problems disappear when you stop focusing on them
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I will write a short thing (for the first time in my life).
problems disappear when you stop focusing on them (especially in relationships. as in, not just bg relationship, but also between family, friend, etc)
Evidence:
- My best guy friend who kinda got into a bg relationship with me (kinda early huh) stopped talking to me completely after he liked someone else, but after I stopped viewing him as my ex-bestguyfriend/whatever, I stopped trying to avoid him purposely.
Explanation:
- I started to play basketball with my other guy friends again, without trying to stay out of his way, and he started talking to me again. (Come on, it's kind of hard not to when you're on the same court.) Maybe its also 'cause, before, I was pushing him away, because I expected us to be best friends forever, and when we couldnt just talk like we used to, I got ...irritated.
I've been reading Aunt Agony recently, and everyone seems to have some kinda problem. Y'know, with girls/guys (more often, its girls). But maybe it just needs time. Or maybe it's time to start putting your focus on other things.
Yeah. (Okay, it wasnt so short after all. Sorry...) -
Is Loving someone who I shouldn't is call a problem?
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it depends. how much do you want her to love you back?
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Sounds like you figured some things out and are pretty level-headed at the moment.Originally posted by da-cheese-freakk:I will write a short thing (for the first time in my life).
problems disappear when you stop focusing on them (especially in relationships. as in, not just bg relationship, but also between family, friend, etc)
Evidence:
- My best guy friend who kinda got into a bg relationship with me (kinda early huh) stopped talking to me completely after he liked someone else, but after I stopped viewing him as my ex-bestguyfriend/whatever, I stopped trying to avoid him purposely.
Explanation:
- I started to play basketball with my other guy friends again, without trying to stay out of his way, and he started talking to me again. (Come on, it's kind of hard not to when you're on the same court.) Maybe its also 'cause, before, I was pushing him away, because I expected us to be best friends forever, and when we couldnt just talk like we used to, I got ...irritated.
I've been reading Aunt Agony recently, and everyone seems to have some kinda problem. Y'know, with girls/guys (more often, its girls). But maybe it just needs time. Or maybe it's time to start putting your focus on other things.
Yeah. (Okay, it wasnt so short after all. Sorry...)