people keep asking for sincere friends or bf/gf

• january

  28 Apr 07, 11:47

  but what exactly does it take to be sincere.
  
  isn't it just another word that people use and hopes in friend or gf but dun really noe what it is and how to be it??
  
  we are sure still stupid i think as human.
• ditzy

  28 Apr 07, 11:47

  Point taken.
• turbo_drift

  28 Apr 07, 11:48

  Jot it down liaox....
• Darkness_hacker99

  28 Apr 07, 12:04

  recorded.
• maggot

  28 Apr 07, 12:05

  Hoping it will last long
• AndrewPKYap

  28 Apr 07, 12:06

  It takes sincerity...
• mr_sotong

  28 Apr 07, 12:07

  sincere = sex partner..
• hondapons

  28 Apr 07, 12:25

  Originally posted by mr_sotong:

  sincere = sex partner..

  
• Bontakun

  28 Apr 07, 12:36

  Originally posted by january:

  but what exactly does it take to be sincere.
  
  isn't it just another word that people use and hopes in friend or gf but dun really noe what it is and how to be it??
  
  we are sure still stupid i think as human.

  Hmm... To me, sincerity is whereby you have no ulterior or interior motives towards that person or misconception towards what that person may be. No ill feelings or whatsoever towards that person EVEN if that person may have some misgivings towards you.
  
  Sincerity to me is shown by heart and action. The mind may tell you to be cautious, but trust and have faith. That is sincerity for me loh.
• soulwinner

  28 Apr 07, 12:38

  Sometime it is hard to judge a human heart..
• january

  28 Apr 07, 12:41

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Hmm... To me, sincerity is whereby you have no ulterior or interior motives towards that person or misconception towards what that person may be. No ill feelings or whatsoever towards that person EVEN if that person may have some misgivings towards you.
  
  Sincerity to me is shown by heart and action. The mind may tell you to be cautious, but trust and have faith. That is sincerity for me loh.

  fair enuff. but this not easy right to be this right?
• Bontakun

  28 Apr 07, 12:47

  Originally posted by january:

  fair enuff. but this not easy right to be this right?

  There is no 'right' or 'wrong' here. Its more towards what your mind is thinking and what your heart is feeling. Your conscience too is debating what is the 'right' thing to do. Still its my ranting only.
  
  Its very hard indeed. Unless you are as gullible as me, simply trust on the 1st instance then it won't be easy to be sincere towards people. There is good and bad actually lah, in the context where humans are involved. So in the end its up to you to decide how you want to go about it.
  
  Beers!
• untitledwav

  28 Apr 07, 12:54

  if people have to keep asking for sincerity, it only goes to show how sad society is.