Do Marriage really turn a Man to be more mature in

• noahnoah

  11 Apr 07, 08:54

  
  his thinking and also be more responsible
  
  in many areas too?
  
  wat you guys think?
• Wanda

  11 Apr 07, 09:49

  The man had better be mature BEFORE he enters into marriage, not after.
• the.owl

  11 Apr 07, 10:08

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  his thinking and also be more responsible
  
  in many areas too?
  
  wat you guys think?

  judging from what I've seen of many married men, no.
• elindra

  11 Apr 07, 10:09

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  his thinking and also be more responsible
  
  in many areas too?
  
  wat you guys think?

  No
  If immature they remain immature
  Seen too many that remained immature even when they become fathers
  
  
• noahnoah

  11 Apr 07, 10:17

  
  
  my insurance agent very hardworking sia
  
  I ask him why so hardworking sia
  
  he told me so that i can give my wife
  
  a good life ...so that she dun need to work
  
  and enjoy a comfort life
  
  wow i mean how many man are like him
  
  sia
  
  think of the wife only sia
  
  
• elindra

  11 Apr 07, 10:19

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  my insurance agent very hardworking sia
  
  I ask him why so hardworking sia
  
  he told me so that i can give my wife
  
  a good life ...so that she dun need to work
  
  and enjoy a comfort life
  
  wow i mean how many man are like him
  
  sia
  
  think of the wife only sia
  
  

  More then you think
• Cool-gal

  11 Apr 07, 10:22

  i see tat most of ur threads link to marriage n kids.
  
• noahnoah

  11 Apr 07, 10:23

  Originally posted by Cool-gal:

  i see tat most of ur threads link to marriage n kids.
  

  because i am old liao
  
  so link more to marriage and kids lor
  
  so that when time come
  
  i know wat to do mah
  
  
• Mid9Sun

  11 Apr 07, 10:25

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  my insurance agent very hardworking sia
  
  I ask him why so hardworking sia
  
  he told me so that i can give my wife
  
  a good life ...so that she dun need to work
  
  and enjoy a comfort life
  
  wow i mean how many man are like him
  
  sia
  
  think of the wife only sia
  
  

  Marriage is abt 2 person ..not 1 side provide for the other, etc ....
  
  I mean its nice of your insurance agent to want to gie his wife a good life,
  but not to the expense of his personal needs.
  
  The very simple fact is that if he cant even take care of himself properly....u think he can really take care of the family for the along haul??
  
  What if he overworked himself to death or something...his family will be worse of then before isnt it?
  
  
• noahnoah

  11 Apr 07, 10:27

  Originally posted by Mid9Sun:

  Marriage is abt 2 person ..not 1 side provide for the other, etc ....
  
  I mean its nice of your insurance agent to want to gie his wife a good life,
  but not to the expense of his personal needs.
  
  The very simple fact is that if the he cant even take care of himself properly....u think he can really take care of the family for the along haul??
  
  What if he overworked himself to death or something...his family will be worst of then before isnt it?
  
  

  if some overwork then hand IC over liao
  
  can claim out the insurance money or watever investment
  
  out liao mah
  
  
• ahman28

  11 Apr 07, 11:12

  if marriage can turn a person to be more mature..then y there are still so many ppl get divorce??
  
• eviljustice

  11 Apr 07, 11:37

  depends on their mind set
• hisoka

  11 Apr 07, 11:39

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  my insurance agent very hardworking sia
  
  I ask him why so hardworking sia
  
  he told me so that i can give my wife
  
  a good life ...so that she dun need to work
  
  and enjoy a comfort life
  
  wow i mean how many man are like him
  
  sia
  
  think of the wife only sia
  
  

  you never ask him. he work so hard always nto aroudn wait his wife look for other guys how?
  
  he give her such a good life, no need to work, wait she bored and find other men how?
  
  he give her a comfort life so got xiao bai nian target her for the money how?
• xShevchenkox

  11 Apr 07, 11:41

  l haven marry but l am a mature young lad
• Hamiltonian1125

  11 Apr 07, 12:18

  Originally posted by Wanda:

  The man had better be mature BEFORE he enters into marriage, not after.

  x2
• Darkness_hacker99

  11 Apr 07, 12:26

  Originally posted by xShevchenkox:

  l haven marry but l am a mature young lad

  
• stan.

  11 Apr 07, 12:41

  it turns a man older faster becaus of stress.
• Cool-gal

  11 Apr 07, 13:47

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  because i am old liao
  
  so link more to marriage and kids lor
  
  so that when time come
  
  i know wat to do mah
  
  

  oic.
  trying to get some ideas first huh..
  get married then, u can tell us real life story of urs.
  
• xShevchenkox

  11 Apr 07, 13:48

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  

  darkness u keep laughing at me, l will paiseh de
• Kuali Baba

  12 Apr 07, 04:18

  No, it doesn't wake the useless ones up.
• Sheepophile

  12 Apr 07, 06:27

  Originally posted by noahnoah:

  my insurance agent very hardworking sia
  
  I ask him why so hardworking sia
  
  he told me so that i can give my wife
  
  a good life ...so that she dun need to work
  
  and enjoy a comfort life
  
  wow i mean how many man are like him
  
  sia
  
  think of the wife only sia
  
  

  talk only sia. many insurance agents say dis wan. however behind their wives backs those who very rich also will go for outside fun. thats why need alot of money.
• furideriku

  12 Apr 07, 08:14

  of course lar will mature .. more responsibilities given ...
• Chin Eng

  12 Apr 07, 08:16

  Most certainly NO.