Friends attacking you on their blogs.

• Jerina

  26 Mar 07, 12:07

  Have you guys had any experience where a so-called friend verbally attacks you in her blog?
  
  She'll make certain references in her blog and you know that she is 'suan'-ing you.
  
  I'm not one to confront, so I just ignore it. But it is getting irritating. That girl has very strong opinions & high viewpoint of herself & she usually disses those who are not like her.
  
  We are complete opposites and she's someone who gets jealous of people & loves the one up-manship game. Likes to show off and compete & she doesn't realise it.
  
  The horrible thing is, our other friends can tolerate it. Am I being sensitive?
• mhcampboy

  26 Mar 07, 12:08

  Go and make ur own blog and blog abt it too!
• charlize

  26 Mar 07, 12:10

  Fight, fight.
  
  
• gigabyte14

  26 Mar 07, 12:10

  happens all the time.
  
  it's better, since you know what they think about you and what you can do to change it.
• jay_rocks

  26 Mar 07, 12:11

  aunt agony or whinehouse!!
  
  hmm, why not u ignore abt her? dun make friend with her lor
• Jerina

  26 Mar 07, 12:14

  Originally posted by mhcampboy:

  Go and make ur own blog and blog abt it too!

  I have a blog already. I did subtle suan-ing back but stopped it a while ago, coz it's so ridiculous. But she hasnt stopped.
  
  I dont want to burn bridges-lah. Our clique has 10 people, if I rage an attack on her, my friendship with the rest will be affected too.
  
  No point stooping to that kind of low level
  
  
• hiphop2009

  26 Mar 07, 12:15

  Originally posted by mhcampboy:

  Go and make ur own blog and blog abt it too!

  bingo!
  
  haha, anyway, it is really damn childish.
  
  although no one has shot me in blogs before, however, i suggested u might wan to do these:
  
  if dey have tag, leave a comment dere to defend urself.
  
  u can set up ur own blogs, link it to her n refute those untrue stuff or explain.
  
  get some of ur frenz to help u.
  
  dun get into personal attacks. personal attacks will only lead to shooting urself in ur foot. from wad u said, such pple are likely to flame u n do some personal attacks. if she does, "attack" her with facts (nt flame back) and make her looks like someone without morals (i cant teach u dat, u have to learn it)
  
  yup...some points yeah?
• Ignatiaus

  26 Mar 07, 12:20

  Having a blog = pulling down your pants giving everyone you know a chance to spank your ass.
• TYING

  26 Mar 07, 12:30

  go one round and shoot her back lor.
• fudgester

  26 Mar 07, 12:36

  The moment someone shoves a knife into my back....
  
  .... is the exact moment that person ceases to be a friend.
  
  - Fudgie
• jedditte

  26 Mar 07, 14:04

  Originally posted by hiphop2009:

  bingo!
  
  haha, anyway, it is really damn childish.
  
  although no one has shot me in blogs before, however, i suggested u might wan to do these:
  
  if dey have tag, leave a comment dere to defend urself.
  
  u can set up ur own blogs, link it to her n refute those untrue stuff or explain.
  
  get some of ur frenz to help u.
  
  dun get into personal attacks. personal attacks will only lead to shooting urself in ur foot. from wad u said, such pple are likely to flame u n do some personal attacks. if she does, "attack" her with facts (nt flame back) and make her looks like someone without morals (i cant teach u dat, u have to learn it)
  
  yup...some points yeah?

  what about not even bother what that blog says? perhaps some people do that just for the kick of seeing you flaring up and get into flame wars.
• Xephone_xenon

  26 Mar 07, 14:39

  Where is the ?
• allentyb

  26 Mar 07, 14:40

  +1 before this thread, kenna close
• Keii

  26 Mar 07, 14:42

  Originally posted by Jerina:

  Have you guys had any experience where a so-called friend verbally attacks you in her blog?
  
  She'll make certain references in her blog and you know that she is 'suan'-ing you.
  
  I'm not one to confront, so I just ignore it. But it is getting irritating. That girl has very strong opinions & high viewpoint of herself & she usually disses those who are not like her.
  
  We are complete opposites and she's someone who gets jealous of people & loves the one up-manship game. Likes to show off and compete & she doesn't realise it.
  
  The horrible thing is, our other friends can tolerate it. Am I being sensitive?

  it happens all the time. either take it seriously. or just ignore it. your friends. your choice.
• An0nym0us

  26 Mar 07, 17:27

  Happens all the time, just ignore, usually I can't be bothered.
• kid_kid

  26 Mar 07, 17:57

  she is not your friend...
• M551Sheridian

  26 Mar 07, 18:03

  DON BE HER FREN!!! WAT KIND OF FREN ATTACK U !! UNLESS IS JOKE LA!!!
  
  But then you believe me har?
• turbo_drift

  26 Mar 07, 18:04

  Originally posted by M551Sheridian:

  DON BE HER FREN!!! WAT KIND OF FREN ATTACK U !! UNLESS IS JOKE LA!!!
  
  But then you believe me har?

  
• MyPillowTalks

  26 Mar 07, 18:14

  no one attack me before lea...
  
  but incase, i will change proxy, then put a link in their tag that links to a website tht had trojan horses.......which almost got me banned
• Ito_^

  26 Mar 07, 18:51

  abit from my former project mate la.
  
  but my fault oso and she dunnoe i noe, so i keep quiet oso lor.
• ndmmxiaomayi

  26 Mar 07, 18:52

  boh si kan ker hiew.
  
  If cannot tahan, just log in and press the Delete button to delete the blog.
• ironpeasant

  26 Mar 07, 19:19

  it is childish ang gutless imo. I'll confront the person if i were u. No pt ranting behind the screen and having no guts to say it out face to face.
• sermodabian

  26 Mar 07, 19:45

  Grow up.
• CatchNoBall

  26 Mar 07, 21:17

  Most of these things are just passing phases of life, she'll eventually realise how childish she is and stop doing it, just bear with it.
• hunn

  26 Mar 07, 21:55

  And you still call her a FRIEND?