Love

• Xephone_xenon

  11 Feb 07, 10:05

  Are we using this term "love" too easily when it comes to BGR?
  For example.
  Some guy has been physically attracted to some other chiobu.
  And start to think that he "love' her.
  And start to jot on how much he love her in his own webblog or note book.
  Start to have fantasies of himself being with her and so on.
  
  I tot love in BGR is something that needs time to be slowly made out together by both willing parties? Having mutual respect for each other and stuff.
  Why are people nowdays using this term like so easily?
• udontknowme

  11 Feb 07, 10:07

  there are many different types of love
  
  love between parent and child
  love between siblings
  love between friends
  love between gf and bf...
  etc...
  
  of course...many pple also take lust and infatuation for love...
  but hey...INITIALLY it does feel like love...
  to them...
  ahahah...
• Xephone_xenon

  11 Feb 07, 10:08

  Originally posted by udontknowme:

  there are many different types of love
  
  love between parent and child
  love between siblings
  love between friends
  love between gf and bf...
  etc...
  
  of course...many pple also take lust and infatuation for love...
  but hey...INITIALLY it does feel like love...
  to them...
  ahahah...

  Oh okay. What i am talking about here is BGR.
  I can understand the love between relatives and close friends.
• digicharat

  11 Feb 07, 10:27

  love is just a nicer word for lust.
• Xephone_xenon

  11 Feb 07, 10:29

  Originally posted by digicharat:

  love is just a nicer word for lust.

  i think there are still true love.
  its just really hard to find.
• Ito_^

  11 Feb 07, 10:31

  love at first sight!
• Xiao Jun

  11 Feb 07, 10:35

  I've been told that love dispels all fears by my closest friends...
  
  But through my perception...I think that lust diepels all fears...not love...
  
  That's why so many people say it...but its so very difficult to find one that means it...
• Eternal-fire

  11 Feb 07, 10:47

  People just can't differentiate love and infaution which is sad. They might think they love that someone but in the end they mind find out it's not love all along and causes unhappy things to happen.
• Xephone_xenon

  11 Feb 07, 15:07

  Okay consider this.
  
  Guy meet girl in sec1.
  Girl does not really look good. Guy dont mind of looks.
  Decided to make friends with her. Just like normal friends.
  During sec2 they start to get pretty close. But they are still friends.
  Sec3 girl and guy went to different class.
  They didt talk much after that. But when there are troubles. Guy will help girl.
  And girl even start to have a relationship with another guy.
  But Guy a dont mind. Even though he is slightly attracted to the girl already.
  During sec4. Guy starts to think he likes the girl.
  But he kept quiet all the way. He knows that if he ask for a relatioship there is a 90% chance that girl will say yes.
  But as he feels that it is a crucial year for girl.
  And thinks that girl should focus on her O level first as its more impt then BGR.
  So is this true love? As guy did not want anything is return from girl. Is there any lust involved here?
• gigabyte14

  11 Feb 07, 15:14

  that's crush.
  
  valentine day is coming, try telling her in msn or sumthin,
  
  "will u be my valentine dis yr?"
  
  works for me.
• Xephone_xenon

  11 Feb 07, 15:18

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  that's crush.
  
  valentine day is coming, try telling her in msn or sumthin,
  
  "will u be my valentine dis yr?"
  
  works for me.

  Bah. I dont need to have her.
  I rather she focus on her studies then regret when she does badly for her Os.
• Patrik

  11 Feb 07, 15:24

  Overused till it has lost its meaning.
• cyrusv2

  11 Feb 07, 16:04

  modern society ma..
• Eric Cartman

  11 Feb 07, 16:06

  True Love is not just for 1 person. For 1 person it is nostalgia.
• Eternal-fire

  11 Feb 07, 16:25

  Originally posted by Xephone_xenon:

  Okay consider this.
  
  Guy meet girl in sec1.
  Girl does not really look good. Guy dont mind of looks.
  Decided to make friends with her. Just like normal friends.
  During sec2 they start to get pretty close. But they are still friends.
  Sec3 girl and guy went to different class.
  They didt talk much after that. But when there are troubles. Guy will help girl.
  And girl even start to have a relationship with another guy.
  But Guy a dont mind. Even though he is slightly attracted to the girl already.
  During sec4. Guy starts to think he likes the girl.
  But he kept quiet all the way. He knows that if he ask for a relatioship there is a 90% chance that girl will say yes.
  But as he feels that it is a crucial year for girl.
  And thinks that girl should focus on her O level first as its more impt then BGR.
  So is this true love? As guy did not want anything is return from girl. Is there any lust involved here?

  Well unless I am the guy, I wouldn't know if it's lust. Because he might have thoughts of screwing her all along.
• Xephone_xenon

  11 Feb 07, 18:45

  Originally posted by Eternal-fire:

  Well unless I am the guy, I wouldn't know if it's lust. Because he might have thoughts of screwing her all along.

  What if he does not have thoughts of that ?
• Mysteria

  11 Feb 07, 21:30

  If you love the girl, you will feel that it is disgusting to see her naked.
• Cool-gal

  11 Feb 07, 22:46

  love is unconditional.
  if u can do just tat, then it is love.
  
• SingaporeMacross

  11 Feb 07, 22:49

  love is not merely a feeling. it must be built on a strong foundation.
• fallin

  11 Feb 07, 23:04

  Many people,IMHO, has a overly idealistic concept, even more so reinforced by the ideas that Hollywood hammer them with every year.