 times a week. sometimes just la kopi and nothing else.
you can always visit www.singaporebikes.com to see the outings they discussed.
the best is find out the main reason why is he not bring you along.