Girls out there..

• Devilplot

  18 Mar 07, 14:07

  Hey i just broke up ith my gf not long ago..i din really understand her feelings and failed to showenough concern for her...all along she was hoping that i could realise her feelings but i din..i chose not to address the problems becos i scared that i might worsen the problems. She has this very good friend in Uni who is always there for her and she told me that she might consider giving him a chance...well i know its my fault but guys i really do love her alot and i never fail to shower loads of love on her..i am getting over her now and i know time will heal eveything..
  Just want to ask girls out there,what do u really want from yr BF?
• dahliamorie

  18 Mar 07, 14:21

  For me, it's Respect.
• Vel Vel

  18 Mar 07, 14:38

  sincerity and effort
• Patrik

  18 Mar 07, 14:40

  She is tired of u i guess.
  The other guy more handsome?richer?got car?
• Devilplot

  18 Mar 07, 14:45

  She isn't the materialistic type...guess maybe that guy is more suitable for her since they share same interest and he really is alkways therefor hr whenever she is down and not me...
• TXian

  18 Mar 07, 14:55

  Originally posted by Vel Vel:

  sincerity and effort

  Yeah, sincerity and efforts. Sincerity as in you truly love her and show it to her. I remember watching the show Evelyn Tan hosted on parenthood. They say there are 5 ways in which people wants to be love and different people have difference in which is important to them.
  
  The 5 are:
  - service: like doing things for each other.
  - gifts: buying things for them
  - verbal affirmation
  - special moments
  - body language.
  
  So the two most importantly ranked is the way your partner likes loves to be expressed and you can work on that.
  
  Effort will come naturally if you really want the relationship to work.
  
  Good luck dude!
• Patrik

  18 Mar 07, 14:56

  Originally posted by Devilplot:

  She isn't the materialistic type...guess maybe that guy is more suitable for her since they share same interest and he really is alkways therefor hr whenever she is down and not me...

  Dun be surprised if that guy is partly the cause of the break up.
• walesa

  18 Mar 07, 16:47

  Originally posted by Devilplot:

  Just want to ask girls out there,what do u really want from yr BF?

  There's no foolproof answer to this? It really depends on the age of the girl in question (among other things), doesn't it?
  
  I don't think a girl in her early teens would be looking for the same things as one in her late teens; likewise, it's equally unlikely one in the early stages of adulthood(ie.still studying) would look for the same things as one who is looking to settle down...